Answered in previous question. Socially awkward. Trust your instincts if you think he has been holding back. Even though he probably does want sex, that doesn't make him bad. He is human and you are attractive. It seems like he held back from telling you he likes you and is overcompensating without realizing it by coming on way too strong. If you two like each other why not tell him to slow it down to get to know each other, go on some dates etc...
If you aren't comfortable, don't go and invite him to a more neutral public place first, eg movie, restaurant, some kind of game, a public park etc. As for the reason, everyone else already said it. also, I am kind of new on GaG, can you tell me why I was invited to share an opinion for this? I liked being invited, I just want to know was it a computer generated thing?
... don't he kinda rush things up? you're not even a couple yet? i think he just want to have sex. well i might we wrong but he didn't denies it right.
well i'm Asian and we have different custom. people here think when a girl go into a guy's house which not even his girlfriend = cheap.
just ask him to do the other way around? or other places?
You’re right except the asking part. There’s no pint in asking guys who are like that. Just let him go honey. Asking will only get you deeper into the manipulative mess he wants to make in order to sleep with you (talking to the asker here)
Sex is definitely on the list of 'everything'. I'd like to say it doesn't nessicarliy mean sex but knowing guys there's a 90% chance it does. So only say yes if you want that.
If you haven't been on a date, or enough dates I'd say turn the offer down, a easy joke like 'you have to buy me dinner first' can soften the blow a bit and point out that you are still interested (assuming you are) but just not in sex right now.
He's being vague because he wants sex. And saying "for everything" also indicates you should expect sex. If you want to get laid go for it. But if you want something more with him make him work for it. Go on a few public dates before being alone with him. Depending on what you want.
He wants to do "everything" with you, or he wants to make plans when you get to his place. Sounds like he doesn't want to meet in public, which is understandable. He is probably a little insecure about asking you out. Someone needs to break-the-ice so you can move forward, and discover the true potential of the relationship. Good luck!
100%he just wants sex. You’re attractive and he's one of those dicks you think they’ll get it easily and only care amount a nighter. Seriously, you’re young and pretty and can do better. dont waste your time;)
He probably means "everything", including sex. Talking, hanging, watching a movie, who knows. But he has no sense of what's proper. If he's thinking of you as a potential girlfriend, that's rude. Asking a girl you hardly know to come over is touchy, especially if it makes her uncomfortable. He should hang with you somewhere else until you know each other better.
He means for everything. He wants to hang out with you, and you can have sex, and do whatever all at the same place. If you went to the mall you'd have to go someplace else to do everything but shop, eat, and talk
He is either socially awkward, wanting to screw and chill, or a complete freak in a bad way. I don't think it's really safe to go over there. If you don't know him like that then I wouldn't do it.
It gets on my nerves people who just can't be direct and say what they mean with proper words. Probably he was talking about sex and something else that only he knows what is
1
0 Reply
Anonymous
(30-35)
+1 y
It means sex is on the table, because when is it ever not on the table really? But sex is also never a certainty, when is it ever really?
It's a mistake to think that's "what he's after." Guys don't have intentions like that. The point is to have a good time whatever that may entail. Do you understand?
Simply it means he wants you there at his home alone. To cuddle, to have sex anything he may want to have. Yes but the main reason is he wants to have you in private so basically it would be for having sex.
When he said "for everything" he was hinting he wanted to sleep with you, he just didn't want to be too vulgar about it. If that's your cup of tea, go for it.
Yeah, he wants sex. But that doesn’t necessarily mean he is going to push it if you aren’t interested. He could just prefer staying in rather than going out.
Eh, I would say he just wanted to hang around with you at his home turf where he is comfortable and can show off his home stuff, I guess. He probably thought sex was probably but didn't really plan for it as a goal so that's why he answered like that. Not to mention your question seems like it came out of nowhere. Like "admit it you want sex" like what?
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
164Opinion
Answered in previous question. Socially awkward. Trust your instincts if you think he has been holding back. Even though he probably does want sex, that doesn't make him bad. He is human and you are attractive. It seems like he held back from telling you he likes you and is overcompensating without realizing it by coming on way too strong. If you two like each other why not tell him to slow it down to get to know each other, go on some dates etc...
