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Hey Guys, it's OKAY to be "Girly" (Page 4)
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It is okay to be girly.
Ehhhh... men please don't - you should have the, "right" to, but if you want to retain your dignity, keep you pastels, skirts and umbrellas in the closet with your feminine side.
Why is it so undignified to go feminine things? Please elaborate.
sorry- do*
N2S - Decently attractive guy in heels and a dress comes up to you and asks for your number, you're telling me that you'd be totally dtf?
Cause I wouldn't let that guy anywhere near me. It's just not a good look. It's like if he grew man-boobs or had no sense of dress and wore sweatpants on a date. I'm sorry, I have eyesight - it's not dignified, if men want to be the best version of themselves, they need to dress well, work out, and acquire knowledge - same with women. Encouraging this behavior just makes people lonely.
Dressing in pastel colours is not the same as, or even related to cross dressing. You just generally have to look wealthy to pull it off.
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@Infynis
Not a good look. They look gay - like they just got back from anal on the tennis court.
okay so by that logic I assume you dont date any women who wear pants? or play sports? because it must be SO undignified for a woman to participate in manly things.
If she's feminine, Id dare her. But if she's wearing plaid flannels, has short hair and wears exclusively jeans she's just unappealing. What guy wants to date Rachael Maddow?
Look at those guys in the picture with the pastel colors? Sexy? I think no, and I think you also think no.
yes it's a fast changing world out there one size no longer fits all.
eastern men, berate women, just for being women. why would eastern men WANT to be women
It really isn't lol.
There is no objective "right" or "wrong" (especially in fashion), therefore technically, whether it is "okay" or "not" is absolutely up to one's own personal interpretation.
Dictating this as a general norm for others to follow however is just a sign of narcissism and/or egocentrism.
@Mesonfielde Not really true there is actually a pretty distinct idea of what is right or wrong when it comes to men being masculine and or feminine, has been for a long time.
In all technicallity it has been forever subjective. "Masculine" ancient Greeks used to have homosexual sex when going to war. What will you make of that?
Yes, and look how much trouble it's causing.
@Mesonfielde Agreed. Well put šš¼
@ThisDudeHere I find it ironic.
From your perspective it is. But for them it was normal.
Again, this whole thing just is subjective. Has always been. Masculinity and femininity have never been constant throughout history. Look at 17th and 18th century male aristocracy - their clothes look feminine to us, especially the high heels. But they were normal for them at the time and un-feminine for women, who eventually started copying it.
@ThisDudeHere You'd have to understand my perspective first to make that claim and even then it's not really my perspective but just basic history. If your familiar with Greek history then you know what I am talking about.
@ThisDudeHere Clothing is subjective. Masculinity is not.
@hausmeister1707 so what do you make of Greek warriors, who could break any modern soldier's spine with a pinky, if they had sex with each other?
@ThisDudeHere Masculinity and homosexuality has nothing to do with each other. Also i think you are a little exaggerating this "spartans were gay" nonsense.
@hausmeister1707 Maybe I am, maybe I am no exaggerating.
But again the subjectivity comes in to play because just the last century homosexuality was linked to being feminine.
Thanks, but no thanks.
They can, but it's still cringe as fuck.
That's it i'm leaving this planet.
What the hell is wrong with you girls today... like really?
Try this and women will reject you.
That seems true, but I bet it depends more on what you say and how you act. If you wear a skirt but you say all the right things they won't reject you
@frozenhorizon
Are you wiling to test your theory?
@englisc If I had the right things to say, sure. but I don't so I can't test it
@frozenhorizon
Ok. I don't think it would work anyway because attraction is a lot more than just the words you say.
Well you defiantly missed me with that gay shit.
trust me... it's not...
My father often complains like a woman
no stop trying to make men gay lol
not all gay guys are feminine and not all straight guys are masculine
not all people have 2 eyes. you see? thats how stupid this sounds
eww please no to the second one >.<
that's like candy with sweets and sugar, i mean really?
Aye! True that!
No it isn't...
No, it's NOT OK to be girly...
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its a mytake.. its supposed to be long. why are you looking at mytakes if you dont want to read things?
nah faggot