My boyfriend gets rough (sexually) when he is drunk. I am getting scared!?

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend is a nice person and always sweet with me, but when he gets drunk he gets so flirtatious, perverted, a bit rough and just sloppy. I get a bit scared that it will get overboard one day. I really don't like hanging around him cause he always kiss me hard, touch me roughly and always talk a lot of trash *perverted things*, it's very unpleasant. I haven't told him yet, cause I'm a bit scared he will get upset cause he isn't like that sober.

[cth96190]

Some women love that sort of treatment, others do not. You are one of the 'do not' group.
It is time to move on and find another man. This time, not not pick a 'bad boy'. There are plenty of decent men of all ages out there who have been left on the shelf because women find the bad boys more 'exciting' (think moth of a flame).

[loveaBcup]

For your safety you need to tell him before it gets out of control and your hurt and he is in jail. If he cares for you he will understand your concerns and agree to a reasonable compromise.
If he doesn't then you have to do whats best for you, even if that means leaving him.

[CommieDearest]

You're really just going to have to tell him. In a relationship, being able to communicate openly should come before sex. If you can do one, you should be able to do the other. It might be awkward but you'll get over it.

[kangy]

i am scared of such guy...
u have to let him know he scare u off with that behaviour, if he try to be violent u have to leave him.

[OhMyGoddess]

You tell him this boo boo, " Look you motherfucker, I don't like the way you act when you drunk , okay boo boo?"

[ArabianPwincess197]

Don't let him get drunk and have a chat with him when he's sober

[Invoker]

Uh. You have terrible taste in guys LOL who would do it with any drunk person? I only imagine booze and throw up and the lack of passion. Not imagine. I would know. Glad I quit drinking. Glass of wine or a Mexican beer don't hurt though.