I prefer my woman wearing a burlap bag. Actually these are my favorites because I just talk to them/her as if she was my sister and I knew her all my life even if I am wearing my clothes that I just swapped out a transmission with. It stuns them because they are looking for indications of indecision and potential fear. I recently had this well dressed sharp woman that wanted to play some eye lock game and she was looking to see if I would flinch. I began to envision the back of her skull through her eyes as I talked to her. I wouldn’t let her out of it and this went on for almost 15min straight. She began to seem like one of those deer that just stare. Finally, someone walked in and interrupted. That one was weird.
Is this our weekly "Are Some Men/Why Are Men Intimidated/Threatened By [insert woman doing something here]" thread? Can't believe people aren't sick of these yet. I see a lot of people asking vague questions like this, in which they presume that odd things which happened to them or their friends are major societal trends. That is not necessarily the case. In school I sat next to a cute girl who would let me draw things on her arm. She liked it because of the drawings, I liked it because it was human contact with a cute girl. I didn't go on the Internet later and ask "Why Do Girls Let Guys Draw Things On Them?" Excuse the rant, I'll see myself out.
Why do some people insist that men are constantly intimidated by women? What do you really want to know? Would we approach her? No idea. I'm not good at approaching people in general and in situations when I do it's usually based on conversation and not looks. Having a non-personal-sounding discussion in public about a neutral topic that interests me is the bulk of how/why I talk to new people.
All that said, is the girl in your example picture really that well-dressed?
Not the way this woman in the picture is dressed. She looks somewhat casual. But I'd probably be uncomfortable approaching a woman dressed like she's a very successful lawyer. So maybe I'm intimidated by highly successful women (in the context of dating), not by their choice of attire.
Men do not act with a solitary purpose or design. Yes, some men are intimidated by women who are well dressed and groomed. Some men are intimidated by very attractive women and some by very intelligent women. But those men are a minority.
And, of course, some women are intimidated by men who are well dressed and groomed. Some women are intimidated by very handsome men and some by very intelligent men. But those women also are a minority.
Honestly, it really depends (for me at least). If it is someone who has a mutual acquaintance and we both happen to be at the same party/event. I would be a bit intimidated until I figure out the connection. I really don’t have much of a sense of style so I usually have to do some sort of business casual when I have gone on first dates in the past (since purchasing a home and being on a tighter budget). I don’t get to do “fun” things like that very often so I would often be worried that I was too dressed down for an occasion compared to the woman I was out with and having a hard time with judging how far up or down I should be dressed in comparison.
Sometimes I feel that I need to be on a suit to talk to a girl, I immediately change to another girl, if I am in a dating app I just swipe left, I don't like to need to be a suit guy, now living in Ireland I can use funny shirts a lot even at work, that is perfect for me, so when I see a girl too well dressed I just move on to another one without even know the person.
Some are, some are not. So it’s the individual feelings that each of us has. Of course some people are/are not. Intimidated by whatever things are physically present. Not really much substance to this query, from what I can tell...😎
yes, women can be intimidating... were for a long time until I learned more. but still, there is a feminine power that one has to address mentally. I used to be scared of little girls... so I've come a long way:)
That one woman from "School of Affluence" is well dressed and well groomed. But, I wouldn't say that's intimidating so much unattractive considering those women tend to be vain, materialistic, and phony.
That's actually a little bit too underdressed it's kind of like and this human form featuring... not a damn thing to do with a dress or appearing conservative in any way it is only meant to attract attention meant to give some man a thought of damn I would like to hit that
To have this discussion, we need to talk about the difference in "sporty" "classic," & "Romantic" personality styles. Sporties and classics will get on each other's nerves in short order. Classics usually see sporties as "sloppy," or "unsofisticated". Sporties see classics as "up-tight," "arrogant, " or "elitist" As a sporty guy, I have no patience for girls/women who are too worried about breaking a nail tip to have any fun.
Lol, she kinda looks like she's hungover and doing the walk of shame. Anyways, no, guys aren't "intimidated". They just assume she's got her sights on a "higher caliber" of guy than them or are already taken.
She is not intimidating at all Tbh I dont think i have ever been intimidated by a woman Maybe a teacher, but it was because I was a kid, and she was an adult. Not because she was a woman.
I’d be more willing to flirt or ask them out just for being well-dressed and well-groomed (provided “well-dressed” means elegant, not expensively sporty, to said women), so I wouldn’t be intimidated at all 🤩👗👠👒💄💃🏻
Some definitely are. It makes those men feel weak and unprofessional. And these women often have unrealistic standards and are high maintenance. And guys don't like that.
What exactly is intimidating about that? Do you have retractable gatling guns in the fabric, is it coating in snake venom, or are the clothes made out of twirling daggers?
A guy came up to me few weeks ago and said "You have a boss vibe." could be because i was wearing a corporate attire. And the fact that he came to talk to me without hesitation, means he isn't intimidated, right?
I've never been 'intimidated' by a female in my life. The whole idea is ridiculous actually. Guys aren't intimidated by girls typically. They might be put off by them, or just not like them.
Not really, I personally prefer women as you describe, although the young lady in the image is not exactly what I consider "well-dressed and well-groomed", just my opinion...
I wouldn't really consider that well dressed. And no, we do not get intimidated. This notion that men ever do needs to go away. We're not intimidated by women.
But she isn't well dressed and well groomed... *facepalm* She's going to a luncheon on her dads Yacht in the Hamptons, fresh off of a ho-bath from the night before.
Not really. Proper grooming is like drinking water and breathing air: it's something people should do anyway. Being well dressed is great, but not intimidated unless you mean dressing super sexy.
@Kaazsz sounds to me you are afraid to get rejected, but this has nothing to do with her attractiveness but more about your own self-image and internal fears.
I never heald back for any woman regardless of her beauty but unlike you, I am fine with getting rejected I don't see rejection as a fail or something to fear.
Out of our league, you say, sounds very American to me. So let me give you a free piece of advice, the lowest league in existence is the fear of rejection and the cousin of not looking or behaving you're very best at all times.
I think everyone should look their best when they can so no not really. With education some get intimidated.
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yeah... we are making pee pee in the panties because she is so superior... *rolleyes
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No woman (or man for that matter) intimidates me. If she's all the things you say but maybe i don't feel any spark (or at least not yet) i may feel pressure because i never want to lead anyone on.
Right? It looks like she just climbed out of bed in a drunken stupor and put a dress on because it was the easiest thing she could think of putting on without falling over.
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