We talk one on one mostly about nothing. He'll just lurk around me then finally ask me whatever comes to mind. It could be about a bathroom sign in our job hallway. Sometimes its about weekend tales or him reminding me of something we spoke about before and once about hypothetic couple stuff ( " a girlfriend would love that concert my friend went to. Just sit back with your date and enjoy").
If I'm in a group with my girls he'll wait until they leave to speak, even if he was speaking to me before they showed up. But if he's with his guys and I walk in room he'll start making jokes about the guys.
I like him but I never have guts to talk to him around other people until yesterday. We were all at a table for lunch. He was way opposite me. Everyone was talking about a show and I added my opinions. He was adding opinions as well and being more open than usual. And everytime I spoke he'd comment on my sentences specifically with my name ( Liz) each time.
-Fake example -
Random guy: it seemed crazy
Him: it was a little psychotic
2nd random guy: interesting though
Me: the 2nd part was creepy
Him: Liz , it was creepy?
Random guy: they dressed funny
Him: ha, what was that
Random Girl: I thought it was alright
Him: some looked ridiculous
Random guy: exactly but I actually liked a few things
Me: some parts of it were cool
Him: ( laughs) you don't have to be nice Liz.
Etc.
Are those his ways of flirting in the group setting? Making fun of his friends all of a sudden and making a round table of discussion personal to me by singling me out everytime he addressed my part in the conversation? Or is this just a friendly outgoing thing to do?
If I'm in a group with my girls he'll wait until they leave to speak, even if he was speaking to me before they showed up. But if he's with his guys and I walk in room he'll start making jokes about the guys.
I like him but I never have guts to talk to him around other people until yesterday. We were all at a table for lunch. He was way opposite me. Everyone was talking about a show and I added my opinions. He was adding opinions as well and being more open than usual. And everytime I spoke he'd comment on my sentences specifically with my name ( Liz) each time.
-Fake example -
Random guy: it seemed crazy
Him: it was a little psychotic
2nd random guy: interesting though
Me: the 2nd part was creepy
Him: Liz , it was creepy?
Random guy: they dressed funny
Him: ha, what was that
Random Girl: I thought it was alright
Him: some looked ridiculous
Random guy: exactly but I actually liked a few things
Me: some parts of it were cool
Him: ( laughs) you don't have to be nice Liz.
Etc.
Are those his ways of flirting in the group setting? Making fun of his friends all of a sudden and making a round table of discussion personal to me by singling me out everytime he addressed my part in the conversation? Or is this just a friendly outgoing thing to do?
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