I compliment them on many things including, "you are the most stunning woman I've ever happily laid eyes on. I do it often because they have 100% of the time responded positively. When I'm prowling I have a Cosmo in my hand ( banks/markets) for partial ulterior motives. I have been craving giving oral sex to an attractive woman (any age). Just an obsession for past 18 months because I get so turned on by sigh, sound, smell, taste and feel of a woman aroused and climaxing. hopefully just massage g-spot and lick clit
depends on the person. though if I'm flirting I try to make it very clear in my voice and mannerisms.
if it's a compliment to someone I just like as a person or to a girl I consider my friend. I am more aloof about it. usually I don't try to reason it. "your hair looks cute today. I like the way it poofs." Will usually get me an aww thank you.
if I'm actually flirting it's more like, "how come your curly hair conceal those gorgeous eyes now darling." usually if it's friendly it stops at one compliment.
All of those reasons are going to be individually true of all men.
You're obviously asking for a specific reason, so post a new question, and lay down the details for us.
you can keep almost know woman without compliments. except if you are morbidly rich and she's in just for your money.
also some mean it when they say it. they just say whatever comes naturally.
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I do it because I want her to know I haven't looked at your picture of anything but let's say I'll just to look at your picture and I Found You Beautiful I would tell you you are absolutely beautiful because that's what you projected onto me I feel it and I want you to know that I'm seeing it and feeling it very deep so I would just want you to know that you're simply beautiful I think if it's any of the above on some of your answers it's premeditated so would be faked and I'm help a girl could be right to that
want to make you guys happy because a smile on anyone's face just feels like an emotional purge even to us , it makes us feel as though we made a difference for the better in someone's life and especially when the girl is shy just seeing someone blush and deny it just makes me happy , no better way to explain it
This tends to strongly stem from individuals themselves, and what they look for when it comes to counterparts.
I for instance don't offer gifts, hardly compliment, and rarely state I love an individual when that moment arises.
I would categorize the individuals who compliment as people who have the love language of "Words of Affirmation."
This would entail that those who compliment also hope to receive compliments back. If two individuals have the same love language, they kick it off pretty well.
Most guys will compliment a girl because they look at you and go "damn fit as hell dude" 😪 the reason is they like her but not maturely like her and this is not hard to do its basically just flirting.
If I compliment a girl it's because I genuinely like her want to make her happy even if it's hard to do and my intention is love but i've never complimented a girl in my life. Plus even if I did how do you know that i'm not like one of those immature guys hence why I don't just tell any girl and tbh even if I did what would be the point she'll be like "oh like I haven't heard that one before"
I do it when I think you deserve it, for example when you've helped me out in a way not everyone would do.
Or, when you're really looking great in a specific outfit and my feeling says you'd appreciate the comment :D
Of course, I'd be slightly more eager to compliment a girl I like. But that certainly won't be the only criterium!
I personally, because I’m honest. If I like a girl and I’m talking to her, I’ll let her know. It’s not like she hears that for the first time in her life anyway and it probably doesn’t mean anything. So…I like her, therefore I want to be nice to her. It’s not flirtatious, I’m socially awkward guy, I cannot even small talk, let alone flirt.
I only compliment a girl when I mean it!
I was once at the club waiting for my order to be finished and there was a group of girls and a guy with them...
Anyway, I was peacefully reading a book when one of the girls of that group interrupted me and asked me if she was beautiful!
The situation was so awkward, I was like "Girl, why don't you ask the guy you're hangin' out with instead of me!" and "Girl, you don't even know me!"
Anyway, I replied coldly saying "How am I supposed to know?"
After that I accidentally heard her group saying that I probably told her that she's ugly in a subtle way, LOL!
i compliment girls because i genuinely feel they are (countless nice things ) and want to say it but i see a lot of the guys that replied said to get in her pants or to have sex
no offense but that's sick if u wanna get laid just don't compliment them because then they thinking u like em and instead u just want in their pants
Depending on situation.
