Guys, Do You Support Breast Reduction?

Question

I think you'd naturally be supportive if it cures your wives back paining.

Based on a little something I saw on TV this week. The featured guy was a total douche to his brother for suggesting this fix to his fiancée.

If I'm going to be honest, I'd be reluctant too to try ruining my own self.

What's your take on it?

Dongtai · Accepted Answer

It depends on the reasoning. Of course I’d support it if it was for medical purposes. But if she’s perfectly healthy and her breasts are completely normal, and she’s doing it to feel good about “herself” I wouldn’t like it. Unless you have a deformity or a burn victim, altering your appearance to “feel good” is dangerous. The feeling you’re seeking comes from inside not though surgery or enhancements. I would be worried that she’d get the surgery and have a temporary feel good feeling about herself and a few months later she’s not satisfied. You see people on these tv shows getting one body enhancement after another because they want to “feel” like themselves and good. It can be addictive.

Who you are is what you’re born with. That feeling comes from within. By altering your appearance you’re ironically rejecting your true self. I support cosmetic surgeries for medical and special circumstances. But not “to feel better about oneself.”

I would recommend therapy before altering one’s appearance. Understand exactly “why” you want the change and what you think it will change that you can’t change without it.

Massageman · Accepted Answer

Bras support breasts. ( Sorry about that :- )

But seriously:

I've massaged many women who were large-breasted and the majority have had back issues. What most people don't realize is that most back pain is actually caused by overworked CHEST muscles.

I would first recommend certain exercises to strengthen the core, and massage and other relaxation techniques to release the tightness of the chest muscles. Heavy-chested women should get a good-fitting bra with wiiiiiide straps to spread the cantilevered weight of their breasts over a larger area.

Breast reduction surgery should be used as a last resort.

Miristheiss · Answer

I have never been in that situation, I don't know how I'd react.
If I were already in a relationship with her, meaning I fell for her as she already naturally was I am not sure I'd be on board with baring her chest to some male doc to take all if these before shots to show his other patients, drawing on her boobs with a marker and then cutting up her breasts leaving all of thesec scars.

I might have moved on. Who knows.

I probably would have been more casual about it if it was already done when I met her.

taleets · Answer

I actually had one about 10 days ago and am recovering in bed as we speak! It’s a lot less painful than I thought and the recovery is going smoothly:) I wanted it because I was a G cup before and my boobs were weighing me down. Not being able to fit into cute bralettes or triangle bikini tops suck quite frankly. The before and after difference is astonishing for me and I’m so excited I did it! My boobs look better in my opinion because they are a lot perkier and less saggy.

BadApple1 · Answer

My wife has talking about it... I haven’t been for or against it. I am not a breast man but I think she has very nice breasts. I understand she thinks they are too big but honestly I would just hate for her to go under the knife... hers are not causing pain... she just thinks they are too big

Bananaman177 · Answer

I think it's sad that a woman would rather chop her fucking titties off than just do some exercises to strengthen her back.

The reason your breasts cause back pain is not because they're too heavy, it's because your muscles are too weak to support the weight of your own body.

That's what happens when you fucking NEVER work out or even do anything that's hard. Most women won't even try to lift something that's heavy, or if they even think it might be heavy, then they're too scared to even go NEAR it. They're afraid of getting hurt, well, being a fucking weakling is going to hurt 10,000 times more than whatever minor sprains or strains you might get from working out.

Strong women don't need "breast reductions" or anything else "reduced" either. Strong women can carry their own weight with lots of extra strength to spare.

wingattebaby16 · Answer

as a woman that has been small most my life, I love being a large C cup.

Reduction is no where in my book.

and for all the times my man told me my small boobs were yummy, now that I am big, he admitted he loves me much bigger and has all the time, but was sparing my feelings...

Ámayas_20 · Answer

Was this two and a half men? Also I've had breast reduction surgery for health reasons my boyfriend and me had just got together before I had the surgery and he was very supportive.

