Why do white men think they still have a chance with white women?

Question

As a white women Im not even slightly attracted to white boys, they are too feminine , they have no swag and can't compete with black men. I find black men damned irresistable, charming, social, smart, handsome, romantic, they are real men. Tbh I hate being approached by white boys, I could date a white boy only if he's stinking rich but otherwise not. Why do white boys still approach white women and ruin our days?

EpicDweeb · Accepted Answer

Lol, it's funny because many black women feel the EXACT opposite in believing that black men have had their chance and don't appreciate them as much as they should, thus they have decided to exclusively date white men because in their eyes, white guys are more respectful and reliable.

(For clarification this is mostly in ghetto areas where a lot of the guys grew up without father figures, didn't learn responsibility, got involved with gangs and drugs because they had nobody to rely on and in turn repeated the cycle by abandoning their girlfriends after getting them pregnant because they weren't responsible enough to help with the baby. The mother decides to keep the baby, the baby grows up without a solid father figure, the cycle repeats).

I'm not actually saying white men are superior to black men or vice versa. I believe the culture in which many black men grow up has not lead them to be responsible, honorable, reliable, honest, or compassionate and the culture many white men grow up in has lead them to be dishonest, arrogant, lazy, and irresponsible.

TL;DR
In other words most people just generally suck whether they're black men or white men and you aren't gonna find your dream guy just by forsaking all white men.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Probably because they know that not every white woman would fall head over heels for a black man like you do.

White men used to be just like black men but now being a straight white man is one of the most disgusting things to be in this society for some reason. They are told that they are responsible for the alleged oppression of women, blacks etc. as a result, the ones who are fell for it become feminine in an attempt to show women that they have nothing to be afraid of with them, but they aren’t even a little bit attractive. You can thank society for that.

I am not one of those people by the way. I routinely workout, and would probably win against all my friends in a fist fight because they are all the ones you describe, I have been punched, kicked and slapped in the face repeatedly throughout my life so I can handle it.

One of the biggest reasons why have no fighting experience is because the only people who have started swinging at me with malicious intent was women and I know I cannot hit back because then I would suddenly be the monster. I usually dodge or block at that point.

I know a couple white guys who are pretty ripped though so don’t give up hope.

Emmalouise03 · Accepted Answer

You fucking whore don't fuck black men, we don't want a mix the child will be confused as fuck, am i white? am i black? like hell no, black men aren't any better than white men you fucking hoe. "I could date a white boy only if he's stinking rich but otherwise not." You're also a gold digger, you're not worth shit. How could any man want you lmao your personality seems disgusting and I'm being fucking honest. White men belongs to white women, many black guys wants to fat ass black women, people who look like yourself. Are you a wannabe black

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

The question itself is a bit odd, as science has shown that we're attracted to people who look like us. So it makes sense to be attracted to your own race?
I agree with you though that white guys have huge egos. They just think the world revolves around them and always want to be in the spotlight and play hero.. On the contrary, black and brown guys are humble, low key, funny and polite when they approach you (even when you aren't interested in them). Asian guys also seem polite. Really, white guys need to get off their high horse

Dongtai · Answer

First of all I’m a black guy and can appreciate a white woman’s ability to proudly admit her attraction to men of color. Thank you.

However

Check yourself. Slow your role. You are not special. Humble yourself. There are plenty of white women who love white men. I see white couples all of the time. You might not be one of them but they are out there.

Come on it’s 2019. We don’t have to keep competing with each other over small stuff. If you like black men, good for you. That’s your preference. Go get you a sexy black man with swagger dripping from his body. But don’t make it a big deal. At the end of the day we’re just people like you.

EmperorOfRussia · Answer

@luciusmalfoy1 @Asker

Well played!

I'm really impressed that you improved your troll's abilities and changed your usual patterns to post your habitual troll questions right here, I got used to see your "hurr durr, White girls hate White men"...

If you didn't mentioned me, I would never have imagined that it was YOU behind this pink anon account!

Well done! You don't need to prove anything to me, now you can go f yourself and suck a hundred dicks!

(People, don't fall for the bait from this PATHETIC BLACK BOY)

BadApple1 · Answer

Ok many sides to this question. First off you prefer black men. That’s a personal choice that not all white women make. You do and that’s fine. You are also claiming all white boys are feminine. I know where you are coming from... I see that too but not ALL white men/ boys are like that. I can also say that your description of black men might be true for many also not true for ALL. you need to stick to the facts that you know and since you never met me or any of the white men I know you can’t judge us all by the few that you met.

