nah, this isn't even a small problem in my book. Texting sucks and not everyone can be good at it. And most importantly texting is not the primary form of communication for couples or at least it shouldn't be. Now if it's a long distance relationship we're talking about, that's another story.
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I think relationships need to happen F2F as much as possible, and I try to limit texting to quick, simple questions if at all possible. I would make an effort to try to see her F2F as much as I could, and not worry much about her texting.
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yes, this is a big huge massive humongous problem.
It breaks flow. Can't follow a funny conversation. Never initiates anything and makes you feel that you're bothering her all the time, because you put effort and you see nothing from the other side other than total desinterest.
Some times it's just lack of skills to continue a conversation, but it doesn't make it less bad.1st i hate texting and i suck at it, especially when it comes to texting girls
2nd id try to talk on the phone or facetime, whenever a girl asks me that i always say yes, due to the fact that i've lost countless girls over text simply because i suck at it
3rd if text is the only thing you want to do try deep questions which require thinking and gathering each other's opinionsIt makes it a harder chase. I'm already shy enough and dont say much. So if she did that I would give up easily
You are missing out on some major tension building. The texting can create much more tension in between meeting up that a person could go crazy... both of your loss.
yea its like a cockblock or whatever its boring and most of the time i wouldn't message her again
I'm alright with her being a slow texter, but I definitely can't tolerate boring. I tend to just be honest and let her/them know I'm (getting) bored
I dated a girl like this. No texts between dates, really, except confirming what the next date was. But on the dates she was all over me. It took a little getting used to but it was fine.
I'm actually used to it
Most my conversations end with "K," "Cool," or some other crap like that
I just don't text her, or when I do, it ends with that single-word text that I can't really say anything toim not fan of texting, better physical connection so no problem to me
I'm a slow texter I prefer actual interaction or a phone call whenever I want to make a point
text to make plans converse irl. I really only hate it when girls flake on plans over text more than anything. we dont want to text you honestly. Its much nicer to see your face when we talk to you.
That is good since I don't text. I only call and talk.
Hard to tell, probably wouldn't mind it
Try talking on the phone
yes..
No not really
I would think she lost interest, really :-(
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