JackSmy · Answer

I LOVE small, natural breasts on the women I love, but I would NEVER say anyone should reduce theirs, or artificially modify their body, unless they had some personal reason, that is not for me to say or judge!!

Kaneki05 · Answer

Don't waste a gift or ruin your natural body. Unless if it is a must and would i be bothered if my girlfriend or wife did it no cause the reason i am with them is not because of there breasts.
And back pain is a vaild reason to do it cannot complain at that.

Anonymous · Answer

I absolutely hate cosmetic surgery but it seems to me that breast reduction is not really cosmetic because of back pain etc.

I guess part of me would like to think that you could keep what you had naturally but I really dont care how big or small your boobs are.

People can do what they want to thier own bodies.

Do whatever you want to do, its really none of my business.

Gedaria · Answer

It's drastic and can be painful. But after seeing a programme on TV. This woman had alsorts of pain in her back and shoulders. Also getting hold of bras that fit. It's not as if you are doing it for asilly reason. Doing it can make your life happier. If it is bad , I would go for it...

Justacatlady · Answer

Unless the woman has abnormally huge boobs and is in good shape, I think this is a cop out. Most times the woman with big tits is largely overweight. I think if she were to get healthier, not get surgery, that would alleviate the back pain better

Reaperbot666 · Answer

if diet and exercise did not reduce the size naturally. while strengthening her back, chest, shoulder and arm muscles to support her bust more efficiently. then yes as a last option I would be ok with her getting breast reduction surgery. so she could avoid any unnecessary pain.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

In cases of health issues or after severe disfiguring accidents - I fully support (plastic) surgery to fix a problem.
Just for 'beautification' I find it shallow.
The 'owner' of the boobs (or whatever else equipment) should have the last word.

just_a_girl_nth_more · Answer

I honestly think men shouldn't be "mad" over a decision that a woman is making for HER and for HER body. I want in the future to reduce my breasts, but not because of my back, only because I don't like them, is that making men mad or something? just because I don't like my boobs? men should shut the hell up and respect women's choices over THEIR bodies.

alohaahyes · Answer

I'm not a guy but I support it. I understand that big boobs can be painful or just too big. Some people have a hard time grasping that.

AldoP · Answer

If it's not only for cosmetics needs then why not? I mean, people who suffer from car accidents and disfigured faces, they deserve reconstruction surgery not to look better but it's for medical reasons.

EmmaMary · Answer

Thankfully my fiancé (now husband) was totally and fully supportive with me having a BR done last year.

FakeName123 · Answer

I'm ok with breast-reduction as the last resort. Before women - especially younger ones - should work out and strengthen their posture and muscles, though.

Anonymous · Answer

There is a good friend on GAG that has had first hand experience of this. She felt much better after. I hope that is still the case. I really admire her for going through it!

LowSelfSteem · Answer

I had to have mine reduce due to difficulties in Breast Feeding. If there where any smaller I might aswell be a male.

markscott · Answer

I certainly support breast reductions. I know girls who have large breasts that get in the way much of the time, and frequently cause them back pain.

AaronKrieger · Answer

Yeah, some girls need it as their breasts are way too big for their body or too big for them where they feel uncomfortable.

Sensmind · Answer

Was the show "Two and a Half Men", I remember the episode. Yeah it is a comedy, in reality if it made wife/girlfriend more comfortable, more healthy no man would object unless he was a selfish jerk.

dianagirl · Answer

That wouldn't be "ruining" yourself. If it's something you'd want to do, that's your right. You can be just as feminine with small breasts as with larger ones.

tartaarsaus · Answer

I’ve heard very large ones could cause constant physical pain. I’d imagine it makes to then think about reducing their size.

clampfan101 · Answer

It’s her body. I’m not going to object to her doing what’s best for her health. Plus I like various sizes.

