Honestly whenever my wife says she's gonna go take a shower I sexualize it. Like "so, babe, want me to help wash your back" then I'll wink at her. Doesn't mean she will say yes. (Most of the time she does) but heck yeah. Every time. Without fail. Even if in at work and she's at home and we are texting. Same thing but I'll send her a winking face lol.
That's real cute ahah, but again that's your wife so I feel like that's normal ahaha.
i say sy like "sure, take ur time"
then time stops and if she's hot i think there are 4 little fairies helping her to shower while some music starts playing in the background from Enchanted and everyones singing. then i start laughing and noone understands my hapiness 😁
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I think that deserves an MHO xD
Bahaha they need a cold shower to cool "junior" down! 🤣 Honestly though, depending on the guy and how he views the girl who says she's going to shower, he either doesn't care or sexually visualizes and fantasize about her.
If it isn't my boyfriend, I simply go AWOL on my male friends if I need to shower.
I know some guys when I tell them I’m taking a shower they turn the convo into more of like a sexting convo.
But I switch it around really fast to a normal convo
Whoa, I've never had that happen...
It’s probably because they are hormone filled teens.
Thats prolly why xD I didn't see your age ahah, but yeah... I think as a teen I was more careful with what I said, cuz I remember the guys at that age were only ever thinking of sex or weed lol
Lol yeah
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Its a 50/50 on what the guy will think 😂. Depends on who the girl is to them in life and what the relationship is.
When an old girlfriend of mine would say that, I'd act flirty if the mood took me or if I'd just say "alright." And leave it at that.
If it's just a friend I usually think nothing of it, but we are all human here... sometimes it goes the sexual way 😂. I could ask you the same question!
ahah, i just dont see it in a sexualized way xD
prolly b/c tv never really makes "guy's showering" in a slow-mo/sexy kind of scene ahha
the guy legit is usually always at the end of the shower, gets out (recently they've been including butt shots lol) and thats it! he's all clean xD
Let me tell you with straight up honesty. One way or another if the guy's into you he's gonna imagine you naked. Period the end. I don't care how mature he is or trys to display himself as. If you make it flirty he will definitely "elevate" the thought process per say. Men are visually appealing beings and you saying you're taking a shower will hit any guys mind when he is into you. You should be catious when saying this as it can open an easy door for a guy to make the situation sexual over text. Now of course if that's what you want then by all means go for it.
A little of each. It easily pops in a guys mind, that she will be naked and a quick visual of her ass and boobs with water spraying down. On the other hand, he doesn't dwell on the thought, and it goes away quickly. It goes away quickly, as it is a normal daily functions. And he doesn't always visualize her naked. It doesn't work to avoid using the word shower, there are a lot of things a woman can say, that will make a guy briefly visualize her naked, or partially so. it's part of being a guy. But don't freak out, these thoughts go in a guys head, and are gone right after.
Makes sense... I mean girls have the same issue tbh, but I always just felt that most guys don't really actively visualize it. Like it's okay if you briefly see it across ur mind, u can't help that. But it's a bit more weird when a guy sits there and imagines it and gets off on it... cuz like, it just seems to me that they aren't excercising control in a way.
It is a little weird, if a guy sits there and imagines her in the shower, just because she mentioned taking a shower, and getting off on it. The most I've ever gotten from a girl saying she was taking a shower, was a little nice thought of how nice she must look in the shower, but not dwelling on the thought.
That's fair u. u I don't really see that as creepy ahaha
She's just taking a shower... i'd appreciate that she told me. i don't see anything sexual there... contrary to female popular belief... guys don't sexualize everything about women... we are very simple creatures.
If the second head doesn't have intentions... we can barely focus on walking, not to talk of making up sexual thoughts.
Maybe im speaking for just me... but she's going to shower... good riddance.
