What's the deal with shy guys? (Page 2)

Question

Is it true that if a guy's into you he'll make a massive effort with you? What if he's shy? Or would he want to take his time before massively approaching someone because they work together or something? What can a more confident and sociable girl do to encourage them? Or should she just set her sights elsewhere?

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Some of us guys are shy and can't open up to a girl cause we fear of being rejected by a girl. That's why I'm shy.

Thevampire · Answer

Don't give up. If you feel like he's the one... then don't give up. If you really like him, keep on trying, eventually he'll open up to you hope this helps.

DJZest · Answer

Masculinity has been under attack for the past fifty or so years. The result is shy guys, cucks, Trump-haters, etc. I'm sorry for all of you girls and women who have no real men in your lives.

parkerlesueur45 · Answer

No way shy guys are the way to go. More often than not they are much nice than confident people. Itd be worth your time to figure out if a shy guy likes you than to set your sights somewhere else.

Abhishekpal · Answer

It seems you are asking this out of sympathy for him. Cuz sociable girls never fall for shy guys. So if you feel this way then its best you make friends wih him. N see how it pans out.

doctorwhofan23 · Answer

I would ask him out yourself as a shy guy that would help a lot. Don't hint at him to ask you out ask him out yourself.

jiothecat · Answer

No, I used to make a massive effort and get nowhere then i saw that when a girl likes a guy it takes zero effort from him to get her affection.

rapfan107 · Answer

Just make him get comfortable with you and the shyness will go away , most shy guys are only shy in the beginning they're another person once they get comfortable

TheUglyMan · Answer

Lol shy guys don't approach women. And there's nothing you can do about it you gonna have to approach the shy guy or push him a bit at the start. But I doubt you'll do that women hate shy guys.

weaponsdude · Answer

I don't usually massively approach anyone. That's a good way to get shot. Just saying..

ItsDanny17 · Answer

You try to engage with him! Talk to him and help him open up to you.

Jerobrian · Answer

You get first. Since direct approach is more your style. Once the ball gets rolling you'll know if he's caught on or not.

OfDeath · Answer

Not every guy is going to make "a massive effort". That sort of thing depends on the personality of the guy.

britpop · Answer

Hard to read and judge but if you like him why not instigate things yourself

mornelinde · Answer

Give some signs. We need to know you are interested.

james3461 · Answer

Guys are uncomfortable making first moves. That statement is incorrect

th3c0unt · Answer

If you're approachable and not a bitch... He will, yea.

Shy_Steve · Answer

If a Shy Guy is really into a Girl then he will usually not approach her simply because he is terrified or rejection that is just a fact.

Steve4783 · Answer

It is very hard still for us shy people so if you are confident enough, Just talk to him and ask him questions if you like him.

AdamED · Answer

Nothing is wrong with that. They could be good or bad, just like any other guy who's not shy. But shyness is not a very good quality tho.

chrissurvivor · Answer

Say something nice and at least mostly honest or believable about him, wait a day then make the 1st move

Anonymous · Answer

Being shy as a guy can be like a death sentence in this way. Being shy also does not mean confidence, you can be the most confident person on the planet and be shy. You don't understand shyness it seems

fennec_folly · Answer

I'm a pretty shy guy myself. There must be a reason why the sociable girl is interested. If he's into you, he'll let you know, but he must know that you like him too. Best of luck!

Anonymous · Answer

Yes and no... A massive effort on a shy guys part might be just saying "Hi, how are you" to you...  Because it takes a lot of courage...  To you that just might not even be a big deal...

Mrblueballs42 · Answer

Well shy guys aren't bad but when I was real shy I missed out on a lot.

TwinTurboTWB · Answer

A man will wait til the very right moment to talk to the girl he likes. If he messes up then it wasn't the right time

TurkishSoldier35 · Answer

They're shy insecure f*cks who can't do shit in their lives and always miss pussies cause of this reason.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't make massive effort, if a girl is interested I'll keep being open and looking at her, that's it

GrimReaperDX · Answer

Talk to them. Instead of them approaching you, approach them.

Nice222 · Answer

You should approach him. A shy guy will worship a socially outgoing girl that approaches him.

scooogy · Answer

I've been called a stalker for making "a massive effort", so never again.

nickdell · Answer

Depends on personality. Some guys are aggressive and some guys are passive. What do you want in a guy?

rockrewls · Answer

Be open and accessible to them, all guys are different.

Anonymous · Answer

If I'm into you, I'll make an effort but by no means a massive one. It's a crush, not a slaver.

ThisDudeHere · Answer

What's stopping the girl from approaching?

Anonymous · Answer

If a guy is shy, you need to take some initiative.

pinayfit · Answer

shy people dont get you anywhere

bihwtfff · Answer

They have small dicks

adamjanovic · Answer

I married a shy guy. 💍

Bear41 · Answer

Shy guys do take their time.

StickStickity13 · Answer

Set her sights elsewhere

sidvt · Answer

Just talk about it straightly

JesseTheMan · Answer

Same as shy girls, they're, well you know, shy?

jjhonn · Answer

You like shy guys 😉😘

Crankor · Answer

If he likes you enough i would say so

Mediterranean35 · Answer

Haha I feel sad for them.

Good_Behavior · Answer

The answer to your first question is no.

Nahid1234 · Answer

I am shy and awkward and never good enough

GoldCobra · Answer

If he’s shy he may not approach or talk to you

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Avoid pussies. You don't need a man that is timid.

Zion666 · Answer

Just massively talk to him to find out

NoahL14 · Answer

Most don't feel confident making the first move

dragon9669 · Answer

Stay away from introverted people

Anonymous · Answer

Why not just ask him out? I don't get it.

LunerBlood · Answer

Not without encouragement

kevonlayson · Answer

Start the conversation

bodyboarderman · Answer

I'm shy sometimes because I'm unattractive

NikTheGamerCat · Answer

Try giving him signals that you like him

Drifting_tiger · Answer

All guys are different

Anonymous · Answer

Sometimes you may have to ask them out instead

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