Frankly dear @julie10123 , this guy is strating to creep me out :-S
It is pretty obvious he is jealous, but also that he knows nothing, and in my own opinion, I say it again, if you have never met in person before, it is best for YOU my dear to meet him somewhere public, and have a real conversation :-)
i am starting to get the grip of his bad English, and he is pretty much jealous.
The only thing that have not changed, is the creepy guy he is and maybe the only thing he has in mind is getting you into his bed, or worst!!!
Be safe sweetie :-)
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Yes he sounds jealous but not in s good way, seems like he's too worried about the other guy showing him up and now he just wants to prove he's more manly and that you should want him. Instead of caring about you liking another guy and wanting to be a better guy for you to date. The point I'm trying to make is it doesn't seem like he genuinely cares about you the way he should. I'd say your better off looking for a better guy that knows how to treat you properly. Not to mention a guy that knows how to speak properly.
I personally don't think you helped the situation. If I was that guy I'd say fuck it and let you go with the other guy. You want him to be jealous and that's no way to have any form of a relationship, flirting or not. Your "look how much I'm wanted" act won't work for long because he'll get bored of waiting.
Heyy, yeah I think everyone here is right. He is jealous but he is being very possessive. I would stop texting him and I would not go see him on Monday unless I wanted to have sex. You would absolutely be playing with fire if you go see him though. Is the other guy cute? Maybe go with him.
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Honestly it's hard to say how he is really feeling.
Only he knows and you're never gonna find out over text, especially if thats the way he always texts.
He could have said "**** him" because of the other guy harassing you, if that's the case he would have meant to say "Just stop replying and hopefully he'll leave you alone, or block him"
If you think you can read him getting jealous from just by the way he plain texts you, then its likely he'd have a reason to get jealous, if you know this guy likes you, perhaps don't tease him about being jealous if there's a possibility of him actually being there.
This is not the first guy who will "want to take you out and keep on texting you after you said no" Going to a person who may have a crush on you can be problematic. However if you would also go to him for advice on how to get with a guy as opposed to rid of; then perhaps it's time to let him know where he stands so not only will you know if he's getting jealous or not, but he'll know whether he should or not.
Good luck.I can't tell. There's not enough information to go by. But from what it seems, he might be jealous but it's not enough information to draw conclusions. 21... I suppose you are an adult. If you don't want him to touch you, don't put yourself in that situation. Do this in public. I mention adult because, at younger ages like in teens, there can be a lot of confusion with consent. But even in college, this comes up. be careful. Understand that if you don't trust him, he might convince you or force you to be intimate. It you don't want it I would advise not being alone with him.
But in terms of jealousy. Just that back and forth text is too little to make a solid call other assumptions. You should try to go about asking him or approaching him differentlyOk his English isn't any good but look at his replies. Only one or two words. Up until the message about you going to his house.
To me, he isn't jealous that you are talking to another guy, he jealous that is you do, he won't be able to hook up with you. He wants you in his house to be alone with you, and I think his intentions aren't good, especially as he asked what you wanted when tou said you won't let him touch you (btw, much kudos for that, that says a hell of a lot about you and all good)
My advice? Ditch him, give the other guy a chance, if he wants to takr you out properly.He either does like you, or his pissed off that his "prey" is gonna be taken by another guy. I can't give an accurate judgement of him since this snippet does not really give me enough materials to work with when it comes to acertaining his character.
Well, for me he seems like a playboy and his English is really poor for a proper communication... I bet he thinks he's thinking about the chase because he got that a guy invited you for a date... but I don't think he is literally jealous because jealousy is meant to people whom you genuinely like. He wants to have a fling with you so he's not serious... just be careful and look for someone who can communicate better with you
He's jealous and he likes you. He asked you to give him the chance instead that you were considering giving to the guy you told him about. And when you repeated that you felt bad and maybe you should give that guy a chance, he said, "Fuck him." Short version. He's jealous and he wants you to himself.
These texts are some caveman shit, LOL. Sounds like you *want* him to be jealous and he just wants to hook up with rather than you give the other guy a chance. That's not jealousy, he's just trying to get it in and the way you are testing his interest by referencing other dude might be transparent to him, and it's emboldening. If you want to go his way, you are entitled of course, but I get the impression you are putting more thought into it than he is. That way leads to hurt feelings...
Yes, he likes you and he is jealous. But the fact you told him maybe you should give this other guy a chance sends a negative message. I don't know what you are looking to gain here. Coax him into admitting feelings? Getting his attention? I just hope you were not playing games, because it sure seems like it.
You can't say ki He want to touch you that's why he called you in. There might be something he want to inform you about in personal or something like that. Anyway u know him better So you should decide to go or not. But you thinking he want to touch you is wrong. Anyway take he is goddamn jealous
lol
your English is not that good either ! haha
Anyway, i think he over protective and somehow jealous !
That is how men works , i say you just test him and keep pushing his button , if he just gives up then he is not jealous or anything , if he is still jealous then stop chatting with him for a while (then definitely he will say that he misses you )It is simple as clear
He want to fuck you...
So now decision is up to you.
Whether he worth it or not, u know better and if he is a player and u got played , blame urself cuz you choose to. give in for a. player instead of waiting.Cut to the chase and stop playing with him. Honesty is the best policy and you're going out of your way to play with his feelings, whatever they are. If you want something casual, tell him you want something casual. If that's all he wants and you want more, cut your losses and move on.
Otherwise you're just wasting each other's time.The problem is your leading him on, and your purposely trying to make him jealous by telling him how your being pursued by other men.
No one wants to feel like they are second best. And no one appreciates putting effort into trying to be with someone who's focus isn't truly on them.
If you keep playing this game and he has any type off backbone, he's gonna tell you to go kick rocks. By then it will be too late and you be sitting there all alone wondering why you can't find a man.HE IS JEALOUS!!!
Girl, sister, I loved the "I'm not gonna let you touch me"
LIKE KEEP ON YOUR SIDEEEEEE OKAYI can't tell if he's jealous or not. Don't have enough context. But my opinion would be that, he is just trying to get with you before you get with someone else. Also, if you do decide to talk to this guy on Monday. Maker it under your terms. Don't go to his house, go to a public place.
Right then.. He wants you to come to his house but you're testing his personality.. He found out desperate for you.. But it's not the right thing to ask whether he's jealous of the other guy. whatever the guy he is, he has feelings too.. I think you should stop making him jealous and talk about going to his house or not..
He is jealous becoz he is feeling insecure of losing you, its normal on first instant every one would react like this. Talk things out first before going to his home if you really like him. Don't push him too much that you later regret. If things work out well great otherwise move out mutually.
Youir are right his English is bad so hard to follow what is meant. My advice is don't go to his house unless you totally trust him and know him well enough. If you are not interested in him meet him some other public place.
He's clearly trying too hard and is overly jealous. And I won't lie. You're being a bit of an ass by saying you should give someone else a chance when clearly this guy is interested. But that's just my opinion.
I don’t know what this guy is saying. The English is not the best but it sounds like he wants you to go over to his house. I think you know more than me what this guy is feeling. I gather the last text meant “What do you want?”
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