He doesn't text for days after sex?

[Anonymous]

So everytime my friends with benefits and I have sex, he'll text me right after it to say he enjoyed it and we should do it again, but after that he doesn't text for the next days.. after all he will come back , act like he didn't ignore me and it will happen all over again.. why does he do that? didn't he enjoy it but am I the only option so he comes back?

I dont text him either, because i'm insecure and I dont want to force him if he doesn't like it.. I want to see if HE contacts me..


Sorry for my English by the way :p

Updates

+1 y

ok thanks for all the opinions. you're right, we're just fuckbuddies/fwb and not dating so I can't expect texts,.. but I just want to know what the reason is why he does that? because normally we text every day!

[imsmartaskme]

You're having sex without a relationship so you should expect these things to happen. it could be that he's lost interest, he's found someone else, or he just doesn't feel the need to text you afterwards anymore. he doesn't have any commitment to you so you can't be mad about it

[wankiam]

he is a friends with benefits not your boyfriend so does it really matter or are you more involved than that... if so he has clearly noticed and is redefining the rules

[wankiam]

@ update... he is merely clarifying the rules but you could suggest you are already clear that you are fuckbuddies so he doesn't need to ignore you like that if he is doing it to try to make a point

[dahlias]

You are friends with benefits, as you mentioned. That means sex is all you guys share. Why would you be bothered by him not texting you? Maybe you start to develop feelings for him. You guys should talk about this and figure things out.

[Lelaila]

Well, you guys are "friends" with benefits, although I wouldn't call this a friendship. So he doesn't have to initiate contact and things like that. You guys aren't dating.

[CT_CD]

He's not your boyfriend. He's just using you until he finds a good girl to get in a relationship with.

[dasvaughan]

He probably doesn't want either of you to catch feelings.

[realperson02]

he could be too much satisfied for days.😂😂😂

[realperson02]

for your Update : it maybe Because he Wants To catch Up With other things in his life. There's Nothing To Worry. i Know You care About him and That's okay even in friends with benefits Relationships

[Jason7mge]

Not everybody lives on their cell phone 24x7

[chuy10]

he enjoys it he comes back

[Anonymous]

he must be busy