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Is it a bad thing if a guy asks you to pay for your own meal for a date? (Page 3)
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No. You're an adult. Pay for your own stuff especially if you're aren't his woman.
Do you think that in marriage, a woman should "pay for her own stuff"? Because Biblically, men are obligated to provide financially for their wives: see Exodus 21:10 & Eph 5:28-29.
@mistixs: The asker isn't the wife.
True, but assuming the 2 are dating in order to ascertain whether they will be compatible for marriage, they should try to demonstrate that they would be able to properly fulfill their responsibilities in marriage. (& Yes, for women, that includes being submissive to the man's benevolent leadership, as per Ephesians 5.)
@mistixs: Still the answer is no.
i feel that you have doubt on him
ty to find other guy to date i guees
I always pay for everything. She doesn’t have to pay for her own meal. No i don’t mind it at all.
It means he doesn't think you are DTF, or he's decided he's not interested even if you are.
50/50 is the way it should be
Yes, I would be turned off.
Women who refuse to pay their own way (like a grown adult) is a turn off.
Yes it is. And I don’t date such men
He’ll never see this face again.
I think that you'd be doing him a favour.
@AzzaBlue that comment isn’t very nice 😅
I definitively would and tell her she’s being cheap
I think it should at least be equal 50/50
No. I prefer to pay for myself.
No it is not. ♥️🥰
Nope, I prefer to do it that way personally.
That’s a good thing equality baby
Ya he should pay for me 😊
Totally depends on the situation
Yes, it is. He should pay for it.
Ha! Fuck off you entitled whore.
What is wrong with you seriously...
@morimeme1 men don’t owe you anything
Nobody said anything about it, is was just a genuine question, read the caption ffs before throwing around insults.
If I ask a girl for a date, I pay everything!
yes its embarrassing...
its not necessarily bad.
You should at least offer to pay before hand.
@Iron_Man
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It should be 50/50
No 🤣
It's gross
@Wowgirl30q
You are one who expects the guy to pay. Why is that?
@MysteriousDarkness because he's the man 😂😂😂 sorry but yeah
I could pay and be the man but if I wanted to do that I'd just date a bitch
@Wowgirl30q
Do you think you are too good to pay for yourself on a first date regardless of where the date is and what is going on?
@MysteriousDarkness yes
Honestly if he can't pay he shouldn't be dating. I pay every third date to show I appreciate him because I'm nice
@Wowgirl30q
Maybe he doesn't want to be taken advantage of.
@MysteriousDarkness then stay home
@Wowgirl30q
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That is what a gold digger says. You will need this
@MysteriousDarkness you hate I'll be great. I don't feel a need to insult strangers that's weird. Just saying odd
@Wowgirl30q
It is your prerogative to take the truth I tell as an insult and or hate. Another thing is that you think you are entitled to a free first date which no one is. Women work these days so why should the guy be expected to pay?
@MysteriousDarkness again I don't know you so why would I care to explain myself to you or care about your opinion?
I wouldn't, I don't sorry you assumed
@Wowgirl30q
I assumed nothing but I did keep it real so if you do not like it too bad.
No wowgirl, what you are is an overgrown child who refuses to grow up and pay their own way like an adult. You can spin whatever bullshit you want, you are just a lazy, entitled childish parasite. Period. Full stop. Mic drop.
He's poor.
He's a cheapskate.
Not always
Nope, he's generous
I meant he's not a man
I think it is.