Guys, are you more of a "macho man" or "sensitive guy"?

Question

Are you one of the tough guys that typically stick to the idea of masculinity or are you more of a soft guy that could be categorized as being "feminine"?

Today''s society is almost backwards from what it was decades ago. The women have become providers for themselves and even cougars/sugarmommas. Do you believe that the man should be head of the household? Should he always be tought?

Do you have balance between being macho and sensitive or is it one sided?

tony72722 · Accepted Answer

Lol.. Sloots want Alpha Males..

skeptic007 · Accepted Answer

no im a weirdo :P

Stoner710 · Answer

Both depending in situations it it's a hiking climbing situation or someone brake in the house then yes if someone important died or your girlfriend broke up with you or somthing like that then yes I also try and comfort sad people and in that situation you have to be sensitive so a mix of both is good and men should be I charge of the house hold women should get a say but the final decision should be for the man especially big things like moving new car if it's curtains Then no guys don't care or dying your hair then no but for big decisions yes guys should be in charge.

Sorry about bad spelling

oldanddecrepid · Answer

I am a sensitive guy and listen to what people have to say... I don't have to be the center of attention but like it once in awhile.

I am somewhat rugged when it comes to getting things done, I ride horses, run the farm on my own, cut and split wood for heating, get dirty etc., and like to work up a sweat. I fix things whether it be electrical or constructing things out of wood, or for art.

I would not say I am macho because I don't have the over the top attitude that goes hand and hand with being "macho"... I would say I am sensitive but not to the point where I tear-up because someone hurt my feelings. Overall I think I am relatively tough!

Anonymous · Answer

I voted E.

Growing up it would have been fair to describe me as a 'sensitive guy'. I don't think anyone ever suggested i was effeminate. But I was pretty soft.

I grew up in a pretty traditional household. My parents definitely didn't try to raise me to be 'tough and manly'. But at the same time i DID pick up the sort of presumed expectations that men would provide.

I would like to be the head of my household, but really I'm not, because that's not how I established things early. I'd be okay being equals if things functioned well but frankly they don't and it's rare that they do. I wish i'd expected to lead and found a woman who would be a supportive second to my leadership, challenging me but also being willing to accept my leadership. I am the sole financial provider.

In terms of how macho i am, i wasn't growing up, and still don't feel very macho. But i do a lot more 'tough guy' type things now that i'm older, and realize i'm probably a lot tougher than i imagined.

JohnnyBananas · Answer

I'm a mix of both however I've been perceived as an emotional guy. I wouldn't consider myself feminine but I am very in tune with all my emotions and do not shy away from them. But only a select few people get to see the soft, gentle side of me.

It really comes down to what's going on. If my girlfriend is hurting or I'm upset around her, she sees it. If someone pisses me off then the masculine side of me comes out.

Mistnigqa808 · Answer

I'm neither of those
I'm more "versatile" of anything
Since I'm not a tough guy (nor a punk),
and only sensitive when I need to be
the other 98% of the time I'm cold hearted.

I chose "I wouldn't mind being taken care of (swapping traditional gender roles)" tho.

JRICHARDS1996 · Answer

Well I believe strongly in traditional gender roles, taking care of my family, and being a man. Though I don't necessarily consider myself "macho." To me "macho-ness" is just an attitude, and often the most "macho" men are really the least manly. I'd prefer to fulfill my manly obligations and roles while remaining silent and humble.

The_Other_Man · Answer

I take on the role of both. I'm in the military and also enjoy cooking and cleaning. From time to time making a nice candle lit dinner, back massage and then eating her out without the expectation for reciprocation.

Anonymous · Answer

If I've been working out doing heavy weights, drinking coffee and/ or just generally working hard, it makes me quite assertive and macho for some reason.

If I've just watched a sad film, had a couple of drinks and am I bit depressed, I turn into a big girl :D

DodgersGM · Answer

I think I strike a decent balance, yeah. There's not much about me that's feminine, but I am definitely an empathic guy.

Upon first glance, I think most would categorize me as a more traditionally masculine person, which is fine.

HandsomeRaj · Answer

Vote 'C' and that's how it is. Macho cannot happen if he's not sensitive, understanding etc.

Macho isn't about brute strength. Those who are that way are insecure braggarts with a complex and low self esteem :)

BertMacklinFBI · Answer

I'm just extremely neutral. when I'm out in public I don't express shit, I just do what I gotta do. I only express myself to those who take the time in getting to know me. otherwise, you're fucking talking to a brick wall.

Duryodhan · Answer

I'm from India and it's a patriarchal society here. You really can't show weakness. I've spent the past few years out of my country so i can reflect that in the daily rigours of life, men really aren't allowed to have emotions.

Jibaku · Answer

Well I'm me. I don't particularly regard myself as male or female, I'm me and I have a male body with male urges.

astrOnaut01 · Answer

I'm mostly masculine, I suppose.

I actually do housework and cook as well though. I'm hoping to be able to provide for myself in the future. Although, I'm not "sensitive" or emotional.

In other words, I don't subscribe to gender roles.

AngelOfTrianglez · Answer

I used to be purely sensitive, but recently I've had my macho side grow, and will only leave the sensitive side for very few people

RedThread · Answer

I'm not a macho guy. I don't believe in gender roles. I think partners should support each other however they can. I would want a completely equal relationship.

The_Advisor · Answer

I'm pretty introverted, so I keep to my self. However, I'm a great problem solver. So I will take lead if that's a problem that needs be to solved.

DrKran · Answer

Balance is good, sometimes it's great to have a little bad and good.

OrdinaryGentleman · Answer

I really sincerely don't care. If she wants to be the main breadwinner, sweet, more time for fishing. But imma dominate the hell out of her in bed

Oldandwise · Answer

I am macho. I have a cold heart. I have snaped peoples bones when I got mad. I am strong and determened. I will join the marines in 4 years and I don't cray or laugh, smile or, frown. I keep a straiht face no matter what

Humping_Tornadoes · Answer

Neither. These things can easily be agreed on with a rational person lol

Jayded1 · Answer

I tend to be a softy and sensitive outside but macho and dominating in the bedroom.

PizzaGuy22 · Answer

not a dick but not a little bitch either my mentality is world class

Anonymous · Answer

Neither. Cold and distant, yes, but not very tough particularly.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm stoic and think we both have jobs to do in the household. But I love to cuddle.

AppleEats89 · Answer

I personally think that as a man, you should be the head of the house as it seems like that was the purpose God designed the man for.

RaggaMon · Answer

I'd be down for a sugarmomma! lmao

atomique · Answer

There is a time and a place for machismo.

Ihav2fart · Answer

I'm somewhere in the middle...

Iron_Man · Answer

LOL I guess you can figure that one out can't you?

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