At age 41 being single never married and no kids ? Feels like I have been sentenced to life alone!! (Page 3)
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no man, don't by any means give up. if you want a family than that is the sort of thing, once decided, for f*** sakes go for it until your dead. don't give up. if you want a younger woman go for that too, don't set your standards low either. find a girl you like and work at her, if you fail move on. good luck man, don't give up...
38 IS younger... heck, 41 is younger...
Not having a 21-year-old only means than you need to set a more realistic bar for yourself.
Reassess your other standards for women. What are you looking for? Is it realistic?
If you really did not want to be alone, you would not be. As you evaluate your standards you'll find the point(s) that are preventing you from finding your gal.
Oh don't be so negative! I'm 21, the guy I'm currently in love with is 37! you don't fall in love with an age- you fall in love with a person. You shouldn't be embarassed that you've never been married, you just have yet to meet the right girl. My father didn't have me until he was 50!
Admit it, you only like younger girls because they aren't ready to settle down and subconsciously you don't want to settle down either. Be honest with yourself. You're not a bad looking guy, you just have unrealistic expectations.
If you're looking for a wife, then try someone in their 30's, who is already stable, sexually knowledgable, and independent.
No you can still get married. Men look better at an older age than women, women look young until they reach 35, after that they aren't so young anymore. It may be hard to get a 21 year old but if you got someone 10 years younger than you, that would be good too. Personally I think if you got someone who is 21, it seems like you can be her father. You can still have children if you want some offspring.
Keep looking for a woman. Maybe somewhere in her 30s would be good too, right? It doesn't have to be that young (21) right? Do you mind it if the woman already has kids? I'm just curious. Keep looking.
I was going to write that.
Try some online dating like that match.com or whatever the other ones are.You can look specifically for people in your area and the age range you want... you never know what could happen. Maybe its just where you're meeting these women.
I agree with this you should try it I've met 2 couples and they look really happy so I'm guessing its a good place to find what your looking for.
It's definitely not too late.
BUT. . .
You'd be better served getting out there and meeting lots of girls and spending less time in front of your computer writing about how much you're turned on by period blood.
And just as an FYI chief, women are horniest during their most FERTILE period in their cycle, which is NOT during menstration. This is something you'd learn if you got off the computer and got your hands on a living, breathing (and yes, menstrating) woman.
Good luck!
um...if you make six figures a year...tell them that on the sly BEFORE you ask them out!
You will find her Larry. She is out there. Just keep your head up and keep smiling. Sometimes if you're not looking for love, it will find you.
I like the effort, but guys REALLY hate hearing that, larry I would look at online Dating, There are actually Quite a few 23 - 35 year Olds who Want a mature and established man instead of 20 year olds who will screw them over/ possibly move on in three months
wow..rarely do guys go for that...but I don't see the problem with wanting what you want..i m 26, and personally, I'd rather older guys...i m not attracted to men my age or younger...keep trying...you'll get what you want..pray about it.
PS - keep a smile : )
maybe lary69 is not the best name if you are looking for chicks, it like having mike hunt or I love tofu as you are name.if you are looking for young chicks get a letter-men a BMW and a bottle of soko, also let them call you daddy. just call me Jesus, your welcome.
Youre not too old. Just certain women like immature guys. I'm 28 and hott and my boyfriend is 51 and I'm super happy. Just hang in there, there are more like me out there you just have to let them come to u. By the way I am a sex freak lol
Oh and we go out clubbing at Senor Frogs and he keeps up with me quite well. We just went out for Halloween as a matter of fact. He doesn't look his age though. and I'm not the least embarrassed. I'm in love. He gives me everything I need and want and desire.
It's absolutely possible for you to get married at this age. My grandfather was older than you are when he got married over 60 years ago. Back then, it was considered even stranger for someone to get married at that age!
Marriage and kids are way overrated, there are plenty of things to do! Learn a instrument, its never late! have as much fun as you can, because life is shorter than it seems to be.
Try to find someone in the same boat as you! and about the same age. you're never to old to find love so don't give up on it and let someone pass you by...
just work on things to attract women I guess. in today's society, people care less about age. just be positive and work towards that goal of having a family someday with kids.
yeah, I would definitely say try for someone in your age range
I will not date women in my age range...33 is about as old as I will go...If I can't have Kids then I have no reason to get married!! I say age is a number to a point...I mean my parents were 15 years apart...Oh well thanks
That's true...if you want kids, shoot for someone who can actually have kids!
Who says a 41 year old woman can't have kids?!? I think if you really want kids you are more likely to find a like-minded woman within your own age range. With a much younger woman the process is likely to take much longer, with a longer dating period, longer time to decide etc. I think women in their late 30s and early 40s wanting children might give you the family you want that bit quicker.
I agree with sabayon...I'm 22 and even if I fell for a 41 year old (I doubt it, my age range can get guys younger and hotter) I wouldn't want to have kids for maybe another 5-8 years...and I wouldn't want to have kids with a guys who is almost 50 (in 8-9 years)...soo that my kid will be 20 and my husband will be 70!!!! that's would be crazy!!! Good luck...but aim for at least over 33!!
@sabayon Because women don’t make new eggs, their chances of getting pregnant after within a year drops to 40% within a year, not to mention the higher risk of chromosome problems and miscarriage. By 42, that drops off a lot quicker at 20%, so the window is very slim for a woman conceiving, even through IVF. There’s adoption and donors, but infant adoption is pricey, and many religious people object to using donors.
Are you like that guy in high school who said he'd never get married & then when he got older realized how stupid that actually was?
Heck no! The last two guys I dated were in their early 40s. I'm 29 and honestly I personally find that guys in their early 40s are much more mature, and I find I tend to have more tings in common with them than guys my age.
NOOOOOO lol don't give up that's other ppls opinion your not a perv just don't go for that low of an age your going 2 findsomeone okay