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A Gentleman Always Wins The Girl (Page 3)
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So sad to read all of the comments left by guys saying that this is a waste of time or that that prefer to act like they don’t give a shit because women prey”bad boys”. Let me tell you something. REAL WOMEN DO NOT. You wouldn’t want those girls anyway and the girls who are decent won’t put up with that shit.
I’m an ex model and I dumped a good looking pilot because of his bad boy ways. Now I’m with a guy who is working hard to improve himself but treats me like I’m the most special woman in the world and I have no regrets. Mr pilot does though... calls me every so often crying and begging me to take him back
Food for thought
is this guy rich?
False. You make some good points, especially the advice at the bottom. I agree with all of it, mostly. However, the gentleman DOES NOT always win the girl. That is such a false statement. Not every woman is deserving of a gentleman. They think they are, but only a lady deserves a gentleman. You cannot have expectations of a man and not hold yourself to the same standard. Respect goes both ways.
Yet young women repeatedly choose jerks, especially at your age, (it says that you're 23).. so many women your age say they want a nice good guy but those the other ones they put in the friend zone so they can go after the bad boys... A gentleman does not always win the girl..
I'm a gentleman. I was brought up this way. I treat everybody Good, even if they are rude to me.
Girls don't like gentlemen. They like "bad Boys" who are gonna go "Pump&Dump" with them.
This is BS. Gentlemen don't get girls, they get used and abused. Jerks get to fuck the girls.
#ChangeMyMind
Wow I just said much the same on Quora a couple of weeks ago. it was surprisingly much shorter. Lol I only threw that in because I have a habit of writing essays everytime I post/reply to something. It is definitely nice to see it from the whole guys being a gentleman thing is the same from the point of view of the experts ;)
absolutely true.. and if you're with someone that doesn't like chivalry than find someone else. Your best bet is to completely avoid leftist feminist women.
Well said
Good take, but I think most of that goes both ways, take the take and flip the genders around and that would also be a quality woman in my opinion, so I think it is ultimately about being a decent person. (I don't know too many guys who want a woman who blames all men, etc.)
In other words, I think the take basically describes a decent person, which will do well with both genders.
My response is... Things Women Should Care About on a First Date With a Man (Satire)
This was years ago. Today the asshole gets the sex EVERYTIME, what the gentleman today gets is the used up 35-40 year old after all the badboys have fucked her dry.
I see a LOT of these types of "now I want to be an old fashioned good woman" now that it's too late. 4th wave feminism changed men's view of women and it's likely never going back to how it was. Don't come trying to be a good nice girl now that the world is ending.
Well, unfortunately for the little bimbo here, this is the truth. Sad, really, what they have done.
But everything is ALWAYS ALL about them, isn't it? Not one shred of what SHE would do for her man. Not. One. Thing.
Says the man in his late 30s who is used
I'd be very interested in figuring out what makes you believe, as a woman, that you deserve special treatment from me as a man. If men are meant to do these chivalrous things, what is the responsibility of women in this case as well. It can't be one person working on the relationship. It can't be one person in the relationship does everything and the other is catered to. This was a nice read, but a little lopsided if I'm honest
Amazing amazing.
Let's put these into practice oh doesn't work I wonder why. Because this men is just paragraphs of bullshit. Women say all these things and then when it matters they change their mind. Why because women are judgmental pieces of shit who have no chivalry themselves they'll say I like a guy with blue eyes here he comes and they will discriminate and say no.
Every woman is different. Stop generalizing
@kim45456 No actually that's the insanely funny thing every woman is very alike especially when it comes to lying.
Thst is like ssying every man are potential rapists
@kim45456 The metoo movement pretty much does claim all men are (potentially) rapists. I've heard it for years, all around in general. It ranges from overhearing a public conversation, to being told it myself. It's a stereotype that men only want sex, too. Generalizations.
@kim45456 I know and how ironic how nearly every man is at some point in their lives are accused of rape and a large portion are under false rape allegations. You see you women are all alike I knew this because your not the first to say it.
@Daniel3035 you are complaining about women who falsely accuse men but you also are making false statements to hate on women. How hypocritical is that?
@RickPen yes, that why the opinion should not generalize
@kim45456 I'm not making false statements your previous response proved that and it's not to hate on women it's the genuine truth. The fact you're trying to say I'm doing this to hate on women shows you can't accept the truth. And what heterosexual male hates on women when let's face it he fantasises about them at least once a day makes no sense.
I like pizza think about pizza every day but hate pineapple on pizza but according to you I'm hating on pizza just to hate on pizza lovers.
You are making anecdotal statements without any evidence or statistics which show how bitter you are on women
"I like pizza think about pizza every day but hate pineapple on pizza but according to you I'm hating on pizza just to hate on pizza lovers." That is what i am saying. Your behaviour is the problem but that does not mean all men are the problem
"Why because women are judgmental pieces of shit who have no chivalry themselves they'll say I like a guy with blue eyes here he comes and they will discriminate and say no." You really except a woman to date you with this behaviour of you? You call women pieces of shit only because women dont want to date a moron like you, you pieces of shit -I like the swear word hahs
@kim45456 Without evidence? I have physically experienced this multiple times how much closer does it get to evidence?