Smashdude · Answer

If my partner were experiencing serious back problems, I'd definitely support her I'd miss how big they used to be, but I'd rather they be happy than stay the same and just suck up the pain

Shamalien · Answer

I think strengthening is the key. A girl can have big breasts and no back problems if she strengthens her back muscles

holograph · Answer

I might be a little bit sad :P but it's 100% her decision and would never resent her for it, no matter what the reason is.

Grond21 · Answer

In principle I do. But you have to have a serious reason. Just because you feel like it seems dishonoring your body to me.

MrHopper · Answer

My cousin was quite small with huge breasts that caused her back problems at young age. So I see no problems with it, it has health benefits

GuidoThePizzaMaker · Answer

I am against surgeries in general.  However, if her breasts are overly large and causing discomfort I would be 100% ok with it. As long as the risks of surgery were low.

antonio1970 · Answer

Of course  U should not please or care what men think of that. think about ur health. first always.. BACK PROBLEMS AND HUMP BACK IS RESULT OF OVERSIZED BREAST.

Jersey2 · Answer

No, I don’t. My wife wanted to get one but I said no. She would get a veto vote if I wanted a tattoo on my face. somethings your partner just doesn’t want changed.

Quidthonian · Answer

I would support her in a breast reduction procedure.

Holy_Ghost_Fire · Answer

I rather women be proud of her natural breasts. I think reducing the size of your breast is painful and meaningless.

LoU_Hades · Answer

Yes.. if it's really that much and the weight could be a health issue

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I'm not against it but, I'd prefer it only be done in severe cases where having them so huge is a major physical issue.

TenPoundTabby · Answer

Yes, if it was causing her pain (but only if). I'm more of a leg guy but still. :)

Nadim171 · Answer

Well big breasts look better but if they hurt the girl I would support it

Twenty2 · Answer

I'll give her a back massage every day! Tho if she wants to then it's her choice.

GingerGuy · Answer

I'd support her if she wants to do it... especially if it's because of pain.

MrTuxedo · Answer

Two And a Half Men right?

taleswapper · Answer

I'm for it, if it it's medically supervised. but like all surgery, it's very difficult to undo, if it turns out it was a mistake. Be sure...

El_Heffe · Answer

I am very in favour of breast reduction as large breasts can cause a lot of pain and angst. I do hope that yours will be a life changing one.

Kezzz · Answer

I believe a woman is very capable of making decisions so it's leave this decision to the woman's. I ain't messing with no woman's boobs. Nope

13IsALuckyNumber · Answer

I have no opinion, people should do what they want to their body. Why are we talking about whether other people should do it?

AcidT0y · Answer

Yeah. Regardless of whether it's causing her pain or if she just wants smaller tits. I don't really care.

Sabretooth · Answer

not really-to be honest. i like big tits and i like natural tits. i would rather look for alternatives-like exercises.

SamtheDnDgirl · Answer

If you feel like you need it, get it done. It's your health.

Jaydon45 · Answer

yes. huge boobs must be a pain, i feel for those women. I prefer small boobies.

Giggletr0n · Answer

Yeah, my girl wants her's reduced and I really couldn't care less about it, it's her body after all.

GreenGold1992 · Answer

Sure, if a woman wants to reduce her breast size if she really wants so, I don't see why she shouldn't.

SuccessfulHornDog · Answer

I don't like the way it looks afterwards, most of the time

Ad_Quid_Orator · Answer

If her size was causing my SO pain like back problems I'd support it.

dsk108 · Answer

Hell no I do not support it but after all your body you can do what you please

bangyourhead · Answer

Yeah, if she feels she needs it I'm supportive of it.

Stupid_GuyLol · Answer

I don't mind. If it's just a superficial reason then no but if want to get it done because it's causing you pain then go for it.

Clarke498 · Answer

Of course, if it hurts her, of course. It's her body.

Therisinghero12 · Answer

It's their choice, I wouldn't really care either way

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