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Absolutly not! My closest friends have been wemon. Not only that they were also 3 my age sometimes. my one best friend growing up was in her 40's, she taught me how to garden unfortunately I lost her when I was 19. I use to have a friend in high school. She was my biggest teen connection I had also my crush. We talked for hrs each night. She had a boyfriend or I was seeing somone else and we never dated or hooked up. Personally I had to much respect for myself my relationships and outher people. She tried to kiss me once and i denied her because I was seeing somone. She was shocked but accepting. We lost contact for 10 years I then found her again, we dated for 2 years and she left me. blamed me for everything. Meanwhile I was the only person whom ever treated her right. Gave her loyalty and trust. On the outher hand she stole all my belongings once I was kicked out her mother's. Stole my buyout money from gm. She took me for over 7 grand. Used me dragged me along for months was talking behind my back to ex's playing the agenst me playing the victuum. Well in all honesty I'd like to make her that but I don't know I'm too much a bigger person. Months before this I felt she wasn't happy, we both suffered depression but she used it as an excuse, didn't work but she did have health issues scoliosis of spine and 3 metal rods in her back. Altho I broke both heals and my spine tailbone 5 ribs sternum shoulder collarbone and many more I have no idea how she feels. But she definitly up played it, she's nothing but a victim in her own sad sad reality. It breaks my heart I loved her to pieces, I would give my liver and kidneys for her (she blamed me on making her cancer come back) and i tried to give her that and offered to make thc oil but the smoke settled and i seen through her. I won't date again I'm done with gambling. I have two kids two different wemon, n first one cheated I fought her in court 50g to obtain my son due to neglect and abuse. She still try to hurt me to this day! That was 9 years ago, my daughters mom is borderline personality dissorder and im always wrong. Theirs no winning, so why bother playing. I would have been sitting on well over 100k likely 200 if I never dated and in only 29... The world is a sad place and humanity is descusting
It's a generalization, it might have some truth but it's not 100% true. I would never have sex with a guy to be able to talk, besides I wouldn't have sex with a guy if I can't talk with him and feel a connection first, and some guys around me are about the same.Is almost the same to a saying I read when I was a teen in a psychology book about dealing with teens that my parents had, but in this case the saying said: "Women give sex in order to receive love, men give love in order to receive sex". When I was a teen I though it could make some sense but I as grew up and met different kind of men and women and now I can't agree that much.
I don't because I don't talk to women to sleep with them. I like talking to girls because girls appeal more to my sensitive and romantic side. Sensitive because guys don't give a shit about feelings unless he's gay. Well, my friends don't like talking about all the mushy deep stuff unless it's my gay friend😂. And romantic as in about girls and stuff not flirting or anything. Like how girls are and they can also talk about guys. Stuff like that. I don't give a damn about sleeping with a girl. I'll sleep with the girl I love, when I find her😊. Sleeping with a girl is the last thing I think about. Being with someone who you can open up to and just chill out with without being guy judged is good😌
This is retarded. This is psychoanalytics at its finest. everything is about sex hahaI talk to women if they seem interesting or I can learn something from them. Sometimes I do it because I feel attracted to them. Women dont need to screw guys to have someone to talk to either. Sometimes writers write things about themselves, in this case this is how Jay McClenery feels about his interactions with women. its indicative that he views women as potential sexual partners, and if he doesn't, why bother talking with them? so many implications here. Also I am familiar with this author, his claim to fame was writing about an aspiring writer who blows his money on cocaine and screws a bunch of girls in manhattan. His model girlfriend leaves him, and he begins to spiral further out of control.
It probably depends on the person. Personally, I won't sleep with anyone just to keep from being lonely and to have someone to be with and talk to. I've never slept with anyone yet and only will if I feel ready and like they are the right person to do it with. So far, that hasn't happened yet and I'm okay if it does or doesn't. However, while this statement may be true for certain people, it may be the opposite in certain cases. There are women who just want sex, and men who want a meaningful relationship, too.
All my online friends are male, so I can talk to men without sleeping with them. If I had to sleep with a man in order to talk to him, then I wouldn't sleep with him *or* talk to him.by the way I asked a similar question once & the poll got more than 100 votes, so here it is:In your personal experience, is this quote accurate? ↗
Sounds like someone is trying to justify their shallowness with flawed reasoning. I don't agree, but I am also not out to notch my belt. I generally find women more interesting to talk to than men, likely because they will more readily tell you about their lives are are more open with people. I am sexually interested in people I have a connection with, if I can't talk to her or she is a fool I don't generally have any interest in her, even if she is pretty.
I mean I get the quote and it does convey the differences between men and womens personalities but it is a generality and not always accurate. Men talk to women for a lot of reasons other than sex. In high school my best friend was a girl and not once did I think of sleeping with her.
That's silly.. Sometimes I just ask women things to get a perspective from a different gender.. Not many people think alike but we want to believe that if we ask opposite sex how they see or feel it possibly brings some comfort an understanding to situations
lol The guy has never been to Saudi Arabia has he?Though integration is spreading across the globe, separation of men & women has existed in cultures across the globe for centuries. The existence of these societies disproves the statement.
Not completely. The whole "Men are only interested in sex" stuff is false. Plenty of guys simply want to be romantic and feel her touch. It doesn't have to be sexual. And I don't think a woman needs to sleep with a man to talk to him.
I think that it's definitely true SOMETIMES. But it's far from always being true.
