Now I can only assume she's clinging on to this new guy because he showed interest in her and they have similar interests and beliefs. Before I knew she was seeing this guy I wanted to reconcile, and I still want to make things work or just to get closure. I spoke to her about it, and we got into a fight. They seem to be moving REALLY fast - I remember when we first started dating we were moving about 3 times slower, and I, the guy who wanted nothing more than a relationship with her, freaked out and delayed getting together. I can only imagine that she does have some pain inside and still thinks of me, and that she's extra needy - Something that might push this guy further and further away.
I'm not going to speak to her for 3-4 weeks, unless she gets in touch with me first. I don't know if she will since it seems she's moved on, but I don't think coming out of a 4 year relationship and then seeing a new guy is good at healing old wounds or making her forget about me. Since I'm not speaking to her, I wonder if she'll find it odd that I'm not around 24/7 like I used to be, and that will prompt her to wonder how I'm doing and get in touch.
Am I going about this in a good way? Do you think they have a chance?
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