Drunk dude slapped my ass in public place, boyfriend didn't do shit? (Page 2)
Click "Show More" for your mentions
Most Helpful Opinion(mho) Rate.
Learn more
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
35Opinion
Well maybe your boyfriend is just not the fighting type people think ever guy are this macho man who will protect their princess from anything but guys can get nervous in these situations and just freeze up.
So instead of having a man who is in control of his emotions, secure in his relationship, and who understands that it was just some drunk bloke who was out of his mind, you'd rather him be an angry mess trying to fight someone who is drunk?
Mate..
Get over it first it was just a drunk guy relaxing and made mistake, he can still be good guy. Hei I wouldn't do anything in that situation too, I would just say to him hey watch where your hands are!
Should he punch dude - NO that's not alright. So just get over it, who said you're beautiful? Maybe she just saw you beautiful when he was drunk :)
You want your boyfriend to get in a fight every time a drunk guy slaps you ass? Why? Shit happens, get over it.
Lol I don't know but where we are random ass slapping doesn't happen every day :D Plus, if things are the way you put them, as in 'every time a drunk guy slaps you ass', then I might as well be single (from that point of view). Call me crazy but somehow I think there's sth wrong with someone's partner being ok with this kind of touching of their significant other. But if you're fine with it, what can I say... way to go :))
What were the long term effects of this slap on the ass? Did you need hospitalization? Surgery?
hey man., It's about safety and respect. If I want a threesome I'll let him know.
Wooow
I love how all the girls are voting this down... Like really?
He was upset but he was probably just glad you were fine. Lol sometimes we control when we turn into angry don't touch my woman mode! And it's okay mode
And? it was an accident, you act like you just got raped, Jesus, if your boyfriend went after him and hit him, then he would get into trouble and spend night in jail, seriously what kind of reaction did you expect?
What was he supposed to do? Even if he found the guy, what then?
Be reasonable.
well, I will copy paste here from a different answer: I were him it would have pissed me off and I would have wondered about the amount of attention and care I treat my significant other to.
Do you want him to go head hunting and then get arrested?
Nope :) but it would have been nice if he had payed attention to me in the 1st place or if it bothered him a little, no?
@Asker Well clubs seem pretty intense and distracting so maybe it did just slip by him. Maybe it bothered him but he just kept a cool head to prevent any drama? If you didn't seem super upset about it he probably left it at that to keep the night calm.
fair enough :)
It's not acceptable! You need a new boyfriend who cares about you, even in times like this!
Interesting poll for sure. Your boyfriend is either hiding some of his discontent or he is a crappy ass boyfriend.
if a girl had slapped your boyfriends ass how would you have responded?
I would have definitely pulled her towards me a bit aggressively and given her a piece of my mind. At best.
what if she was bigger than you?
Still need to do it man, I'm not a pussy, I have a pussy, there's a difference. :D
even if it was this girl?
41.media.tumblr.com/...m9yhbqJcg41qed514o1_500.jpg
lmao =)))))))))))))))))))))) good 1.
I wouldn't want my boyfriend to become easily jealous, nor
Would I want him to get in a fight with a drunk guy in a club where he could be arrested. Sure if he seen it happen and the guy stuck around I would want him to say something, but if he didn't see it I wouldn't expect a strong reaction.
Sorry the full thing didn't get posted the first time all of the stupid ads caused the browser to mess up and post it before I was finished.
I just try to look at it from his perspective, it would be pointless for him to be angry and stay angry for something he has no control over.
I'd have gone and beaten the shit out of the drunk idiot then I'd have used my phone call from jail to ask you if I defended your honor satisfactorily! lol
lol man :)) I don't want him to go to jail, he couldn't have done anything anyway the guy disappeared :D just that wow I wish it would have bothered him :)) u know?
The guy slapped your ass. Get the fuck over yourself.
@janaina with all due respect there is a 10 year difference between us and random ass slapping might mean sth different to you than it does to me, otherwise I can't see how in a supposedly civilized world there is nothing wrong with random dudes slapping one's ass. Also you might want to consider we may come from different cultures and maybe over here it's not that common. :)
I have a couple of points to raise with you now. 1) What difference would the 10 year age gap make? 2) Something different to me than to you? Who the fuck do you think you are! I am from the UK and I live in Buckingham, one of the poshest places in Britain so don't even give me that. The reason why I told you to get over yourself is because you are completely overreacting. You were not raped. You were not injured. He didn't slap you in the face, in fact nothing he did was particularly scarring. It is unpleasant, yes I agree. Do I think it was right? No. But the *drunk* guy slapped you ONCE and disappeared. The club was probably noisy hence your boyfriend not realizing, but to me you sound like you wanted him to completely lose it and hunt the guy and beat him up, and then have the thought of another guy touching his girl stuck in his mind. That's why I got so annoyed with you, because if you expected that then you're stupid, you aren't that special.
And to give you yet more perspective, my PREGNANT aunt was once randomly punched in the face whilst walking down the street by a random man
and was she alone or with her boyfriend? the reason i touched upon the age gap was that obviously what is acceptable as playful when one is a teen is no longer acceptable with an adult woman, I remember as a teen boys would have fun at school by trying to slap our butts and yeah it was more of a play thing. However once you grow up a bit I really think its significance changes. In any case I did not intend to suggest that you, fair maiden, are not 'posh'. :)
Also, I did update my question a while ago, maybe you'd like to read the update before assuming you are talking to stupid, less 'posh' people than you, your highness :)
Well I'll have you know that I would not appreciate someone slapping my ass without my consent, however some battles are worth more than others. In the context given this one is not. The update you made is irrelevant to what I was saying, and also stop trying to add that smile at the end, I find it patronizing. I do hope in the future you will actually read through all opinions given to you, rather than the ones you want to hear
i wouldn't do anything either if this happened to my SO. she would be someone capable of standing up for herself and I like to think i would be able to trust her completely
Boyfriends aren't bodyguards or guard dogs, you can't expect him to notice this if it wasn't obvious, and what can he do? Take the law into his own hands and beat the guy up?
Acceptable. Why do we need to think more about it? There's nothing to do, the slap was given and thats it.
personally I would have gone after the guy and brake his hand
lol :D well that would have been impossible cause none of us know who he is
seriously? he was DRUNK and only slapped your butt. Its not the end of the world. get over it
He only slapped my butt :))) why do people here think that's so acceptable and common? Am I supposed to think that's normal? Or are guys here that respond this way all into getting drunk, going to clubs and sexually harassing random women?
seriously I really wouldn't be this mad if someone slapped my butt. Its a playful thing to do. PLUS, he was DRUNK AND he wasn't there anymore. What is he supposed to do hunt him down? Now if he did it multiple times or kept doing it after you said stop THAT is a different story. but seriously.
well obviously we have a radically different perception of the seriousness of the situation so this is why we probably can't agree on this issue :)
Go to a club and let another man slap you but let's see how playful it is or maybe even let the drunk slap your girls ass how's that for playful
Your** but** still we as women expect our boyfriend to do something even if he couldn't do anything a comforting hug can't fix it but can make her feel better
I really wouldn't care if someone slapped my butt. I am at a club...
Maybe he has a bit of low self esteem/confidence and that's why he might not dare to do anything?
That's one problem
The other?
Not sure who I would be more pissed at the guy or my boyfriends nonchalant reaction.