so I've been sleeping with a guy for the last few weeks but known him for a while. However it feels much more intense then what we say it is. He told me prior to the relationship if he was going to have this sort of thing going on, there would be no chilling going on/attachment and said he has a difficult time falling for someone.
However, we haven't just been sleeping together we hang out too alone and with other people. Just the other day it was my birthday and after the party we went back to his. I couldn't have sex but we jammed out, the next day he went to work but returned 2 hours later with food and we spent the rest of the day together,. Later in the evening I had some bad news and he was really there for me he got really angry because of the situation I was in and put me in his arms kissing my forehead and hugging me so tightly. When we were about to fall asleep he basically started saying that he wanted to take care of me, if I'm sick, sad, upset etc he wants be the one who makes me feel better. He then said afterwards he was attracted to me not just my looks but because I have a beautiful soul/energy and it such a beautiful quality to have.
the thing that is most mind boggling is he'll say these things like the above and more like I just want to love someone, I want you to be happy, I need you, you make me feel better etc. However when we talk about what we are or to any mutual person it's just fucking. However It seems there's more depth to what's going on particularly on his end, but it's like any time I question it he'll just look deeply into my eyes and say I just want you to be happy.
However, we haven't just been sleeping together we hang out too alone and with other people. Just the other day it was my birthday and after the party we went back to his. I couldn't have sex but we jammed out, the next day he went to work but returned 2 hours later with food and we spent the rest of the day together,. Later in the evening I had some bad news and he was really there for me he got really angry because of the situation I was in and put me in his arms kissing my forehead and hugging me so tightly. When we were about to fall asleep he basically started saying that he wanted to take care of me, if I'm sick, sad, upset etc he wants be the one who makes me feel better. He then said afterwards he was attracted to me not just my looks but because I have a beautiful soul/energy and it such a beautiful quality to have.
the thing that is most mind boggling is he'll say these things like the above and more like I just want to love someone, I want you to be happy, I need you, you make me feel better etc. However when we talk about what we are or to any mutual person it's just fucking. However It seems there's more depth to what's going on particularly on his end, but it's like any time I question it he'll just look deeply into my eyes and say I just want you to be happy.
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