What makes a guy reject a girl?

[jodyleo]

I got rejected so many times I am not the prettiest girl but I take good care of my self But Always guys rejected me I don’t know what is wrong with me So Why would a guy reject a girl?

[btbc92]

Well no offense but one of them is the sense of desperation they get from you. The real questions I keep telling people to think about are these?

Why are you looking for a boyfriend? What are your intentions for dating?

What are your views, values, principals, beliefs, morals regarding love, sex, marriage, children, abortion, politics, etc. All these things MUST be considered. Nobody's an idiot. Just because you have a pretty face and a great personality what else do you have to offer?

Another thing to consider: WHY are you approaching complete strangers you don't even know? That's another reason why your getting rejected because you think and feel, though not entirely your fault of your own, that your good looks are going to cut it. And if your flirting, your adding that as well. The newflash is, it's not. Guys and Girls alike have their own reasons for dating. Most of the times it's an excuse to access sex in relationships. Thus causing many potential problems to arise.

And also, it depends on how serious or not serious you are about dating. Besides your goals and ambitions from it. Besides, what are you standards and looking for in a partner? Are they realistic or unrealistic? Do you have undesirable traits that have NOTHING to do with the physical and metaphysical aspects? Seriously THINK about this. Otherwise, there is no reason for you to drive yourself crazy over. But my problem I see from you is that your going after guys who doesn't think your worth the effort.

[Audreyweirdo]

most guys reject you these days because of features they prefer such as big booty, big tits, or big lips. morals don't exist at the moment. the good men get treated like dogs by different women and it takes us forever to find these perfect men

[HandsomeGuy500]

"the good men get treated like dogs by different women"

Exactly, which is why I've lost total faith in women.

[scooogy]

The one thing that makes me consider dating a girl is her being happy and showing so by smiling.

[Anonymous]

A lack of interest due to many factors, pretty much the same reasons we'd reject a guy I guess.

[jodyleo]

I have never rejected a guy before :)
Because no one asked me out... etc there’s no guys to reject:))

[Opinion Owner]

Well if you were to reject a guy then, I presume it'd be for similar reasons 🙂

[Opinion Owner]

It's not that personal though, not everyone can be suited to everyone. You'll find someone better!

[Bananaman177]

Keep trying, No matter what you look like, you're somebody's fetish. Worry more about personality, try pursuing something else, maybe you're supposed to become a doctor first, and then you meet your perfect husband.

Maybe you should become a cop.

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Don't be sad, you're lucky you haven't shacked up with the WRONG person. Being single is way better than being in a bad relationship.

[TwinCKI]

I usually reject a girl based on their personality. Even if a girl asks me out, I usually give them a shot but when I learn more about them I decide that we aren't the best match for each other and then continue moving on.

[AyushMate]

There could be many possible reasons. Maybe guys don't find you attractive. And if you are attractive then maybe you both don't have similar interests.
Don't get me wrong, it may happen that your nature or attitude towards people are not good.
I think you should just keep trying. You'll get a guy.

[CheckPlease]

I'd do it if it felt like I was more into her than she was into me. Usually I give it a try and go on like 3 dates. Cause the first two are usually really awkward. for me it can be a wide variety of things. What is it that you think is causing the guys to reject you?

[Pyrofox]

Just come off as cold and maybe not that friendly. It also could be the way you dress doesn't make it seem like your looking for a boyfriend. (BY no means does this mean you have to look desperate. Just something more than what says. I'm okay with being forever alone.)

[WhistleForTheChoir]

For me, low self-esteem. I shut it down hard and fast when a girl approaches me, because I panic. And at this point I don't feel like I should ever be in a relationship and if I shut it down early no one needs to get hurt. But sometimes it's not you, it's the guy.

[Leo3572]

reason no 1 would be that I am already in a relationship. What could be also possible is when she seems to be arrogant. I realy don´t like girls who think they are the best of all. I also would reject a girl if I really don´t like how she looks like. there are a lot of other reasons. it´s not so easy to explain that in general.

[Wonderingfool]

Only once have I rejected a girl; she was in the friend zone; we were mates; she was one of the lads. That was six years ago; I've been single ever since; maybe its karma; I don't think i'd reject a girl again.

[LilGhost]

I’ll reject a girl if I have feelings for someone else. Sometimes if a girl wants to hang out and get to know me I won’t reject them but if it gets too far and I start thinking about the girl I have feelings for, I feel like I won’t be as interested in the girl who is interested in me.

[ImagineSketchy]

A lot of things honestly. They may be in a relationship, gay, not interested in you in particular, have someone already in mind, aren't interested in dating, or etc. I guess you never really know.

[tartaarsaus]

For me it's never been about how a girl looks. I don't really have a specific type. So far I haven't felt interested in a relationship and the girls who asked were people I simply don't like because of past experiences.

[Azriel_Eventide]

Well i could be that you dont have the same interests as the guys you have tried to date, try finding someone who shares your interests it really helps =)

[jodyleo]

I tried and I find a guy I think that we share a lot in common and my friends think so
But I’m too scared to take a step cause I am tired of being rejected

[Azriel_Eventide]

Well you just have summon the courage to tell em how you feel simple as that really

[UnknownXYZ]

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Rejection sucks. Deal with it.

