Guys only concern about appearance. It doesn’t matter how kind or smart you are, if you don’t look hot, guys won’t notice you at all. But when you look hot, guys so nice to you, so polite. It’s unfair. Why if I want they treat me well, I should look like they like.
Because nowadays, society is very superficial. What counts are looks because our sick society is ruled by porn and the cliches that they make us believe we have to live by.
What counts is how many body counts, how many trophies one had the privilege to get and the number of girls one could get. It is a competition with the colleagues to see who has the largest count, regardless of the harm they do to the persons they have chased and targeted.
Traditional values don't count, only the numbers are important.
It is a sad world we live in because nobody cares about the others anymore, as long as they had their personal satisfaction, their 3 or 4 muscular contractions. The next person to conquer is already waiting to be "killed" somewhere.
Personality, character and intellect is a handicap for many guys because it those traits of character are just in the way of a body count. You have to work on those before you can get under the skirts of a girl. Too much wasted time and uninteresting.
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Anonymous
(36-45)
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There are guys who are like that. I think feminism and this whole equality movement has paved the way for a dis union between the sexes
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Anonymous
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What a sad, sad opinion on guys
It's a shame all girls are only after money, if i want this girl to like me i should be able to buy her a Mercedes otherwise she's not interested, so unfair
See how that statement is also bullshit
Don't generalize based off a bad experience, the guys who don't care about whats inside are the playboy guys, the genuine guys get passed up or not get noticed at all because they're not the loudest voice in the crowd
Maybe look for a better class of men to surround yourself with
@SeaSprayBreeze Even that isn't entirely true, like i'm 28, i did my whole chase the hottie until i was 19 or 20 I realized that i NEED a girl with sustenance, she should complete me mentally, and a pretty face won't do that Plus, if a girl is just a pretty face they do tend to act way different from what i search for in a girl
@SeaSprayBreeze Uh no, i would care more for her personality than her appearance Now here's a fine line though, looks are one thing, whether or not she's like in shape, a totally different one, if she's actually just lazy and because of that became big, i wouldn't be interested Because laziness is a character flaw in my mind
@SeaSprayBreeze But what kind of face genetics? i mean like freckles and the like or something else? (not being facetious , just wanted to fully understand you 😊)
No guy fucks your personality honey. Period. They don't care where you work, how smart you are, what your hobbies are, none of that comes even close to your level of attraction and desire you have for HIM. Get a clue. Maybe your focus will shift just a little bit away from ME ME ME and more to HIM. What will YOU do for HIM? What do you bring that would be considered HIGH VALUE? I'll be you cannot even articulate that cuz you've just never considered it. EVERYTHING, your ENTIRE world, revolves around YOU.
This is all bullshit lol Do you wave your personality around for everyone to see? No. The only thing they can see is your looks. It is all secondary, but at first glance no one can see your personality. They see your appearance. How is that unfair? Would you date someone you find unattractive? Some men and women are shallow and that is unfair, but to ask someone to choose based solely on personality when that can't be seen is asinine. Personality is more important because it's what keeps someone at your side, but unless someone can "see" it, that's not going to draw them to you.
Guys usually care about personality. They usually care about attraction too though and that's not different than women.
A difference between men and women though is with this "if you don’t look hot, guys won’t notice you at all." Girls tend to not notice guys at all even if they are hot. We pretty much aren't in their minds.
We can't simply ignore looks, but a woman with a great personality is so fun to be around and will be more attractive to us than she would be if her personality wasn't as great. A good personality is so important to me that I'd happily date a woman who is heavier, shorter or less attractive than I'd like if she has one.
Some of us do care about personality, but making the basic mistake of putting all men in the same basket does not make your personally sound attractive. Now please, stop being bitter and learn to distinguish guys who go after personality from the others.
I am 100% concerned about personality in a girl, but she'd have to be at the very least a 6 in looks for me to consider it if we have a strong bond. And the better the looks the easier it is to make me persue.
Appearance is obviously the first thing you see with someone, but I always notice personality the most, it shows far more than appearance and I'm much more picky with who you are than how you look.
Your wrong guys notice womens personality even if they aren't beautiful, if your not good looking you will have to take action not expect them too just because your nice.
I think that girls and women who impress me in some other way than appearance, become more attractive than they would perhaps be if I knew nothing about them.
I'm glad to say that I'm not one of those guys. It doesn't matter how hot she is, if I don't like her personality then I wouldn't get with her.
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Anonymous
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You don’t want men to care about personality if that was the case all women would be deemed unattractive you women have terrible personalities and values that’s don’t match up with most men
We don't really care.. just looks at the beginning after that the most beautiful can look so ugly in a split second
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Anonymous
(18-24)
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Don't blame guys for you being such a pathetic overweight ugly hag Most of us girls don't actually care about personality too Also, posting this shit shows that you don't have actually a nice personality. You are just a annoying bitch lol
I don't think she's far off. For the majority of guys, (there may be the odd few exceptions) a guy will not have any interest in a girl if she is not good looking. Period.
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