Why isn't he texting me first anymore?

[latina55]

I met a guy two weeks ago. Last week he texted everyday always him initiating text, double texting when I didn't respond within an hour or so, texting next day even if I never replied to his last text. He's really funny and always had long and great conversation thought the day. But this week he didn't initiate text. We didn't speak for 2 days, so I sent him a text to which he replied right away and the conversation was great a usual, I didn't get a cold vibe from him and he kept the conversation going asking me stuff, joking around etc... Next day I thought I would get a text from him but nothing. I'm soooo confused. Its been two days no talk, and I'm not really sure I want to initiate text again. Not sure what's up with this guy? Is he into me but wants space? Did he lose interest? Is he playing hard to get? I'm clueless.

[Kkaos]

Why should he always text first? If I have to text first more than 3 consecutive times, I'll take it as she's not interested and I wouldn't text her again. I would also never send her another message if she didn't respond. If you like him text him, if not don't. But don't expect him to continue chasing unless he's one of those beta guys.

[mistninja314]

sorry for being a smartass "but maybe, just maybe he is tired of texting you 1st (#^ ^#)." so start initiating it from now on... and im sure he doesn't wanna seem annoying/clingy ^^

[latina55]

I don't want to initiate text again because I'm afraid I might come off as needy :/. Maybe I'm too old fashioned 😁

[mistninja314]

naw it's a turn on, and guys love it since we feel that if we text you too often or initiate the texting all the time that we're annoying y'all ^^

"im a pro at annoying girls or making them mad at me and no its not by design" SMH so text him 1st ^^

[beeturner]

Maybe have a go texting first a few times.. He might just be trying to see whether you're actually interested. If nothing improves, it's probably best to just move on... Hope it all works out :)

[latina55]

I'll try... Thanks :)

[Im2Creative]

He likes you but he noticed he's always the one to "start" but I'm sure he wonders the same thing when he hears nothing from you.

[Born2shine01]

He is probably wondering if you want to talk to him or not since you don't text first

[HorrorFan]

I don't understand why women turn this into a big ordeal. If you want to talk to him, text him. Stop worrying about who does what first.

Maybe he's gauging your actual interest by forcing you to initiate. Maybe he's busy. Maybe you two have run out of all the generic stuff to talk about. Maybe the novelty of texting wore off and he'd rather not do it all the time now that you two have built some familiarity. There could be a bunch of reasons. Hell, you could ask him.

[chadsten]

He's seeing if you text him first, which is what people usually do when they feel they're the only to initiate.

[GrownUp]

he tried his chance and you didn't act like you are in to him.. so he is wondering if he will stay friend with you or you have more feelings? in this part you have to decide.. if you like him.. that is not wrong to text him first!

[JackKerouac77]

I had no idea there were so many texting rules until I got on GaG. I threw my old phone in the backyard and tin canned my life now

[Anonymous]

Give him 5 more days. If he hasn't texted by then, move on

[Imtheone88]

No he knows what he is doing...

[fun-weird-guy]

Do not expect him to always make the first move

[Error_204]

His homeboys mocked him.

[Krushhbrownies]

First step of losing interest...