Sleezy_V · Answer

I kinda sorta agree

A lot of them have become submissive, sexually as well. None of them HAD what I was looking for.

My weakness though are Masculine Asian men! Smart, handsome, romantic, care about family.

elissa23Trans · Answer

White men and white women are a very diverse population. There are just as many effeminate black men as there are effeminate white men. While you may not have a thing for white men, there may be women out there who wouldn’t date a black man, or women who have a preference for one of the two groups. Don’t push your individual experience as indicative on other people. Thanks.

skeetskeetskeet · Answer

Well id agree that most guys your age are fucking pussified pukes. Its disgusting... I blame all the everyones equal shit and no violence crap... Getting punched in the face builds character in a hurry...

MannySimms · Answer

I've always preferred the company of black folks since they're much more fun to hang out with. But you're imposing your sexual preferences on all men? REALLY?

yoshi_wanna_ask · Answer

As a white *woman*, I wanna encourage guys who are told this kinda thing a lot that you definitely do still have a chance. I don't know what makes decide whole races are responsible for the way a few jerks have acted. I hope that despite how crazy everything seems right now, anyone reading this can find something/somewhere that recharges and encourages you and somebody who does the same.

(I'm not fussy but White, Asian and Spanish European are my favourites btw)

Anonymous · Answer

No idea, I agree White men are inferior subhuman INCELS.
Actually its ideal to be biracial, look at me the intelligence of a white man combined with the physique of an African warrior (6'3 w 22.5 inch shoulder width & 7 inch penis).

stepje92 · Answer

It's not written on your shirt, I assume, so calm down. I have a preference for brown hair, brown eyes, though I'm blondish with green eyes, but last month I had a few dates with a blonde guy with blue eyes. Don't be narrowminded, for your own sake. That's very unattractive and you might miss your 'The one'.

katjana21 · Answer

I have to agree with you. I don’t hate white guys but I hate when they approach me and try to “flirt” with me and honestly think they have a chance. It really bothers me. Its so cringy and laughable. And then on top of that they have the WORST pic up lines I’ve ever heard.

blondfrog · Answer

Most white guys are with white women. That's your preference and that's okay. No need to shame other races. Pretty sure this is trolling though since your anon.

SexyAshh · Answer

Im fully attracted to white men so speak for yourself

shawnmendrek · Answer

Facts are ww/bm relationships fail so do marriages. More power to them though. Even black women admit ww/bm relationships are usually based on sex.

Maybe they got game or better rythym in bed. But game is just a trick black women are used to. If ww like bm then good for them.

But in most cases bm cannot be faithful along other things. I rather stick with my boring white women than mix races. I just wish ww were more loyal but they are not.

But peopke are free to do as they wish.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm a white man and I don't approach white women, because I'm in a relationship with a white girl. Just like all my other girlfriends were white, and of the ones I've seen their boyfriends are also white. Funny that.

Kdude010 · Answer

Real Black kings only favor Black queens.  You're not even in the same vicinity. No black man wants a bbq Becky lol And no, you're not invited to the cookout

naijagurl · Answer

Why do I feel like a black man wrote this?🤔 Anyway, just because you feel that way doesn’t mean that others do.

HomoFuge · Answer

You are in luck because loads of black guys are obsessed with trying to date a white girl for some reason.

Iamawesomedog · Answer

Why do you think you have a chance with a black guy? Or ANY guy?

Harmseygrace · Answer

This the only good 'swag'.

Sarah_77 · Answer

So you not liking white guys = white guys don't have a chance with white women? Based on your logic, you're doing white men a favour.

AngelLily · Answer

Because most white women arnt like you and by the way you talk about your own men I'm pretty shore most regular self respecting black man wouldn't want to be with a self hater.

Damiankane · Answer

So you prefer black men what's the big deal you are not doing society any favour if you like them then good for you

You don't need to attack us

Also if your question is serious let me tell that last week I did have a three some with a white woman and her boyfriend ( whose black ) and she was the one who invited me

I also had few hookups with women who had previously been with black men so I'm doing fine

Stoner710 · Answer

Good to know clearly you’ve never met a country boy, but hell I don’t go for them cities girls anyway y’all suck at cooking

XavierSteele · Answer

Funny you should ask, personally I don't approach any women, they come to me on my cam site, but otherwise. But to answer that I have only had one black girl approach me in 3 years the rest were white

Anonymous · Answer

This is an obvious troll and I will respond as such.
Why do "white women" think white men give a shit what you think?
You want a thug life, don't piss and moan when you are living a single mom, dad in jail, abused white trash life style. (Yeah that's a "real man" alright)
Once you go black, we don't want you back.

