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You already answered your own question. You like him and he deffo likes you hundred percent. I dealt with this problem so many times. Eye contact thing is a nervous thing. It's obvious he likes you. You didn't even need to ask this question
How does he behave towards other female workers?
Coule be he's into you and doesn't want to be a creep, could be women in general intimidate him, could be he got sued for workplace harassment for no good reason...
He is funny and talking a lot with them. He makes jokes and then I hear from others how funny he always is. He is interacting with them, going from one group to another. Inviting them to chat with him and to play cards with him during the break, but never comes to chat with me. He only asks work related stuff from me from time to time. I guess I am just boring somehow in his opinion. As far as I have seen he looks others in the eye when talking with them. I guess he talks with female colleagues a bit less than male colleagues at work. During teamevents he talks with everybody except me. He doesn't even look at me not to mention that a few lines would be great. I feel jealous somehow.
His totally insane inlove with you I think you should break the ice because he is really shy or u should maybe give him a hint or something
I guess he is trying to distance himself from you since you have a fiancee , probably he likes you or it can be totally different thing
Wow if someone I worked with went to hug me, I'd actually (in a slightly aggressive way) let them know I hate hugs from strangers
Different cultures have different habits. In my country it is a very ok to hug in these situations. But I understand what you mean. I will probably never get used to interacting with the french...
He wants you bad. If you're ever alone for an extended period of time he'll make his move. He'll try to make it awkward so that if you reject his advance it can be dismissed as a misunderstanding.
I have been alone with him several times and nothing like this has ever happened.
Could it be a cultural thing? Does he act like that with just you? Or other women?
I don't think it's a cultural thing. Other womem from our office are invited to his events. I am not. He talks with other women...
By your explanation it seems to me that you've already come to your own conclusion lol
You are engaged and he is probably already married? He found that u are attractive and struggle to hold his desire and start an A.
hugging policy !
i don't know honestly i have the opposite problem. i am the one who can't make eye contact my boss makes intense eye contact. in my case, i feel shy and anxious.
I think he has a crush on you & doesn't want to expose it too much.
he likes you very much, but he doesn't want to approach because of work.
I have a hard time making eye contact because I have social anxiety disorder. Maybe he is suffering from the same thing I am.
He may like u, and because of that wants to keep things strictly professional, u r an employee and engaged
He wants u but can't have u so he is protecting himself
its a total mystery - you should consult a psychic maybe.
u miss his attention? break your engagement n see his reaction. and it is not fair for your fiancée too.
He has a huge crush on you, and is very shy about it.
sounds like you're paranoid or something. Quit putting so much thought into it. Work And be happy.
It disturbs me that I am not invited to his events. :( He invites others, but never me..
That's disrespectful. Call your boss on their behaviour. Whether they like u or not. They must look u in the eyes? Jeezzz