I think all attractive guys are players?

[Anonymous]

Does this make me a bad person? Anytime a guy is really attractive I don't trust him.

[mistninja314]

Naw I don't blame ya 1 bit since you'll just like he'll know that he could get around 70% of girls. Hell, they're going to cat callTHROW themselves at him also on a daily basis. As long as he knows how to keep himself groomed/dressed well that is

So from your POV you're probably thinking " WHY WOULD HE HAVE 1 GIRL WHEN HE CAN HAVE A HAREM of them", right?

But in the end, not all of them are going to be like that. Since it's easier to learn 1 girl from top to bottom THAN to learn about 7 girls at once... even then you'll barely even know them I'm guessing (Surface level only)

i1127.photobucket.com/.../...f.com-add-text_15.gif I hear ya though

[mistninja314]

cat call/throw*

[heavensgift2girls]

As long as you aren't mistreating another person you aren't bad. You are free to feel anyway that you just happen to feel and shouldn't' be judged for your emotions. Only your actions should be judged.

It sounds more like you are just cautious. We have to protect ourselves, and when we see ourselves possibly falling hard for someone, we often find a reason to step back and take things slower. If you have been dating a while and you can't get over your trust issues then that is a problem you need to work on, but that doesn't make you a bad person for feeling a certain way.

[MistiGal]

I don't think they all are... the same can be said about the girls too... are good looking girls players too? no they are not.. same goes with the good looking guys... its their personality and what they do that will be a give away as to if they are players... just have to open minded to that... better to put your guard down and just have fun... just because if you are asked out. ... doesn't mean anything will come of it... look at it as an experience and learn from it if it doesn't work out... :)))

[Anonymous]

I feel the same way and you are right, people will say your not because everyone thinks they are more attractive than they actually are, but generally all 8 and up men (who are actually an 8) are conceded man whores who can't be trusted.

[RationalLioness]

You're not a bad person. I think you're reality is skewed. Stereotypically, attractive guys are seen as players. But then again... attraction is subjective. Maybe the guys YOU'RE attracted to may not be. :)

[martyfellow]

It depends on what you mean by 'attractive.' If you mean someone with a hot car and money to spend on girls.. if that's automatically 'attractive'--then yes, virtually all such guys are players, because the shallow girls will be all over them without their having to go looking.

If you mean attractive in terms of personality and physical health, that's different. Those guys are mostly NOT players, because they value relationships and aren't just trying to see how many girls they can get into bed.

[front2back]

Just remember the reverse, do you think it's wrong to assume a girl is a slut becuase she's pretty?

[durrrrr]

Not all guys, but most of them. I've been often told i'm attractive, i've been hit on by a teacher once lol. And i dont consider myself a player, i never chase girls due to lack of confidence, but i never say no to hot girls hitting on me, and that happends once every two monts, so 6 girls a year = not a player. I cheated on my ex once, and girls end up hating me afterwards, what the hell, i am a player :(

[Anonymous]

It's not that all attractive guys are players it's just that it's much easier to be a player if you're an attractive guy, and to be realistic a lot of guys would give in to the temptation to sleep around if they had girls throwing themselves at him.

I did a take on this: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a7358-on-nice-guys-players

[cheesesteak7]

No, it does not make you a BAD person. But you may cutting yourself off from a lot of sincerely good guys.

I'd say pay attention more to his STYLE than his genetics. If a guy has plain style, he most likely isn't a player.

[DivaMonae]

You're no worse than all the guys that make false assumptions that any girl that is attractive is b*tch.

It does apply to many but not all.

[jacquesvol]

Attractive people are human and thus are tempted to abuse their attractiveness.
Some will resist the temptation.

[Genie23]

If you think that all attractive guys are players
Then does it mean that all attractive girls are btch/sluts?
Not all good looking guys are jerks. Some of them are nice.

[Doyoueverjust]

Nope. I feel the same, and I know it isn't always true, but still... some people just have to know how hot they are.

[zombiebabe]

true dat!

[Yellowbone]

I think you should focus more on a guy's personality than his looks. It's understandable why you think that way, but that's not always the case. There are ugly players & hot faithful guys.

[epiman94]

Well, if that's the case...
https://imgflip.com/i/kjojc

[I_am_repulsive]

Not necessarily a bad person, but cautious of some sort. Because of the experience your friend or the people you've know with attracted guys almost always end up badly, doesn't mean that the same thing will happen to you.

[ACW100]

I think attractive guys are not all players most of them are but believe me there are way too attractive guys who are not players or bad boys at all. And that makes them more special.

[Tokana]

It may be easier for attractive guys to be players as they attract more women and therefore have a greater chance at cheating since they are tempted more often.

[BertMacklinFBI]

they're really not, some actually are looking for that "true love" but they just get caught in between some shit. dont judge em like that.

[desidoll]

From my experience, it is always the opposite. Unattractive guys can be a the worst player ever.

[Ilovedrumming1337]

Maybe you got with the wrong type of guys who treated you like garbage like I have with women who were really pretty and cheated on me like a little hoe.

[TheSpartan]

If you can have sex with multiple women, why wouldn't you?

That's like claiming all Lambourghinis are expensive. Well, of course they are--because the dealers can get away with it.

[RationalLioness]

Because some people don't want to put their dicks in multiple chicks. :)

[TheSpartan]

Perhaps, just like there are a few people willing to sell their Lambourghinis for ridiculously low prices. But, don't expect that. Most men, especially in their youth, would prefer promiscuity to monogamy.

[Breegee1989]

I actually think the same thing right off the bat. But that may be just my insecurity 😁

[Anonymous]

You're not quite off the mark. There was some psychological study about high cheekbones and other male-model type traits that were associated with being less trustworthy. Not a study to take as gospel, but at least it's something...

[Watermelonoma]

well its a bit of an ignorant view honestly. Judging people immediately by the way they look. Its the same kind of thing racists do..

[jacquesvol]

Yeah, anti beauty racism?
Don't try to sell that to me.

[Watermelonoma]

@jacquesvol

if i walking around thinking that every hot girl was a bitch, i would have missed out on some great friendships over the years. There's just no reason to prejudge people for things they have no control over. It's not the guys/girls fault that they was born good looking..

[jacquesvol]

They're not bad but it's simple logic: 'hot people (M/F) have it too easy, thus are tempted.
Some will resist temptation but the majority is only human.