"Nice guys are ugly, hot guys are jerks, and hot nice guys are gay."

I saw a Facebook group with that name...what do you guys and girls think of that statement?


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  • "Nice guys are ugly"

    - Wrong. They are "unattractive"... Ugly is a statement to which we find something offensive. I know several "Nice Girls and Nice Guys" that are very helpful towards different situations, but I would not date either (For one.. I'm not gay.. for two- the women don't have a potential attraction in my heart).

    "Hot guys are jerks"

    - Wrong. Just because a guy appears to work out 3 times a week (Ex. US-Marine), does not mean he is a jackass. Some guys that are narcistic could become jerks after time, but the term "hot" is not associated with being "a bitch or a jerk". It's associated with the fact that they are intimidating. So the attractive people get fed up with "shy people" approaching them, after many repetitive attempts- people will become frustrated repeating the same phrase "I'm not interested, move on". So they show the jerk / bitch appearance of just smirking and walking away.

    -- On the opposite spectrum, one of my "brotherhood" members from highschool is very attractive... No homo. This guy is a ladies man and very appealing to the women's eyes; however, he is STILL... NOT... A JERK... He is the biggest sweatheart in the world that is a comedian and a smartass- but he isn't a "jerk". A jerk is someone that belittles others for their own entertainment, or uses that other person, etc.

    "Hot nice guys are gay"

    - Another untrue statement. The hot nice guys are either taken, married, busy, educated, or otherwise- but you couldn't overgeneralize and say "All of this species of 'hot guys' are GAY". On an alternative spectrum, not "ALL HOT WOMEN" are bitches <-- Notice the "NOT" before that statement.

    You cannot, ever, overgeneralize and be correct. Everything in life is on an individualistic basis; which is the same reason behind why no one could gaurantee the answer to the questions here of: "Does he like me" or "Is he interested" or "Is my penis large enough" etc.

    - P.s. some of those questions are very annoying.

    Best regards,



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What Guys Said 3

  • I think it's hilarious.

    • Haha me too, but at the same time I don't completely agree. Do you agree?

    • No, it's just a generalization, but it is entertaining.

  • I guess, but hot girls are generally bitches, ugly girls are generally bitches, lesbian girls are generally bitches. If there are nice girls they are usually mentally fucked up and have zero self-esteem which later turns into jealousy and crazy.

    Nice guys are only ugly because women are unattracted to nice guys.
    Hot guys are assholes mainly because they used to be nice ugly guys and decided to change that and now treat women like shit for being shallow.

    Gay guys aren't generally any nicer. They are a lot like women and are generally bitches.

  • im a nice looking guy and always pull and I'm an overly nice guy its just in my nature, I'm also very sensitve and an emotional person, but I do also have the other side aswell that if my people confuse my niceness with weakness ill turn, so I have been in loads of fights because of this esp under the influence of drink. but no I'm a good looking guy and I'm what you'd class as the nice guy and it doesn't stop me getting girls.

    • Nice to know guys like you are actually out there =)

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