Riiiiight? I thought so too! But it recently was brought to my attention that it might be misleading :/.
stupid horny cunts... i hate the way guys make us look. Like all we want is just sex and we sexualize everything and look like dogs with our tongues hanging out when we see tits...
I consciously decided to go single a long time ago, but when i had a girlfriend, my goal was to be AWAY from that drama...
How the fuck is telling someone that you are going to take a shower misleading?
You know what? next time... tell em you are going to take a dump... let them mislead or sexualize that. morons.
Ahahaahhaah xD believe me, I tell guys I take dumps all the time... and when it's massive, I brag :3
But yeah, I agree with u... guys really do tend to ruin the image of a man. I'll be sure to keep it in mind that not all guys sexualize things, and some often do in fact have lots of control and intelligence 👌
control and intelligence? *looks over both shoulders* where they at?
hahahaha... i just don't like my feet leaving the solid ground of reality.. i can rock with a girl who ain't scared to say she poops...
its the morons that hold it in till their ears are about to pop, just because a guy is in the vicinity that irk me. then they say it smells like roses... haha... I've smelled a rose... and they are NOT the same lol
Mine smell like rainbows :3 you've never smelled a rainbow u. u so u can't compare 😂😂😂👌
Care to take a whiff of my soft fluffy poo? 💩
Mmmmm rainbows! 🌈
And omg!!; A unicorn! 🦄 It's my lucky day :3
Oh c'mon, that was boring 🙄
I know u could've given me something more witty than that 😐
Show me what you got Beyonce (im referencing her lyrics from bootylicious not the fact that u are black...)
Her: "hey babe I'm gonna hop in the shower
Me: "I wonder if there's anything good in the fridge..."
How it should be!
Guacamole and cheesecake, then it's a dream 😍
Well it depends
If she's a friend I would keep it professional and say "OK see you later" or something
However if she's my girlfriend I would sext about it and ask her for nudes or something
But either way I would fantasized about her being naked in shower
I take it as she is going to enjoy a nice warm shower. Its very polite but kind of tmi. Kind of like saying hold on I need to brush my teeth.
Also tbh we do think a bit of the girl getting naked if we like her. I know that girls usually do the same if she likes a guy.
Hmm, I dunno, I never really tend to imagine a guy in the shower... unless it's like the typical movie scene with the shampoo in the hair part ahah. But yeah, I guess it is tmi... but I do tend to text what I'm about to do, I guess cuz the people I text with do the same as well
I do sexualize it, why would you tell him if you could just say nothing at all. If a girl says something like that you automatically picture her naked. I usually make a bad joke like "need some help with that?" Had this one girl who said it out of the blue, how can u not sexualize that
I dunno... it's just a normal hygeine practice, like brushing ur teeth.
And cuz like if u are friends you just say it, it's no biggie 🤷 should I be rethinking this?
Aaah I see
Everthing a girl does is sexualized by us. Just some examples...
Sleepover = Nakedish pillowfight
Disagreement with bestfriend = Nakedish jellyfight
Argument about right of way whilst driving a car with another female driver = Nakedish pillowfight in jelly
xD ahahha
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Only another 10k to go... lol
Lmao ahha
I perceive it as she's going to take a shower or wants to take a break from talking but don't want to be rude.
Rightfully so u. u
Hahaha... Exactly.
Either real show or just wanna cut convo
*shower
@Aidelwaish I don't know any girls that come out and say "I'm done talking to you" unless the person is an asshole lol
If he find her attractive, most likely there's some imagery going on. Depends on the guy too, I would say a lot sexualise, probably the majority too.
Being the gentleman that I am. I would ask her if she wanted me to come over and wash her back. Or her hair. What ever she might like assistance with
The vast majority of people get naked when they take a shower. It is a well known fact. If I find the woman attractive, the thought of her being naked will enter my mind if she says she is going to take a shower.