[unboblievable]

ALLOOOOOT of different factors can contribute to a rejection from male to female. But MOST of them have something to do with preference. What one prefers if completely subjective and if they reject you then they simply do not prefer you as a partner

[reptocarl]

Looks
Personality
Style
Habits
Mannerisms
Intelligence
Addictions
Age
Money
Status

[Nina12346]

Hang in there, you'll make it, take a break if you like, let love look for you.

[Ayer93]

Honeymoon phase ends and loss of interest. It takes a certain level of maturity to stay with someone after the honeymoon phase.

[Ellaki]

Pretty sure she didn't talk about marriage at all

[Imperra]

@Ellaki I think he didn't say it literally.

[Ayer93]

@Ellaki read the definition of honeymoon phase. It doesn't necessarily relate to marriage.

[MysteriousPopato]

The guys who reject girls, in my opinion, has somebody else in mind. They might like somebody else... Or sadly you're not their type.

Hopefully soon, you'll find somebody who will like you for who you are!

[alexei1000]

If the guy is not interested or you are not his type most likely

[jodyleo]

That’s so strange when it happens all the times
All the guys I tired to get to know them more
Rejected me
And no one seems to be interested I even have never been in a relationship

[alexei1000]

im sorry for this

[Jayson101]

If I do not like her

If she is rude
If she is unattractive
Sometimes if I am interested in someone else

[Cellestial]

As a guy I would reject a girl if she's not my type (physically), or she's flirty with guys. It depends from a guy to another

[Zotisi]

If the guy is not interested or you are not his type most likely.
Or just by the way you do certain things.

[JSmuve]

If I'm not attracted to her. And I've got high standards.

[razor97]

being with another girl or choosing to be alone. mostly i don't even look at other human beings (like me), they all fail to get my interest

[razor97]

i know i sound edgy... but it's true, i don't

[Quidthonian]

I rejected my last girl since she didn't pay attention to me. Communication was the key for me letting her go.

[jodyleo]

They rejects me when I try to get to know them better

[Quidthonian]

That is a different story then. It's clear that he doesn't care about you. He doesn't want you to know him. I'm sorry about your situation. I suggest stopping the relationship. I'm sorry.

[jodyleo]

I am not talking about a one guy
I am talking about all the guys I liked
They rejected me all of them

[SketchForger]

Because they don't want to date them.

I reject girls way more often than my friends say I should...

[ShesAmerican]

you remind me of a Calvin Klein model

[Marcus21]

I would only reject if she was an abusive person, or has a liquor or drug problem

[Fuentes]

If she comes off as a immature thot that will probably be a headache in the future il reject

[AdmiralBailey]

If he just doesn't see himself with you for long or he thinks the sex will be bad by looking at you

[harsh24nov]

I think god just want to give you the best partner 😀

[godsarecrazy]

Maybe you show u take it too serious. Beeing too intreted can sometimes mess the things up

[Anonymous]

You like only the ones that reject you, that's how it is.

[jodyleo]

And no one seems to be interested to get to know me

[intjgamer]

It may not be your looks. What kind of things do you talk about with guys you would like to date?

[jodyleo]

I tried to talk in a friendly way to get to know them better but then ignore me and seemed not interested in taking with me

[intjgamer]

Yah that is corny small talk that is cliche. Some guys can't handle it because it's been said to them many times.

All of the "what do you like" "what do you do" stuff is not interesting anymore. There has been a culture shift in dating conversation.

[-Beonkia]

I have no idea. No matter what I do, I'm rejected

[TheUglyMonk]

You´d consider yourself a shy girl init?

[-Beonkia]

Yes but I try my best to flirt and every time I'm either interrupted by someone or the guy is just oblivious

[TheUglyMonk]

How would you flirt exactly? Just by compliments or do you go an extra step?

[-Beonkia]

Compliments because guys think I'm creepy as hell

[TheUglyMonk]

Two girls can drop the same exact compliment, one comes off as creepy and one comes off as extremely flattering; try to compliment a guy on his hair for example, stand closer to him and touch it, then proceed to give him more compliments.

[-Beonkia]

I would do that in high school and guys would still be a little creeped out about it haha...

[TheUglyMonk]

Well obviously you have to establish a connection first and an attraction, you don´t try and sell a pen to someone who is not interested in buying a pen.

[-Beonkia]

Okay but I'm not good at talking to people randomly, especially guys

[TheUglyMonk]

Everyone starts at "I´m not good" you choose to either stay at that level or get good.

Go to the mall, compliment a few guys and talk to them just to feel more comfortable with talking to strangers, care though some might be extremely rude but don´t take that to heart.

[UnknownXYZ]

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Yep, flirtling and giving hints you like someone isn't approaching.

[TheUglyMonk]

Perhaps your social skills are not the greatest.

[devildogs]

Men are idiots I guess.

[ReaRose14]

when you are super young

[omgjassy]

You’re not his type

[johnboymuscles]

Them being nuts

[Nachowedgie]

Having no interest

[Mydream_]

I don’t know