Goofy girl. Bad thing?

[Anonymous]

So I'm the type of girl that's really goofy and laughs alot. But I know when to be serious. I'm attractive (not trying to sound conceited) and smart (in school and in the real world). I was raised really well, I must say. My friends constantly tell me I have the whole package. But the thing is...I always see guys with girls who are really serious and I've noticed that a lot of my guy friends are REALLY different around their girlfriends. With me, they're really goofy and joke around alot. But with them, they're completely serious and it seems like their girlfriends are no fun and they barely even joke around. Is it bad to be the way I am?

[ReV2ReD]

In my opinion, it's not at all bad to be goofy. In fact, I personally prefer it. Life is far too short to be serious all the time. I think that a lot of guys act serious all of the time around their girlfriends because they are insecure about their relationship or feel that they are dating "out of their league". They feel that if they make even one un-suave move that their girlfriend will move on. It's such a silly mind game that guys subject themselves to. In the end, relationships are all about being yourself. If you like to be goofy, would you be happy with someone that doesn't get that? Dating really doesn't have to be such serious business. It's really about finding someone that is right for you, and, in that, there is much fun to be had! Get your goofy on!

[Anonymous]

so many girls are boring and would rather be entertained by a guy. I'd like a girl who was quick-witted enough to banter with me. that'd be so awesome.

from what I know, girls are not really into goofy guys. they'll go for witty guys, which is a balance between cool and goofy, but if a guy doesn't have any cool factor (totally an act, by the way) then the girls just count him out as a weirdo.

[vioguitarchick]

i went through that whole issue too. I'm really goofy with my guy friends and then in turn they see me as a friend and I see them as a brother. iv had crushes on them but its too weird because I don't feel romantically attracted to them because of the way I am around them (kind of like they know too much about me to date and vise versa). When I'm around a guy I'm really attracted to and can see myself with I act shy and girly and it takes a while for them to see my goofy side. so who knows. I don't know what's better. someone who knows how goofy you are upfront or someone who has to gradually see that side of you. *shrugs*

[naima17]

Ok im the same way. People always call me goofy, quirky and ful of joy. Haha. Alwats thoight people didn't take me seriously, but that's not the case. There are way too many guys with personalities that would love your goofiness. Trust me.

[omgxooooo]

I don't think so. I can be really goofy too but I know when to be serious. I think you just have to find the right guy that appreciates it. And guys do love girls with a good sense of humor.

[kylusmaximus]

Not at all :) I personally would -love- to have a goofy girlfriend who would laugh at my kind of humor and jokes! Things are so much better when you can be yourself around the person you love too instead of having to get in "serious mode" around the girlfriend, like SO many of my friends do!

So, no! You're fine the way you are, goofiness rocks! :D

~Kyle

[rgb008]

I'm the same way. I'm usually always the one making people laugh. It's not bad at all! I'd never be able to date someone who isn't funny.

[Anonymous]

Marry me! In other words: I'm a goofy person too and I don't think I could date a serious girl... Or even one that fakes laughing.