Because nowadays, society is very superficial. What counts are looks because our sick society is ruled by porn and the cliches that they make us believe we have to live by.
What counts is how many body counts, how many trophies one had the privilege to get and the number of girls one could get. It is a competition with the colleagues to see who has the largest count, regardless of the harm they do to the persons they have chased and targeted.
Traditional values don't count, only the numbers are important.
It is a sad world we live in because nobody cares about the others anymore, as long as they had their personal satisfaction, their 3 or 4 muscular contractions. The next person to conquer is already waiting to be "killed" somewhere.
Personality, character and intellect is a handicap for many guys because it those traits of character are just in the way of a body count. You have to work on those before you can get under the skirts of a girl. Too much wasted time and uninteresting.
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There are guys who are like that. I think feminism and this whole equality movement has paved the way for a dis union between the sexes
What a sad, sad opinion on guys
It's a shame all girls are only after money, if i want this girl to like me i should be able to buy her a Mercedes otherwise she's not interested, so unfair
See how that statement is also bullshit
Don't generalize based off a bad experience, the guys who don't care about whats inside are the playboy guys, the genuine guys get passed up or not get noticed at all because they're not the loudest voice in the crowd
Maybe look for a better class of men to surround yourself with
No guy fucks your personality honey. Period.
They don't care where you work, how smart you are, what your hobbies are, none of that comes even close to your level of attraction and desire you have for HIM. Get a clue. Maybe your focus will shift just a little bit away from ME ME ME and more to HIM. What will YOU do for HIM? What do you bring that would be considered HIGH VALUE? I'll be you cannot even articulate that cuz you've just never considered it. EVERYTHING, your ENTIRE world, revolves around YOU.
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This is all bullshit lol
Do you wave your personality around for everyone to see? No. The only thing they can see is your looks. It is all secondary, but at first glance no one can see your personality. They see your appearance. How is that unfair?
Would you date someone you find unattractive? Some men and women are shallow and that is unfair, but to ask someone to choose based solely on personality when that can't be seen is asinine. Personality is more important because it's what keeps someone at your side, but unless someone can "see" it, that's not going to draw them to you.Guys usually care about personality. They usually care about attraction too though and that's not different than women.
A difference between men and women though is with this "if you don’t look hot, guys won’t notice you at all." Girls tend to not notice guys at all even if they are hot. We pretty much aren't in their minds.We can't simply ignore looks, but a woman with a great personality is so fun to be around and will be more attractive to us than she would be if her personality wasn't as great. A good personality is so important to me that I'd happily date a woman who is heavier, shorter or less attractive than I'd like if she has one.
Some of us do care about personality, but making the basic mistake of putting all men in the same basket does not make your personally sound attractive. Now please, stop being bitter and learn to distinguish guys who go after personality from the others.
I am 100% concerned about personality in a girl, but she'd have to be at the very least a 6 in looks for me to consider it if we have a strong bond. And the better the looks the easier it is to make me persue.
Appearance is obviously the first thing you see with someone, but I always notice personality the most, it shows far more than appearance and I'm much more picky with who you are than how you look.
Your wrong guys notice womens personality even if they aren't beautiful, if your not good looking you will have to take action not expect them too just because your nice.
I think that girls and women who impress me in some other way than appearance, become more attractive than they would perhaps be if I knew nothing about them.
What kind of dumbass outlook is this... yea i mean, a guy won't want to date an orangutan looking girl... but looks fade. Personality is forever.
Personality matters but not in the way girls think it does. What do you think is so attractive about your personality?
I work with a cute girl but I will never go there because of her personality. She's shown plenty of interest too. Looks fade, personality grows...
Not true. You won't necessarily get noticed as much (and would you really want to) but those that do get to know you will see the difference.
Huuhh?
I'm glad to say that I'm not one of those guys. It doesn't matter how hot she is, if I don't like her personality then I wouldn't get with her.
That is a good think... women would have no freaking chance if men cared to much about "personality".
If you are too old and/or not attractive enough to appeal to us, regardless of your personality, we are not interested.
You don’t want men to care about personality if that was the case all women would be deemed unattractive you women have terrible personalities and values that’s don’t match up with most men
Ehh. I think they are more likely to overlook toxic personalities.
We don't really care.. just looks at the beginning after that the most beautiful can look so ugly in a split second
Don't blame guys for you being such a pathetic overweight ugly hag
Most of us girls don't actually care about personality too
Also, posting this shit shows that you don't have actually a nice personality. You are just a annoying bitch lol
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