Thats almost synonymous to; "men give a little loving to get a little sex and women give a little sex to get a little loving". There is some truth to this but in todays society women are almost as interested in getting sex as the men. Maybe its always been that way but in the generations before the 1960's most women didn't act as though they were as interested in sex as the men were.
Wrong. They talk to each other coz it's human nature. Humans need Companionship. You can't live alone. Spending time with someone is much better than spending time alone. You'd love to make memories too. With time, you feel better and better with that same person and that's how you build trust and unknowingly you feel so good that why would you not kiss him and end up romancing? So on and so forth :p
It's the other way around. Most of my friends lost their virginity because their girlfriends pushed them into it. I've seen this so many times at parties, girls asking their boyfriends to go upstairs with them, even though all he was doing was having a good time and socializing. So no, this is not only completely incorrect, it's also the reverse of how modern society actually is.
Can people just fuck off with the stereotypical bullshit? No, not all men want to sleep around. Why do people think that their lives is how everyone lives? "Oh, men constantly one night stand me, that's just how men work." Yeah, in a nightclub maybe.If you want to talk to men, talk to men who want to talk. If you can only talk to men when you sleep with them, thats your own faupt.
Hmmmm. Not quite. I feel sexual dynamics are actually very social by nature. So I feel people look for 'intimacy' which is both the sex and the partnership.Men who want no strings attached sex can get it easily.
No. I talk to women because I like them and they intrigue me. The vast majority of the time they are trying to get intimate before I am.
Nope. I talk to women because i need to communicate to someone about something and the ones i have to talk to are women. It has nothing to do with sex.
No it's not true, some men like me just want a good relationship with women and if I feels she is the women what I am searching for. I would like to spend my life with her
Im glad men like you exist
No! Generally i talk with women because they say something to me. And from then on it's to see how alike we are.
Honestly, people yearn for change. Like people travel for change. When you find alike people, you may get bored. When you find opposites, it's another interesting level. You actually talk. Imagine like an example, she talks of her work stuff and you talk of your work stuff which is different and you both get to learn something new. That becomes interesting.
As often a Generalized statement based on a minority group. Unhealthy men and women behave this way and the roles go both ways.
Yes, but I heard it put in a different way. Women fake sex to get love. Men fake love to get sex.
Id describe it as women want as much of men’s time in general Even if that includes sex, men want as much sex as we can get without giving up too much of our time.
Very similar to the concept that "Men sex first, then relationship (talking). Women relationship (talking ) first, then sex.
No, women need men so they can use them for their gain.At least you got one right about men, there is more, keep guessing.
I like this one so meticulously yet simply stated. This one is a coin toss heads or tails.
I disagree. In essence it has some tact, but it isn't very strong.
Men talk because most of them wants to sleep with the woman. We woman don't think about all this
Nah i don't like to talk if i dont like them it's a waste and time consuming and fake but i like t9 fuck
There is a kernel of truth to it but they would be just fine if the girl had something else in mind.
That sounds silly. Not saying that those people don't exist, though. But most of them are not like that.
Yeah, I think a lot of men and women are like this but necessarily all.
I agree that's y that boyfriend girlfriend thing is bogus so they can get butt when they want
I like sleeping with most women but only like talking to a few.
But before you sleep with a woman and you're attracted to her, do you use talking and getting to know her just to sleep with her?
Absolutely not. It’s either straight to the sex or it mostly doesn’t work out.
I’m pretty open and honest really
When I’m not b. s. ing for fun
No, women sleep with men coz they love getting fucked lol
I completely agree with this statement 100%.. I usually don't talk to a female unless I'm trying to get into her pants. Usually.
No, I think people talk to people for a variety of reasons. Sounds like this thought process came from a bad place, I hope they're okay.
I don't think he was that serious tho
Maybe, hard to tell through writing xD
No. All guys and girls are different. Some do it for sure, but not most to give my honest opinion.
This could not be true of me at all, since I've talked to a lot of females and I'm still a virgin.
Hahaha 😂Yeah rightIf it makes you sleep at night
isn't this twisted form of"Men need sex to love, while women need love for sex"?Nah, not always.
Sometimes, you can't have this in your head in real life, but it is a fun way to categorize dating perspectives
thats not always truecertainly never with meif I talk to a girl there is a reason and it's never ever never ever to sleep with them
Men talk to women because they as times have a warm tight slippery hole called a vagina. If women didn't have one men would not talk to them.
I don't slept with any it doesn't means I don't talk to anybody.
Eh, true for basic people, but I don't think it's true for a lot of people.
I don't agree with that.
Really clever and maybe closer to the truth than I would like to admit.
there are a lot of angles to this question, but that statement pretty much sums it up.
A quote from one of my favourite writers. Yeah there's some truth to it but it's not the whole truth
Not any of my ex-s. They slept with me to pregnant trap me and there wasn't much talking ever. Very primitive women my ex-s. They mostly communicated by actions.
Well it's certainly a great way of putting and yes I agree...
I agree only to a certain extent because it just depends on the person. Not all girls and guys are that way.
Of course there are exceptions but I think it's mostly true.
so he is saying we sleep with fat women? yeah gtfo...
What do fat women have to do with what he's saying?
i was an example, so if i talk to a fat women that means i want to sleep with her? gtfo...
Okay got ya
What about gay people, and bi people, and pan people, etc..
nope women sleep with me because they want to sleep with them
I don't know. But i know some men talk to women so they could check out their hot brothers.
Mmmm well for me I talk to women to sleep with them so I can talk to them after the sex.
No, women sleep with men so they can get their resources, or if he's a hot guy for validation.
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