Sometimes want to be nice.
Sometimes want to make person happy as few have low self esteem.
In very rare cases I compliment if it is hard to do. Even I say the truth sometimes.
Flirting never. I don't flirt. Just friendly compliment.
I compliment women if I find something worth complimenting. I don't believe in giving compliments for personal gain. Ok, I don't just walk around giving random comments. But I have been know to be ordering a coffee and see an attractive lady the other side of the counter and come out with compliments like "I like what you've done with your hair" etc
i never flirt, but I do make compliments anyway. When i like something about someone, why not say it?
but I guess for most guys its trying to flirt and only bc they are interested in that girl.
im a super beta male who would never expect a girl to me interested in me, guess otherwise I'd use compliments that way too
Typically flirting or as a compliment if they're beating themselves up over a bad hair day or something similar and it's not that bad. I usually like to joke around and say something like "you have a spot on your..." (walks away and points to face)
Usually when people are nice to someone they want the other to like them back. Everyone wants to be liked. For guys, being liked by beautiful girls makes them more popular as well. The same goes for girls. Being socially accepted by people higher up in the social ladder helps your status as well. This is why we're often nicer to people that are more attractive/beautiful than to people that are ugly.
I would never compliment a girl unless I meant it. It is a weird thing for me most of the time, because I act really poorly to compliments myself. Being nice or to make them happy are the most common. Sometimes they are flirtatious. But, I always am seriously saying what I think regardless of the intention.
Sex is usually at the center of it all. Even if a guy doesn't know it, subconsciously, deep down, sex is almost always the reason. Maybe by complimenting this woman he'll increase his chance for having sex with her. I don't any guy puts too much thought on their compliments or at least don't really care about it. A guy can compliment a girl on her dress or skill at something without even caring about her dress or skill.
Sometimes i like her. Sometimes i just want to brighten her day. Sometimes its hard to do and i don't because i think il embarrass myself. Sometimes my intentions are flirting, but that also really depends on her reaction to my compliment. As in, if i want to continue talking.
Any or all of the above.
Sometimes there is a lady that is just so amazingly beautiful, with such pride in her personal appearance, that you just have to compliment her.
Her beauty makes me smile and brightens my day in a gloomy world, I feel she deserves a compliment and a smile in return.
Because she is.
Because we want to flirt and be flirted with.
We want to sleep with you and this is our way of letting you know that we're sexually interested in you, without coming off as creepy.
We're looking for an ego boost, a temporary escape from life's struggles and you're just the thing we're looking for.
That's all I can think of lol
i compliment her coz I'm honest with her. I do it to make her happy and not feel so insecure bout things.
i compliment her to see that smile on her face
Sometimes, I just enjoy giving a compliment. One little compliment can make another person's whole day. :) Sometimes it's because I'm interested. Other times, I'm just being nice and wanna make someone happy.
Depends, who?, where?, when? I compliment because I like being nice and honest. Sometimes if I like a girl, sometimes she's wearing something nice, her hair is nice etc.. I try living a positive life. So I try to throw around positive Vibes. Even tho it's not easy to always be positive lol.
well I'm the firstborn Leo and I'm honest to a fault people sometimes don't know how to take the things I say so if it came from me it is definitely how I feel I would tell my own woman as fast as I would tell a stranger or someone else's woman if that was how I felt
It depends. I'm at work? I'm being paid to compliment you, whether I think you deserve it or not. If I'm out, it could be because I'm in a good mood, or feeling unusually social. Most of the time, I'm shy and say nothing.
Because they like it. It's just a playful fun game. From a guy's point of view it's hard to relate to. But they like it. So OK, good enough reason. They don't just like it, they totally eat it up. Just the reaction is worth it.
usually just to make someone smile. old or young guy or girl. even if I like someone I think I ca still compliment someone. if you have a nice sweater then why not tell you and make you smile as well. hope it helped!
