My girlfriend is lying to me about meeting up with other guys?

[Anonymous]

Okay I asked my girlfriend if she wanted to go out on Saturday she said she was busy with swimming that day, so instead me and a friend go to the shops. When I'm there I find her with another guy and her female friend? her female friend does not even know the guy buy my girlfriend is friends with him and I talked to him and they were going to see a movie..

-ive been ignoring her for one day so far, what do I do about this? -she lied to my face, how can I trust her now?

[orangejuice]

do you ever show or tell her that you're really jealous or don't like it when she hangs out with her male friends?

lying to you about where she was going wasn't ok...but its just something to consider. maybe she just doesn't want you to get angry at her.

in any case, you two need to sit down and talk about it. don't ignore her, that'll just make the problem worse. you can only hope to trust her again if you find out exactly what's going on, and discuss how you feel about it.

[Anonymous]

sounds like she cheated on you... ask her straight up to see if she cheated... then tell her you can't be with her if she is a cheater and then go and find someone else

[Asker]

Alright I will try that thanks :) what if she is just scared that I will freak out because she's hanging out with her male friends?

[Opinion Owner]

If she didn't cheat then she would say something like... I'd never cheat on you.

If she doesn't deny cheating on you and you keep asking her for a few weeks... then she cheated on you... if she keeps flaunting the fact that she has a lot of male friends then she may be cheating on you. Just saying, this is how my boyfriend's ex cheated on him... when he asked her she DID NOT Deny it for 3 months... my bf's friend saw her with other guys at a hotel.

[Asker]

Oh, she does say things like that. I have a feeling that she is just worried ill get mad or somthing about her meeting up with male friends without me even though I don't mind.

[Brando]

Is that what you really think, or are wanting to think. The girl sounds shady. It very well could be what the other answerers have said that she is just worried you'll get mad. But unless you've done something that would make her worried, she has no reason to lie. You need to find out what the deal is so you can potentially avoid wasting time and heart break.

[TimeAndTimeAgain]

Ouch.

Ask her why she lied. Try to understand why she did it, if she has a good reason for that then it'll be easy to forgive her.

But if she doesn't, or you think she's also lying about her reason, you might want to find someone else.

[Shadow_in_the_dark]

shes cheating on you...i've been there :(

[Anonymous]

Dont.

Leave her ass, and ask her friend out.