Not to mention, I just recently came to know that a little over a year ago this guy totally took advantage of her in the most assholish manner possible. And while this happened well before we started dating, all I can think about is kicking his ass (which I very easily could do).
So how can I get over her past hookups? She tells me that most of them were huge mistakes, and that doesn't help at all. Actually it makes me feel like an idiot for dating her because it makes her seem dumb for making such stupid decisions.
And I still want to kick this guy's ass, and I know she really really doesn't like this guy. However, she probably wouldn't be too happy with me acting like this, especially considering this happened so long ago. But I see him all the time, and it drives me crazy that a f***er like him who takes advantage of women in a borderline rape manner is just living his life carefree and and without regret for his actions.
I'm trying really hard to make this work, I like my girlfriend a lot, but I know if I can't get over this barrier, that it's definitely going to get in the way of our relationship.
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