If you aren't comfortable, don't go and invite him to a more neutral public place first, eg movie, restaurant, some kind of game, a public park etc. As for the reason, everyone else already said it.
also, I am kind of new on GaG, can you tell me why I was invited to share an opinion for this? I liked being invited, I just want to know was it a computer generated thing?
... don't he kinda rush things up? you're not even a couple yet? i think he just want to have sex. well i might we wrong but he didn't denies it right.
well i'm Asian and we have different custom.
people here think when a girl go into a guy's house which not even his girlfriend = cheap.
just ask him to do the other way around? or other places?
You’re right except the asking part. There’s no pint in asking guys who are like that. Just let him go honey. Asking will only get you deeper into the manipulative mess he wants to make in order to sleep with you (talking to the asker here)
Sex is definitely on the list of 'everything'. I'd like to say it doesn't nessicarliy mean sex but knowing guys there's a 90% chance it does. So only say yes if you want that.
If you haven't been on a date, or enough dates I'd say turn the offer down, a easy joke like 'you have to buy me dinner first' can soften the blow a bit and point out that you are still interested (assuming you are) but just not in sex right now.
He's being vague because he wants sex. And saying "for everything" also indicates you should expect sex. If you want to get laid go for it. But if you want something more with him make him work for it. Go on a few public dates before being alone with him. Depending on what you want.
He wants to do "everything" with you, or he wants to make plans when you get to his place. Sounds like he doesn't want to meet in public, which is understandable. He is probably a little insecure about asking you out. Someone needs to break-the-ice so you can move forward, and discover the true potential of the relationship. Good luck!
All types of guys in this world. It doesn't automatically mean that he only wants sex. He might just be a little weird.
100%he just wants sex. You’re attractive and he's one of those dicks you think they’ll get it easily and only care amount a nighter. Seriously, you’re young and pretty and can do better. dont waste your time;)
Thanks girl 💗
He probably means "everything", including sex. Talking, hanging, watching a movie, who knows. But he has no sense of what's proper. If he's thinking of you as a potential girlfriend, that's rude. Asking a girl you hardly know to come over is touchy, especially if it makes her uncomfortable. He should hang with you somewhere else until you know each other better.
He means for everything. He wants to hang out with you, and you can have sex, and do whatever all at the same place. If you went to the mall you'd have to go someplace else to do everything but shop, eat, and talk
You seem to have answered your own question.
Probably he wanted you to come to his place because it would be his best chance to persuade you to go into his bedroom and have sex with him.
You know this already, so why are you asking?
He is either socially awkward, wanting to screw and chill, or a complete freak in a bad way. I don't think it's really safe to go over there. If you don't know him like that then I wouldn't do it.
It gets on my nerves people who just can't be direct and say what they mean with proper words. Probably he was talking about sex and something else that only he knows what is
It means sex is on the table, because when is it ever not on the table really? But sex is also never a certainty, when is it ever really?
It's a mistake to think that's "what he's after." Guys don't have intentions like that. The point is to have a good time whatever that may entail. Do you understand?
He wants to get in your pants and you're not gonna let him cause you dont wanna be that easy and do what he says.
Simply it means he wants you there at his home alone. To cuddle, to have sex anything he may want to have. Yes but the main reason is he wants to have you in private so basically it would be for having sex.
100% for sex. The guy just has no game.
I assume the 'everything' would mean any and all activities that could happen i would assume he means sexual ones.
When he said "for everything" he was hinting he wanted to sleep with you, he just didn't want to be too vulgar about it. If that's your cup of tea, go for it.
He wants sex, but was too much of a coward to come out and clearly say what exactly he wants and expectations.
Why didn't he just admit it to me then?
He lacks the confidence.
Yeah, he wants sex. But that doesn’t necessarily mean he is going to push it if you aren’t interested. He could just prefer staying in rather than going out.
Eh, I would say he just wanted to hang around with you at his home turf where he is comfortable and can show off his home stuff, I guess. He probably thought sex was probably but didn't really plan for it as a goal so that's why he answered like that. Not to mention your question seems like it came out of nowhere. Like "admit it you want sex" like what?