I'd talk to him about it anyway, it's not actually a creepy thing. A lot of people are into some touching when their partner is sleep but there are different levels to it and it should ALWAYS be discussed before acting upon it. He should have asked your permission first. So just talk him about it because if you don't you feel resentful and I'll cause tension between you both. Sometimes conflict is needed for understanding and growth. And trust me you'd rather just a minor inconvenience this one time instead of being afraid to sleep around him all the time.
You have a right to consent to every bit of sexual activity you are involved in. I think you need to say "Please stop doing sexual things to me in my sleep. If you want to play, you need to wake me up and get consent so I can also participate and not just be a toy you play with."
Well if it's new behavior then perhaps the dude is on drugs... why do I bring up drugs? Simply cause it makes people act very strange and I've no problem Sharing that from experience. But I've also come to terms accepting that not all sexual advances with SO will be considered as stimulating as it does to me...
You should definitely TELL him how you feel... sleep is very important for everyone regardless
maybe just roll over and act sliiiighttllyy annoyed. Not enough to get a reaction out of him though. Do this enough and he should get enough.
If not, just say you have a hard time falling asleep when he touches you while sleeping.
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Tell him you don't like him doing it cause you feel like he is violating your capacity to consent to sexual acts and it makes you think of rape. Tell him he is only allowed to touch you when you are awake and able to make informed choices about what sexual acts you are wiling to participate in.
You boyfriend is not just more touch feels. He's disrespecting you by, among other things, putting his dick in your ass, while you are sleeping. That actually is rape, unless you've given him prior permission. Honestly, to me, he sounds like his perverted in some way. To be sticking his dick in your ass, while you sleep, is not normal. You need to set some limits with him. Honestly, I'd say you are better off leaving him, as I see more trouble down the road, with your current boyfriend.
Well...
1) You tell him to fucking stop. He has NO RIGHT to touch you in any way that makes you uncomfortable, let alone do it when you're asleep!
2) You worrying about his feelings shouldn't come into it. You worrying about upsetting him, or making him feel distant when he complains? HE SHOULDN'T BE DOING THIS TO YOU AT ALL
Tell him. A lot of couples that’s acceptable. He doesn’t know you have an issue with it but that doesn’t make him wrong nor does it make you wrong.
You are wrong not to tell him that it’s causing you difficulty tho.
He is touching things you like him touching. You would let him if you were awake. He is awake and wants the touch. To gently do so without waking you is because he does not want to disturb you. His dick against your ass would be the same, but in? That is wrong. There should be a middle ground that will allow him to enjoy your closeness without waking you and without offending you.
Okay, here's what you do. You explain to him that you don't want him to do that and try to be easy on it. Like if you're afraid of becoming distant, do it in a way where he becomes sympathetic at the end. Don't yell at him, be polite. If he's nice, he'll understand.
No that’s not ok! You should tell him to stop and if he doesn’t you should leave him. You should never be touched in a sexual way that is not consensual. That’s called sexual abuse
Tell him to stop. If he leaves you didn’t have much of a relationship to begin with
Just be like WHAT THE HELL DUDE. ! Tell him you feel violated. Speak up.
Sounds to me he in the mood for sex but if u not in the mood just be honest.
OMG, just let the cum use your body to make himself cum all over you. It's not like you're using it for anything at the moment.
How do you know that he's touching you if you're sleep?
Wtf just tell him, he's your boyfriend
I would feel in comfortable too tbh
Just tell him to stop. That simple.
That’s kinda creepy
Does he actually enter you and cu
Rape
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