Hmmm, interesting
My MANLY brain will feel excited. Now communication will rest for a little while and I can focus on a beer, or anything else that is important in my life (other than my lady, I mean)
This just shows I'm very f*cked up cause I don't sexualize that although I know 99 percent of guys do. It's the natural thing to do
Natural maybe, but more human and gentlemanly to not sexualize it... definitely.
It's just a shower, like I don't understand why it would be such a big deal xD
Lol it's biology. Anything implying that a woman will get naked triggers a sexual reaction. That's why, when you want to flirt with a guy, the best thing to do is putting images in his mind. Talk about the shower, or a place you like going for a massage, or your journey to find the outfit you're wearing, etc
But like some of these things are just info that will come up when u talk daily...
I agree, I believe in that too tbh. But yeah, I guess I need to catch myself more and be more careful once again. I've started to slip and be too comfortable around guys ahah
Depends on who it is. If she is into me or was flirting before hand yes otherwise daily function of cleanliness
Normal daily function but if you perceive everything as sexual you'll act accordingly, ever guy is different is what I'm trying to say
Yea we sexualize it.. any act that involves you undressing we think about it sexually
So if a guy asks "what are u doing?" And the girl says... need to get changed and take a shower then eat.
He will sexualize that?
Nothing comes to my mind. Just she takes a shower. When I was teen I thought how amazing will it be if I was with her now.
You obviously ask her if she needs company or a hand to say wash her back etc
It's the only gentlemanly thing to do of course.
Scalp massages are in order good sir!
Your own water bill? #Relationshipgoals
Ahahaha
In no-commitment-land, do they receive phone calls over there? 😂😂
Bahahaha anyone can commit to pleasure and fun lol
I'm not going anywhere, sorry I think I brought in the sexualized images from the other comments into this convo 😂😂
Guilty 😯
No takesie backsies
Ok so where do u stand on this How did you lose your virginity? ↗
I like to sexualize it, but only if it's a girl I like and/or dating with.
Haha if i think she's attractive then I sexualize it
@virginbish their heads swell up 😂😂😂
Prolly with water and soap 😂😂😂
Mostly depends on the kind of relationship they have with each other.
She maybe done with dirt so she decides to take a shower simply
Depends on the narration style about shower of girl, if it's casual I think she's just taking bath. But if it's different than...
Boner😳... well, boners are a normal daily function for me
Lol, okay ahah
Nothing just that your going to take a shower. But when your finished give me a call.
instantly imagine her naked in the shower soaping up, and maybe playing with her pussy
Why are we linked to bein perverted animals men = perverted animals? I met girls super perverted you won't hear no one say shit about it and write it off as a joke.
Meh, I'm not lining it to be a perverted animal thing xD how did my question come off as that? 😂😂
But look at the answers... it's not like I'm making this up
I don't sexualize it, women tend to do that more honestly.
Whaaat? Maybe u should ask the question from the girl point and compare 🤔
I do, and they sexualize it
I meant "I should" sorry 😅
I don't know... I don't sexualize it, I think many girls don't either
It's probably rare, but common with the girls I talk to.
once I think it is ok that everyone can take shower and then I imagine her during shower because it is the tendency of normal man's brain.
Depends on context.
What kinds of contexts would u sexualize it... and others that you would just brush it off as a shower, and not let ur brain wander off to fantasy land? Ahha
If you say "I stink, I am going to take a shower" nothing sexual about that. Butbif you say "I'm taking a shower, wish you could join me?" Or anything along the lines of "Ill be thinking about you during my shower"
You get the picture.
Yeah of course, I would definitely take that as a sexual invitation as well!
But what if the girl just says "sorry, gotta go take a shower" and that's that... no stinky or sexual invitation?
If there wasn't anything sexualbin the conversation before then no.
Appreciate the honestly u. u and I like it train of thought 👌 really tho, I think that's only right ahaha
I just wait till she is back
The shower happens but with more sex.
Michael I think you need to re-read the question
I envisage her naked
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