I actually understand this quite well. He cares about you probably more than he cares about them, but he cares about what they think of him more than what you think of him, he's kinda taking you for granted this way.
And the reason he acts this way around his friends is that he wanna appear cool and tough not touchy feely kinda guy. And he does all this without really knowing what he does, he doesn't know that you feel bad cuz of this, or he thinks that you're okay with how he treats you when he's around his friends, he thinks that you understand.
So all you need to do is tell him how you feel about this and he should apologize and not act like this again.
Either to show off or he doesn't wanna come off as weak (or show a sign of weakness) by showing affection
You know who doesn't act like a cocky pervert around his friends... thats right my first YT video
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in what form do you talk most, in person? If so I would say all the sweetness is real and those comments could be nerves? It could mean he Really likes you and wants to show off. Ask him when the two of you are alone and be honest about how you feel. If the sweetness is real I bet you it could strengthen what you already have. Also try to keep it to your feelings and not make it seem like you dislike his friends. Unless you do then by all means tell him. I know honesty and openness go along way for me😃
He doesn't take the relationship seriously. He is on it to just brag about how he bangs you. And I bet he is exaggerating everything too.
Its not a healthy relationship to be in. This will a big mistake.
If he realizes his mistakes and changes then you might have a good future if not then RUN!!!
Honestly its hard to tell with a guy like that. He is trying to impress you when. he is with you by being sweet and act like a cool. dude when he is with his friend. If it bothers you, ask him. Say hey why do you act differently around your friends and another way when. you are around me?
Maybe those are just two different sides of him. Spend more time around him and he'll become more comfortable being himself and the two will merge until he's less of a pervert, he may still say perverted things but nothing over the top. Or you could ask him to stop acting like that.
people act differently towards different people. For example, you would act more professional around your boss. I know that I act differently around girls because I wouldn't want them to think negatively of me. however, when I am around my friends, I act differently because I know how they would react to those actions
Almost every guy cares a lot of what his friends thinks of him... so they act like the "standard guy" in front of the others...
he is who he is around his friends but he wants a laying so he acts like a gentleman around you, I see it all the time with my friends
guys don't want to be seen as "soft and sweet" around their guy friends because then they feel weak. i personally don't care if i come off as soft or sweet to my guy friends when I'm with my girlfriend cuz it doesn't affect them one bit
He is not confident enough to be himself at all times. The guy is a butt kisser really. He has to play a part please his friends and play his part to please you.
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