What makes a guy not want to finish/cum during sex?

[Anonymous]

was having sex with a guy i used to see and before he came he stopped

i asked why and he said he wasn't feeling it and that its messy isn't it

then he said he stopped so we could again cos once he's finished thats him done

we have been drinking etc the night before

but its made me feel like he didn't have a good time? was it just becuase i wasn't turnung him on?

im 23 by the way not 30 lol

[Anonymous]

That's weird. Honestly if it's me I'd definitely want to cum and it's not like that has to end it. We could always go for round 2 or 3 if we wanted.

[Asker]

he had to be up for work

[Opinion Owner]

Well, personally I sleep a LOT better after a good round or two of sex!

[Asker]

his alaram had already gone off lol

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, he was already getting up to GO to work! lol! Yeah, in that case a quickie is all you have time for.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for most helpful! How's it going with him?

[Anonymous]

usually if a guy doesn't cum, we get blue balls which can hurt. I don't know why someone would purposefully bring that on.

[Anonymous]

maybe he remembered someone he loves

[Asker]

wouldn't you think of that before you do that though

[redxiii74]

No not necessarily, cuz at the moments before he was focused on how good you felt and pleasing each other, then after that he mind woke up

[Asker]

@redxiii74 weve had sex plenty of times before and sometimes he hasn't cum just felt weird this time maybe your right

[redxiii74]

Or could be a injury. My back was hurt in afghanistan so I could be doing like a 2nd round into a 3rd and I just gotta stop cuz a pain stops me but I've never told her bout my back

[abc3643]

Her husband comes home.

[Anonymous]

Was it unprotected sex?

[Asker]

yeh we have had it before though so thts not the reason

[Opinion Owner]

He was probably trying to avoid a potential trap.
Men are becoming vastly aware of the epidemic of women who trick men into knocking them up to trap them.
He is being cautious. Even if you told him you were on the pill or what not, women who trap lie.

[SeanshterMonster]

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