Fanme · Answer

Some women still like them so they still have hope.

ImJustCurious13 · Answer

I know the smell of Troll Shit when I smell it, but if my virtual nostrils mistake me the I can't wait for my hard earned tax dollars to go toward the Food Stamps you'll be using to feed your 7 children you'll be raising on your own, Ms. Anonymous.

YHL6965 · Answer

What is even the point of your question then? You are entrenched in your own views and over-generalizing so what is the point in discussing with you? You have preferences, fine, but why the unnecessary hate?

JDavid25 · Answer

I don't know why people take these questions seriously still.. LOL..

MayBlythe · Answer

Keep up with your racist tendencies, and see where that get's you in life

HOAAH · Answer

If this is true, more Hollywood movies should be about white women and black men. But I don't think this is true for everyone.

JustWorthlessMe · Answer

Hello anonymous male troll number 1, 746. I give you a D+ for your trolling attempt. The whole pretending to be female trope is obvious... just another butthurt cowardly bigot

BeMuse · Answer

Just because thousands of white guys rejected you, doesn't mean you will do any better with black guys. Come back next year and tell us how all black guys suck and you only date Asians.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Same reason why you think you have a chance with black men.

Liam_Hayden · Answer

If this were not anon I'd be more apt to take it seriously and not think it was a poor trolling attempt.

In any event, I approach girls who seem approachable. I do not give the first bleep about her skin's melanin-content.

Anonymous · Answer

You really need to stop thinking this applies to all white women Because there are heaps of white women out there who are attracted to white men I'm a white women and have no problem dating white men

jacerach · Answer

Jumps off a bridge. There is no hope in humanity after reading this

_乃尺OЩ刀_TITI · Answer

I know this is the exact people who keeps asking why white girls don't like white guys anymore lel.

winterfox10 · Answer

I don't even bother trying, at this point. I live with the belief that I want to go where I'm actually wanted. In my case, that means South Asian women.

BigDill16 · Answer

How would you know until you initiate conversation and find out? There's plenty of white women that don't date other races. There's also women of other races who dig white men...

Iron_Man · Answer

Cuz it's white on white we're a perfect match. Dont be so Jealous  Everyday you make threads about this

JamesBoradil03 · Answer

damn i feel the same way about white womenXD ion even know, most white people are annoying and entitled.

Anonymous · Answer

Bitch get over yourself. White boys can be good boyfriends. At least they’ll stick around...

thefutureisfemale · Answer

Lmao they do though Race doesn't matter xx ~ Mrs Manson

thefutureisfemale · Answer

Dude could you not lmao White guys can be hot xx ~ Mrs Manson

SokJoy3 · Answer

Whaaat my guy is white and he’s swaggy. Swaggy in character. But he does like blacks people things like music etc. But he’s not like an Eminem lol he just looks laid back swaggy and his demeanor is nice. I think that’s just you

Tyffen · Answer

I really don't get how this 'question' got so many answers... It's literally the same shit I've seen every week 😂

adolescentswede · Answer

Rage can sometimes be mesmerizing. by the way what is used to measure masculinity nowadays? I pressume it is something beyond x/y chromosomes

datgirl · Answer

Unfortunately i have to agree with you.

AnimeMan205 · Answer

That does hurt, but I do find Black Men to be much better than us, it's true.

Vesta · Answer

Don't pay attention to this girl, guys She's not even showing who she is

vald9inches · Answer

I am middle eastern and the owner of a really huge cock and also have girls all over me lol so i am quite happy not being born white or Asian 😂

iFarted · Answer

Why do stupid people keep thinking a whole race doesn't have a chance at anything?

Eoghain · Answer

Because I want children who also have to deal with sunburn and being called ginger.

Anonymous · Answer

Obviously trolling nothing like discussing a race as a fetish to get people going.

OneBigOofForManKind · Answer

Just because you have a distaste towards white boys doesn't mean they shouldn't be attracted to who they have a preference towards. Like you have your own personal taste in a significant other, so do they.

John_Doesnt · Answer

You've posted this same question 5 times a day. Are you really a girl?

MarkTKD · Answer

Maybe cuz not every white woman is a shallow and prejudiced bitch like you?

Superplex · Answer

Just because you are trash who's own family is probably ashamed of doesn't mean other white women feel this way.

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