Yes, most guys are easy to have sex with. However, you still have to make SOME effort. If you just walk up to a random guy and say "wanna fuck me, right now?", most guys will assume it's some kind of a trap - because that just NEVER HAPPENS to the vast majority of men (if you look like a young Rob Lowe, John Stamos, or George Clooney, that's different). And women have been known to lure men into traps by offering sex where the men are robbed, beaten up, or even killed.
If you spend 20 minutes talking to a guy, and THEN you offer him sex (and if he's single), then if you're an attractive girl, I'd bet that 90% of those men would take you up on your offer.
Why? Because for men, sex is an end all to itself. We don't need an emotional connection in order to want or enjoy sex. I'm not saying it isn't better when you have an emotional connection (it usually is), but much like you can enjoy an ice cream withOUT sprinkles, men can easily enjoy sex without needing an emotional connection with the girl. Most women just don't work that way - they NEED an emotional connection first - and most people just can't seem to grasp that it's DIFFERENT for the opposite sex, and they always want to project their own desires on the opposite sex, with predictably bad results.
Majority of women don’t need an emotional connection to have sex stop trying to speak for us. And ik a lot of guys that do need an emotional connection to have sex. Smh
Most women may not need an emotional connection to HAVE sex, but most need one to WANT to have sex and to enjoy it. Perhaps you're an exception - those do exist - but what I wrote is true. Note that "the majority" isn't the same as "all women."
I think the only women who don't care about an emotional connection before having sex with someone are either mentally ill or prostitutes. I know that sounds harsh, but I don't mean it that way. Just can't think of a more tactful way to phrase it.
Hmmm, good point. I don’t think so though. For me (and girl friends I’ve talked with about this) sex is like 80% emotional/20% physical. Men, however, seem to have a higher sex drive generally speaking. Not that they walk around looking at every woman thinking “gee I really want to screw her snd get her pregnant!”, but it’s like it’s in the back of their head that they need (NEED) to have sex. It’s somehow in their DNA that they need to do it, whether they want kids or not.
I don’t even know. I just woke up and this is making more sense in my head than it is typing it out and rereading if. I haven’t even had my first cup of coffee yet, so please forgive me. 😂 Basically I think it’s just easier for guys to have sex (and more common) without forming that emotional bond.
Oh it doesn’t to me, by that logic that you said you are definitely saying most guys are either prostitutes or mentally ill. Also every girl I ever asked about this said that they need to be physically attracted to the guy to have sex with him. Why would you even date someone you’re not attracted to? Women only have sex with guys they aren’t physically attracted to because they’re rich. N I’m pretty sure no girl needs an emotional connection to have sex but they would prefer one.
Some guys will sleep with anyone that moves, and some won't. If some random woman just walked up to me, and grabbed my dick, like in the picture, I would be pissed.
It wouldn't matter if I was in a relationship, or not; I'm not justgoing to sleep with any random woman, just because I'm a guy. I need to get to know someone, first, and actually have feelings for them. I'd prefer to be in a relationship with them, as well.
Yes, I love sex, and I have a high sex drive. Those stereotypes fit me, and I'll sleep with my girlfriend multiple times a day, whenever possible, but that's the key... she has to be my girlfriend.
I don't know if I'd say "most," though I guess that would depends on exactly what "easy" means in here. It also depends on what you compare it to because good lord it's a hell of a lot easier than with women, that's for sure.
We are all different like women, but overall I'd say we are much less "picky" about it compared to women. You're very selective, and while some guys can be also, much less so in comparison.
in general most guys are easy to arouse and have sex, or sexual stuff with yes. whether they are in a relationship or not, they are easily aroused to sexual acts
No that's not what I meant. What I'm saying is we have a greater urge to have sex than you do. We place a higher value on it because of that. So that urge makes us more likely to do it.
I see what you're saying. Fair enough. But you still need to understand my point. Maybe I'm using value in the wrong way here, but when I say we value sex more, what I'm saying is we care about it more than you do. That's basically what I'm saying.
Because you have more nerve endings in your clit then our penis. And in the first few inches of your vagina and you have multiple orgasms. So if sex is supposed to feel better for you then why don't you want it as much as we do?
I just feel like y’all would do the most to get it, like pay 10,000 just to have sex with a girl. I would never pay that much for a guy Idc how hot he is or how much money he has.
That's an exaggeration. Me and the vast majority of men that I know in real life and online has not or would never pay for sex. The only guys who do it are the ones who have to because thats their only option of getting laid.
It’s not an exaggeration as I didn’t say most guys would. I was saying there are guys that have done that. And I like the way it looks but I’m a Virgin 🤷♀️.
Yeah and they make us look bad. I honestly look down on men who spend that much money just for a night of vagina... well who knows maybe you'll like it. You watch any porn?
I know it's ridiculous. And don't forget all those Web cam girls online who get paid just to strip naked and chat with men. Ah, what categories do you like?
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