My father was a mobster and did many horrible things before he met my mom (married 28 years, 4 kids). He got out and he is a good person. Give him a chance. Make sure he knows that no more big secrets will be tolerated though.
I would be pissed in the fact that he's dishonest. He kept this from you for five years. Has he lied about anything else? Then, comes the nature of the crimes that he did.
Tricky situation, I don't think anyone here has the information you might need to make this decision, you know him better than any of us. Do you genuinely feel he has changed his path?
You say that you know him since 5 years. Assume that he is how you know him TODAY.
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It depends how serious the crime was. If it was something like murder or rape? Leave him If it was something like some drugs or if he was a minor thief? I'd stay.
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My father was a mobster and did many horrible things before he met my mom (married 28 years, 4 kids). He got out and he is a good person. Give him a chance. Make sure he knows that no more big secrets will be tolerated though.
I would be pissed in the fact that he's dishonest. He kept this from you for five years. Has he lied about anything else? Then, comes the nature of the crimes that he did.
Tricky situation, I don't think anyone here has the information you might need to make this decision, you know him better than any of us.
Do you genuinely feel he has changed his path?
What did he do, get a speeding ticket or murder 20 people?
You say that you know him since 5 years. Assume that he is how you know him TODAY.
It depends how serious the crime was.
If it was something like murder or rape? Leave him
If it was something like some drugs or if he was a minor thief? I'd stay.
Just leave him. I can't understand what attracts young women to these thugs.
Give him a chance, you know him 5 years so it obnoxiously didn’t affect the relationship for what ever he did, maybe it was for something stupid
Give him a chance. People change sometimes.
It's up to you, noone can tell you what to do
Everyone deserves a second chance
Well what crimes did he commit?
That depends on what crime he committed.
Commit a crime so you'd be even
Has he abused you? What was the crime?
Well... Has he killed anybody?
Give me a chance
Him*
See if he has changed
Give him a chance
Is he a good guy?