Is it true men show love by having sex?

[Anonymous]

I read in several articles that men usually show love through the action of sex and when the women you love don’t wanna have sex it makes you feel alittle hurt.

[GrayMatters]

That strikes me as a little backwards. Men don’t *show* love by having sex. They *feel* loved when having sex. (Assuming it’s not casual.) Rejection, even from a wife or girlfriend, definitely puts distance between you. I think what men and women misunderstand about one another is that, generally speaking, women need to feel close to have sex and express closeness by wanting to have sex whereas sex is what men need to feel close.

[GrayMatters]

Thanks for MHO! :)

[ScholaryTeen]

Yes, I would say that is accurate.

You see, guys are taught from a young age to hide their emotions, to "be a man".
This results in an inability to effectively communicate emotions verbally, so guys rely on physical means.

It isn't strictly sex, it also is things like holding your bags, protecting your safety, doing chores, etc.

[SexyAshh]

I tend to have more of a guys mind, all friends typically men, im not emotional. And i would say i have sex to get the emotions out that i am unable to express daily. Dosnt mean i love the guy, im just horny and have had a long day/ bad week.

[MittenstheGlove]

It’s true. But we also have sex just to get off.

I for one focus on my partner if I actually have feelings for her.

If she doesn’t climax I feel bad.

[TonyMetal86]

Nope that's not true, he can show you his love by the way he treats you and feels towards you, also in sex, just like a girl.

[BlackDawn]

Some yeah. But guys that are normal in the head are capable of romance

[boggboss]

Yes but just because a man wants to fuck you don't mean he love u

[worldscolide]

Yes and no. Sex is a massive part of the way men connect with women.. but he also shows his love by taking care of you and standing next to you.

[ZELLxoxo]

There's a romantized saying that, 'once a man is in love, lust is no longer the subject; once a woman is in love he's the subject and the subject is everything.'

[oncpl]

Sex is an integral, rather the most essential part of love. Both strengthen each other.

[DDpsy]

Yes it is true but only to certain extent and we can definitely fuck without love also.

[RumEro]

thats a one way yes but there are thousands of other things

[RumEro]

#is😛

[chillguy987]

Not really, go on tinder. Watch how many of us want to smash. Then you will have your answer lol.

[Jackblue]

Have you been reading articles by that roach Andrew G. Marshall.

[Anonymous]

Some of us do see sex as part of love.
That's why when you cheat it's hard for us to accept that you gave your body to another man.
It feels like you gave your love to him.
We can't love you again after.

[Asker]

I like your response except the cheating part, like do you think the same for men?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not sure.
I've only experienced it from my perspective.
I know that the woman who cheated just sees it as sex, but for me it's a betrayal because I thought she cared about me.
I can have sex with her now, but it's confusing and I can't feel anything for her anymore.

[michaelbernad001]

Yes most men does. Sex is part of love 💕

[Mantras]

Nope

[Sabretooth]

course not

[Asker]

Really? I believe it kinda, I mean men usually show they love through action. So it makes sense that sex to a man can be a way to show love with a woman you love

[Sabretooth]

actions like listening, remembering, helping around, yes-but sex is about pleasure for us. think about guys who have one night stands, prostitutes and such. plus, think of rapists.

[UI_Vegeta01]

Not necessarily