92% truth and think we are the first person with the nerve to let her know 8% she needs me I'm the only thing she will ever love if I just tell her this one point that drives me crazy I just need her to know
I compliment people who I like to be around. I can tell it makes them feel good and I like to make people I care about feel good. I don't have ulterior motives or expectations.
To make them feel good.
Occasionally to flirt/give notice that I think they actually are nice and I would/could be interested.
Most of the time when I give someone a compliment it makes me feel good inside to brighten someone's day. You never know that maybe your compliment took them from a bad place and kept them around...
woman are treated poorly by some men and i want to put my best foot forward being a representative of men
Its better then trashing them, dont you think? Because she really is pretty, really does smell good, really is smart, etc. Maybe I'm just being truthful.
well compliment k just 2 reason hai.. 1. Real love krte ho 1 sided to dil se compliments hoti h... uska koi khas intension nhi hota.. but girls uski value nhi krti or 2. just for impress girl.. may be its hard to do😂 but iska intension to bs bed pr hi hota hai..
For myself, I compliment to express interest in her. I want to make her feel good. I want her to know I like her and by complimenting her it exhibits this.
no some people are just genuinely nice enough to give a compliment without wanting anything in return
I do it when I remember how many people might be self conscious, so I say yolo, I'll tell her she's cute or somethin like that. I wouldn't mind the same treatment so I try to do it to others
depends, some because she is (insert nice thing here), sometimes it's to be nice, or, I want to get into her pants.
I have not done that since Feminist lobbying made complimenting a woman grounds for a sexual harassment complaint.
i dont usually
exceptions are girlfriend when she looks really good
friends when theyve been having a shitty week
and when trying to pick up someone
with respect to me I say only what I feel and if I saw something deserve comliment I will say , that's why I liked her from the beginning :)
because women are suckers for complement it appeals to their vanity. Women of the most vain creatures in the world
Depends. sometimes I complement on their appearance because I genuinely like it or sometimes because I'm flirting
When a compliment is on my mind, I just say it.
No other reason.
As if I've got something bad to say, I'll say it too.
Simple: We see something we like, we say it to you.
Not so simple: reason is you are looking sexual appealing, so we have to say something.
Like I saw a co-worker wearing a super tight dress, so I said, "I like your dress." That was it.
Typically I'll compliment her if I find her physically attractive and I like her personality. The purpose of doing so it's too express interest in her, make her happy and to flirt with her.
I used to compliment when there is something good in her... like her beauty, her eyes, her behaviour or her her figure.
I think that it's good to tell girl directly what u like in her. I. e. just share my words.
I mean should we not? I can't speak for others, but I'm not the kind of guy who will flatter someone just to get laid. If i compliment you it's usually because i mean it. Course that also means I tend to be particularly critical as well
I normally just state what I see as facts, and then everybody asks me why I'm flirting with all these different girls. It's quite aggravating.
I do it to make them happy to be nice and I always mean it
i'm not one to be social so usually its to fill in an awkward conversation gap or descalate an awkward situation..
• She is beautiful and it is a nice thing to do.
Flirting and sincere admiration. I complimented a girl last week after I saw her bang out 10 pullups wearing a 25-pound weight on a belt.
i would say all of the above & some that not there on the list
I compliment to show my appreciation and acknowledgement of it
If I compliment a woman it's because I like her. I don't think about it or plan it it just flows naturally off of my younger. Her smiling and blushing makes me melt.
Because I'm a decent human being that notices changes.
I just compliment her because it is one way to express our love. For strangers also I do when they're really looking great or doing well.
Just as a friendly gesture. I mean people compliment me when I get a haircut or I'm wearing something new.
When I compliment a girl it's because it'struly my honest opinion not because I want her to feel good or flirt with her (I have gotten rejected for complementing a girl before😂😂)
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some are really good answers
I do give everyone what they want.
Girls want to get pleased all the time, so I do it all open.
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