@kim45456 What are you saying? How is my behaviour the problem? When I'm not the one judging women by their behaviour it's them judging me? Even if I had a behaviour problem a woman wouldn't know since she doesn't approach me? You're not making any sense rofl and then you say I make anecdotal sentences.
@kim45456 Do you think I want a woman like that to date me? I don't actually have an issue dating decent women have had plenty but again I'm the one making anecdotal statements apparently.
If what I'm saying has no truth why have two guys liked this answer moron? And two girls disliked it? Says it all really here we are telling you about a problem here you are making shit up trying to justify it and then try and put the blame on us rofl there no hope for girls like you. If you killed my mother you'd probably try and say I pushed you to it. Ridiculous and here we are my point proven just like I said it would.
You are sexist and insult all women. Why are you even wondering about dislikes?
I don't force men to be whatever. I just tell them let your true selves shine. Do not wear a mask because it will come off eventually and she will eventually see who you really are as time goes on. you can hide today but you cannot hide forever
👏 A Good applause for your rational expectations
Interesting take. Another factor you probably should have added is, Be prepared for rejection, because no matter what a man does, that's always a possibility. Personally I haven't courted a woman because I have always tried observing or listening to a woman to see if she and I were compatible.
I'm in sales not therapy 😂 if you can't handle rejection as a grown man that's not my issue
@LexyIsSexy23 I didn't say I couldn't handle rejection. I said I don't even court woman. Rejection is not my reason, though some men in my country can't handle it; I simply window shop to see whether what is advertised meets my needs and is a worthwhile investment.
I love a asshole buisness man 🙂🙂❤️ who only goes for top tier women
@LexyIsSexy23 yes, then maybe I am an asshole, and a proud one. I have exact specifications and the woman who can meet them will be top tier for me.
I call myself a real jerk so no worries
@LexyIsSexy23 if you know exactly what you want in a man and will settle for nothing less than that, you are my kind of jerk😂.
Course I am 😊
Settling is for. Settlers
@LexyIsSexy23 and that's why I have never dated
That's why I've dated few
Guys can be gentlemen all they want,... what is pretty sad about that is most women don't appreciate the gentleman anymore. They pathetically & automatically think a guy being a gentleman is weird and creepy. Yet when it comes to other guys acting like bad asses & degrading their women,... well all I can say is "You had the opportunity for a gentleman. You didn't take it, that was your choice".
I have tried to date gentlemen who are nice JUST BECAUSE. If they are nice usually they want some of my vagina
@hsshannah96 that's every guy LMAO biology bitch! XD
@DonCachondo no it isn’t
Be nice douchecanoe
Be nice just because you twat
@hsshannah96 every straight man wants twat, whether he tells you or not! How naive can you be? XD
@DonCachondo you are a twat
@hsshannah96 be that as it may, you're denying reality, honey ;)
@hsshannah96 What if the gentleman wanted to date you & have you for a girlfriend? Then what?
I’d be very happy @McKellar
@hsshannah96 ... You sure about that?
Yes I’m sure about that
@hsshannah96 ... then can you explain to me as to why every girl who would end up dating a gentleman who always treats his girlfriend right & treats her like gold changes her mind, drops the gentleman boyfriend like a damn hot cake & goes with some other guy? Can you explain that? & most women have done this.
No most women have not
Just because you know a lot of twats doesn’t mean most of the USA have done that
@hsshannah96 ... yes, most have. ... and they all don't necessarily all have to be within The United States & The United States alone.
No most have not
Most that YOU KNOW have
Ok it’s clear you can't be reasoned with
Goodbye old man
@hsshannah96
Good.
"The Real Gentlemen who put in effort are out there dating, courting, or sleeping with girls left and right."
Reality shows otherwise. Most women go for guys that are the opposite of gentlemen. The guys they like to call "fuckboys" or whatever are the ones getting laid left and right.
Yes. At least for 20-30, the cock-carousel. Then they realize they now have to compete with much younger and prettier girls in the dating pool, and maybe they should find a really good guy and settle down. So they start back through their little black book, and all the great guys are already taken - snapped up and married off. So she wastes another decade, now searching and desperate, and by forty her chances are now virtually nil. For a lot of reasons.
They made their bed, now they can lie in it.
Lmao. This.
An absolutely WONDERFUL myTake, your points are very accurate. And though there are some exceptions, this is very well constructed.
Thank you sir
My pleasure, ma'am
Makes sense to me, but I'm not trying to score a girl at the moment, so why the invite?
Invited everyone
Ok. Not sure if I was needing pointers on my charming personality, or just to give my thoughts on the info. COMMODOREII nailed it from another angle.
Okay thanks
You bet.
Pretty good read. Hopefully the guys on GAG will take the time to read it
You are one of few from our generation who has manners. Thank you for that
Great points, for me chivalry is about respect.
I just don't get 2 things. First, why on the 20 ways to be a gentleman picture a man should be apologetic? If I apologise all the time and not standing my ground I am weak.
Second, not all gentlemen win.
P. S, do one for women how to be a lady.
Well, the really sad thing here is that you have spent exactly ZERO time considering what YOU bring of high value to a relationship. You spew out all this total crap, and you're not even fit to date. It's so laughable it's sad. Dear lord.