(obviously not an actual conversation but actions and implications)
Me: "ya this is cool. i really enjoy spending time with you. lets see where this goes"
Him: "Omg yes! You are awesome! I want to spend all of my time with you and include you in my life and be there for you"
Me: "Oh really? Thats great! Ok lets spend all of our time together!"
Him: "Actually... Nevermind. Im probably not going to call you again. Ok bye"
What is up with that?
Most Helpful Guy
Well... honestly... I don't know...
I never felt this way. I'm not about the pursue.
Actually I accept it as part of the whole thing, cause things are the way they are. But if it's too much it's a huge turn off to me.
The most attractive thing to me is she being attracted and showing that.
So when she's like "Oh... well... maybe..." I'm usually thinking " Then I might as well move on.. let's see"
When she's like "Great! Let's do this!" I'm usually thinking "Cool! This will be fun!!"