Why do I only attract older guys? What do fuckboys look for in a target?

[Dolphingirl123]

I'm going into my sophomore year of high school next year and the only guys who tried to pursue me were jounior (they were fuckboys). I didn't know if fuckboys looked for certain things like age or something else, so what do they look for in a target?

[pnl86]

If you're 25 and attracting "older" guys, then you're probably attracting guys in their late 20s or early 30s. Some of these guys are probably married. Most of them, though, if they're out hunting and keenly looking out for certain "types" of women have one thing in common... experience.

Experience tells you the following: [Sex] divided by [Time] = Your Sex Life.

Is your relationship with your girlfriend resulting in a below average (compared to other men in the population) sex life, or sub-optimal (taking into consideration just your own personal circumstances) sex life? Time to end it. Married without kids? Time for a divorce. Why? What's the goal? To have a fulfilling sex life. If your [Sex] / [Time] is too low, then you're not having a fulfilling sex life. To make matters more complicated, all of this is then multiplied by how "hot" the girl is.

So, what have we learned about experienced guys? They are looking for girls who are "easy" and girls who are "attractive." Let's explore this calculus further.

Suppose a girl is a perfect (10) in terms of looks, but looks like she's a (1) on the "easiness" scale. That makes her value a (10) (i. e., 10 x 1).

Suppose a girl is just an (8) in terms of looks, but an (8) on the "easiness" scale. That makes her value a (64). 64 > 10, so, he's hitting on the 8.

So, guys like this walk into a room and immediately scan the room. They disqualify anyone under their looks standards (e. g., anyone under a 6), and waste of time standards (e. g., anyone under a 6 on the easiness scale). So, right off the bat, those automatic/default disqualification rules result in minimum value of (36).

Picking out attractiveness is easy. Spotting out "easiness" takes experience.

1. Tattoos (can also fit into #2)
2. Eccentric behavior (shows she doesn't care about how others perceive her and less likely to care about her reputation)
3. Non-conformist behavior (shows she's immune to or completely antithetical to traditional social scripts)
4. Sexual aggressiveness/proactiveness/initiative (can also fit into #2 & 3)
5. Responsiveness & auto-escalation (e. g., when a girl is immediately responsive to you during a conversation and takes it upon herself to escalate the conversation and physical touching sexually)

[someguy3091]

"I'm going into my sophomore year of high school next year" - OP

I think she might of put a fake age up.

[OffensiveGnome]

In a target LMAO Op you gave me a good laugh ahem from observing the wild fuckboys just look for some good puss. That is it lol

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

Someone equally attractive and fuckable. If you can look naive or possibly low self-esteem

[abc3643]

So, you're 25 but a sophomore in high school... Gee, you must've got left back a decade or so... 😉

[Dolphingirl123]

I'm 15

[abc3643]

I can see that. Just wondering why G@G says you are 25...

[spoonman2014]

Men generally like younger for virile women to begin with so that is one reason. Maybe the seniors in your school are falling off and have peaked already? That would suck.

[AleDeEurope]

And what is so wrong about being a fuckboy?
#fuckboyshaming

[pnl86]

it's not, it's just a feminist effort to try and shame guys for wanting to have sex... to "see how it makes them feel" as if men give a shit.

[AleDeEurope]

@pnl86 Exactly! Hahahahah XD

[pnl86]

for a sex that prides itself on empathy and understanding emotions, they really understand men very little if they think guys care or are bothered the same way women are over the same exact identity issues... "Oh no! I'm being labeled as a man who wants to have sex! Oh no, I had sex with a lot of girls! Woe to me. Please, my fellow male peers, do not judge me harshly for having such trouble with women that I have developed a reputation of 'fuckboy' from it." The irony in all of this is that certain girls intend this maliciously towards guys, yet the targets of that malice wear that shit like a badge of honor. Some geek in his parent's basement being called a fuckboy, all of a sudden, he's dressing better, takes his glasses off, walking around all suave and shit, being like, "Yup, that's right, what can I say, I'm a fuckboy. I try and tell these girls that I don't want to have sex, but things always end up going there."

[Maik567]

Fuckboys only look for two things. How attractive you are, and how easy you are.

[anonman32]

low self esteem, low self image, inexperienced, naive.

[Dred1614]

I didn't know they let 25 year olds go to regular high school.

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

25 and in high school 😂😂😂

[MaLifeBeLikeOooAaah]

"fuckboys" look for hot girls to bone.

[pnl86]

basically what he said... for as long as she's hot and looks like she's looking for it

[MaLifeBeLikeOooAaah]

@pnl86 haha agreed. Girls who fall for this "tra"p don't know who they are

[joe138]

Uhh, why would you want a fuckboy?

[Anonymous]

why are you 25 and in high school?

[Dolphingirl123]

I'm 15

[Opinion Owner]

says 25

[posted]

Tits/ass

[Chromekids]

A slut.

[Twolips]

Boobs