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MEN WAKE UP: Regain Your Masculinity and Build Something Bigger Than Yourself

Men have lost their way. They are in a state of despair, insecurity, and lack of accomplishment. The society of the past has paved the way for a society which lacks real men. We need to regain our masculinity in order to have a positive impact in our families, communities, and ourselves.

Work hard, be fearless, and make something bigger than yourself
Work hard, be fearless, and make something bigger than yourself



SEX IS NOT EVERYTHING

So many men are obsessed with sex. The culture we live in is hyper-sexualized and a man's value is in how many women he can bed. However this is shallow, destructive, unproductive, and childish. Sex is not everything, its not the goal, and its only a small part of life. If men were focused on building a career and building relationships with everyone in their community, the women would come. And when they come you can choose the one you feel most connected with, marry her and have sex for the rest of your life with her.

STOP WASTING TIME
Time is finite. When we waste time on things that don't improve our circumstance we are hurting ourselves in the long term. Imagine all those hours you spent playing video-games, you spent working a job, getting a skill, or networking. You would probably be in a more secure circumstance, have more money saved and have more confidence in your abilities.

SAVE YOUR MONEY
Success is about sacrifice, and money is the measure of your success in our current society. Money allows us to have more security, less worries, and allows us to access a larger network of people. Spending your money on a lease on a car you shouldn't be driving, a $600 phone, $200 pants, and with a bunch of TV subscriptions. Those things don't last. Men should be investing in value, not in material. You can invest in rental properties, businesses, stocks, and community. These things will last longer than the fancy pants you bought.

COMMIT YOURSELF

Commitment is all about duty. Duty is a moral responsibility to something greater than yourself. By taking on duty we give our life purpose. Purpose is a powerful motivator. Commitment is key building anything in life. So don't be afraid of commitment, embrace it. If you commit yourself to a woman, a career, and to family, you will have all your needs met.

STOP YOUR ADDICTIONS
So many men nowadays are addicted to substances and behaviors which are destructive. Drugs, alcohol, sex and pornography. All these things take away from your social life, your commitments, your money, your sex life, and your time. Its up to us to control our behavior.

HOW TO DEAL WITH WOMEN

Many men don't know how to deal with women because they had passive fathers, aggressive mothers, or were told masculinity was not virtuous while developing. Women are simple, they want security, status, and to be controlled. Right now women are controlled by ideas, that are given to them by a society which wants to take advantage of them. As a man, its your responsibility to provide women with security, protection and provisions. However, never let a woman control you or dictate what you do. Don't deal with women who disrespect you at all or in any manner, avoid women who have addictions, and don't date a woman who doesn't respect her father. If a woman does not respect her father, she will not respect any man.

CONCLUSION
All these points have a common thread that runs through them all. It is self-control. When a man can't control himself, he will be controlled. He will be controlled by all his vices. He will have many masters. Be the master of yourself, don't let anything control you. Do what is right and good will happen.

MEN WAKE UP: Regain Your Masculinity and Build Something Bigger Than Yourself
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