Going over to a guys house for the 1st time. I don't know what to do or what to expect, this is my first time going to a guys house alone?

[Anonymous]

okayyyyy so I met this guy off Instagram and we already met for the first time. We were going to hangout on Friday but he wants to watch movies at his house on Saturday instead. He lives about an hour away, I don't know what to expect like how should I act? I don't want to do anything sexual but I do want to have a fun time because I really like him.-.

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+1 y

i was overthinking this whole thing!! he's the most respectful guy I have ever met. we watched movies then went to chipotle to eat then went back home and he kissed me and that was it. I wouldn't have changed a single thing from last night :) thanks for the opinions though!!

[Fdp2015]

I'll share my experience since I've been in this position before.
We have been talking for a while then We finally met. Went to his house and just chilled watching tv. He didn't try doing anything other than kiss. So I went over another time after that and did the same thing. Still he didn't try doing anything.
Then I went over the third time and did the same thing but this time We ended up having sex, Only because I felt I was ready and I was feeling it. Like you get caught up in the moment. by the way I was a virgin!! And honestly he was the second guy I've kissed. I didn't know what to do.

So if you don't want to do anything then don't. I'm sure he'll be a gentleman and respect your decision.

[Asker]

Omggg ahhhhh yeah like when we met he was such a gentlemen so im hoping for the best! thanks for the advice :)

[itsallover]

Haha, 'watching movies', eh? Usually (not always) when a guy invites you to his house to just chill, it means he's hoping that maybe something may happen and you'll end up having sex. But whether you do or don't is totally in your control, and if he tries to make any moves on you, you say no. Other than that, just act as you would around any of your other friends. Obviously be courteous and be respectful as it is his house.

[Asker]

I mean, he doesn't seem like the type of guy that would want that but again, I don't fully know him so I can't say that. I just hope for the best because I'm not the type of girl to do that I have respect for myself. plus I'm a virgin still so I have like no experience haha

[itsallover]

That's fair enough then, just set clear boundaries beforehand that you don't want anything like that to happen. I'm sure he'll understand. Is this a purely platonic thing?

[SleepyChan]

I would bring a trusted friend along because some guys might try some stuff or suggest a public date.