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Its just an aggressive place to be. Everyone goes to clubs so they can get wild/meet new people/get laid. Everything in a club is a warzone because everyone wants something from someone else. Its not because of the way people dress, its because of the implication they put up by trying hard to look more attractive - to which end - they are probably more successful lmao
All in all, everyone is a pig. Whether you indulge in drinking lots of alcohol, relationships, sex, dirty dancing, all of it. So everyone needs to stop labeling others and maybe look a little deeper in yourselves first to realize we are all human here.
-besides rapists of any kind. Dont get me wrong here.
There are females who go to clubs who crave that kind of treatment. It's definitely not all by any means, but it's enough to make some guys think all girls are the same in that building, and mix loud music in a dark chaotic setting with plenty of alcohol flowing, and they feel comfortable enough to treat anyone and everyone like an object.
I feel you girl. I work on a club bar at night and I can't even count the guys who came at me "demanding" to talk to them, asking for my name, If I want a ride home, If I want to do something... And I'm only there for like serve them drinks but of course I have to be polite and smile all the time so that sends them mixing ideas.
Their behavior Its just natural for those type of guys who go to Clubs. They're stupid and are only there because they can't find a girl like normal people do. Plus with the alcohol they become animals but deep inside they are some pussy too scary of rejection.
Alcohol/drugs, and/or on a mission to get laid. Plus, they probably have their friends hyping them up or something. Who knows. Some girls are into it. Most I know, aren't. I always have at least one friend that has my back with me. You never know how far someone will go!
I feel you girl. I love me some clubbing. Wednesdays, Fridays and Saturdays are the days for where I live. And when I'm drunk I love to dance, but what I don't love is having a guy grab my ass so hard it bruises, yes that actually happened.
All the skin they see gets them riled up or they think women in clubs are looking for the same thing their looking for, a quick lay.
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It is commonly known to guys or so they "Think & Believe" that females only go to clubs to meet guys. Therefore, with that dumb ass thought in their $hit for brains, they believe & feel it is necessary to grope up on all the females they can, just hoping and thinking that they just might end up getting lucky.
I work in a club that is intentionally targeting female customers. So, my experience will not quite be like most other clubs. We have 3-4 security guards and 2-3 actual police officers on site during open hours and 99.9% of their job is dealing with men. I could fill 100 pages with all the stupid shit I see on a nightly basis. Maybe 2-3 times a year there will be women getting into a fight or something, but the rest is all men. Men being too aggressive, creepy (had a guy get caught hiding in a womans stall, taking photos of women on neighboring toilets), men jealously fighting each other over women, you name it. I am of the opinion now that if I were to go out to a club to relax, I would want to find one with least amount of men present.
Because even if a good guy were to go to a club, a girl would ignore that guy and pay attention to the guys being aggressive. Whether they are being annoyed about them or going along with it, the bothersome guy is still the one taking their attention and not the guy who nicely asked them to dance (Which is actually deemed socially weird in a bar under most circumstances) if you wanted it to be different you would have to take control of the atmosphere yourself. That is all there is to it
Clubs nowadays for guys are used as hook-up starters. Society has let it get to this point where anyone can't just go out and have fun in public places like this without being harassed by the opposite sex. Case in point: reality TV shows like Jersey Shore.
Usually women who love to drink go to clubs. So men think they can get away with aggressive behaviors towards drunk women. Also, women dress up very sexy in clubs. So guys who are generally aggressive can't help themselves but to look at women who look sexy and see what they can get.
There's a place for all types of people - and clubs is where you find not the most mannerable guys hanging out (and some bars). It's just where they know they can hang. It's more of an unspoken rule. So, they expect the women there to be okay with the club culture and how things go. I can't do clubs, it's so dangerous on so many levels. You're likely to get some kind of super staph infection just from sitting down
Because it's a hunting field pretty much. It's like imagine a group of lions go into a field full of gazelles who have purposely broken their legs and are walking around saying eat me, eat me. Group of guys go out where there's countless hot girls all dressed like they ready to fuck and then are like oh nah sorry I got a boyfriend. Plus all the testosterone and shit all the guys trying to be top dog and shit. its all fkn animal shit
Because they're drunk. I find that these guys also tend to be narcissistic. Most guys who go to clubs are shy and just sit at the sidelines where nobody notices them. The second largest group is the narcissists. And the smallest are the genuinely confident men.
Right? I even go to LGBT clubs where they can almost bet every woman in there is NOT straight, and STILL my ass gets grabbed and I have weirdos rubbing all up on me. Some nights are nuts, and it's exhausting. Other times I make a game of dragging the creeps right off the dance floor. They never expect me to be that strong and determined that I will shove them backwards through the crowd.
It's because they are the loudest guys in the room. They go to clubs to pick up women because they assume that women in clubs are there to pick up men. I personally find the club scene to be utterly repulsive. They keep trying because they're SO overconfident they just assume that after a few drinks, she'll change her mind and that if they try hard enough, they can get what they want.
sorry hun this is the world we live
I was actually dancing with a girl one time and her dress started to come up and i pull it down for her, she told me the last guy was trying to pull it up and im thinking like seriously
WHY? we are here to dance kick back have some drinks and have fun
when I go to clubs im not trying to sleep with anyone
even when the girl wants to fuck
I still don't
im a guy I understand its tempting but trust me some times its best to say no to a girl
1. A high proportion of guys there only see you as prey.
2. Cause they never ran into:
Mace
Stun gun
Knife
Fist
Knee
I can't believe so many of you women are gullible enough to believe that guys who go to the club are actually there to bounce to music and "dance". Not saying the groping and forceful behavior is appropriate but come on, alcohol, loud music, girls in revealing clothing, late night setting etc. like what do you think is gonna happen.
The guys that hang out in those places probably feel if they do that to enough of women, they will find one that likes it or desperate enough to go have sex with them. It is a shame that the good women has to put up with this also. If you don't want to be around this, find another place.
I would be more concerned if your question was "Why are guys in libraries so disgustingly aggressive?".
If you want to meet guys who are not normally disgustingly aggressive, try going to museums and libraries.
Guy's no they can touch and grab girls without getting in trouble. The worst that could happen is security kicking them out if things got out of hand. It still doesn't stop most from reaching and grabbing girls.
Most guys go to the club to get laid, combine that with alcohol and a certain type of guy and that's what you get. Sadly.
We are not all like that though, I don't even drink.
Hahahah they do notice, they just donât care whether youâre comfortable or not.
The type of guys who often go to clubs are the more aggressive type, and they get alcohol in them, and lose their inhibitions, and it can be a mess.
Mostly because they are drunk I guess, men and women are very different. While women mostly go to clubs to dance and have fun, most guys go to âhuntâ
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