Why don't guys care about losing you?

[Akam93]

I'm a woman who seems easily forgettable and replaceable I'm not the slightest bit pretty though either. Out of 6 years only 1 guy has ever called me beautiful other than that I've never bee complimented.

[Anonymous]

If the guy doesn't feel like she contributes to him emotionally, it's tough to care if she's gone. If it's about physical pleasure, women are a dime a dozen.

[Anonymous]

If it makes you feel better, I don't compliment pretty girls.
No compliments doesn't mean every guy thinks you're unattractive

[Opinion Owner]

I do compliment ugly girls though. They're the only ones who actually appreciate it

[Anonymous]

I’ll tell you this, as a girl who gets compliments every day it’s no different on the other end of the spectrum. Everybody gets mistreated IF you let them mistreat you. Everybody goes through being discarded and mistreated. The point I’m making is that it won’t solve anything wishing you were “better looking” or wanting to be anybody other than yourself. The only solution is to love yourself enough to walk away from any mistreatment, to fill yourself up with positive affirmations, to love yourself through all your negative experiences and to believe that anybody who wants to be a part of your life has to meet a certain standard and that top priority on the list is that they treat you with love and respect. Otherwise, get comfortable with being alone until you meet someone like that. That’s what I’m doing. regardless of what you look like or what you have been through you have to know that if they don’t appreciate you they don’t DESERVE a spot in your life anyway. Your better off without anybody who can’t see your worth

[GreatBigCircles]

Something you should ask yourself is how often do you compliment yourself? Self love is an incredibly important and powerful thing, and not just for emotional and personnel health. It also can change how you interact with people on a fundamental level.

Being alone and lonely sucks, but if you get stuck in the duldrums over it then nothing will change. All you'll have left is the sour-sweet taste of wouldn't-it-be-nice. Instead you need to give yourself the love you need, because you won't have the passion to get others invested in you, if you aren't even invested in yourself.

Once you believe yourself when you say "I am beautiful and have value", other's will see it too.

[Inbox]

Perhaps you're not dating the right guys? Men unfortunately care heavily about aesthetics. Do you, like @WilmaReportu , get enough attention? When it comes to you, I'm asking a legitimate question because all girls I've ever dated were 9s or 10s, but when it comes to women who are not as attractive, they do tend have less options (but still have options).

The harsh truth is that almost all women want the same kind of top 3 - 10% of men: six figure income, tall, muscular, handsome, etc. If you are one of those women who want a man like that, I suggest you work on your other strengths. For example, I've met women who may not be all that good looking, but instead place emphasis on their personality, fashion, etc - otherwise you may have to date down to get a man that would appreciate you.

[Meropatrick]

Well i got treated like that a lot by many people. People will treat you bad regardless of your looks or money or status. If a guy is treating you badly move on. This picture below is for a woman called reeva steenkamp she got shot dead in a toilet with 4 bullet that exploded inside her body. She was shot by her boyfriend. who was just dating her for 3 months, he was watching porn too while she slept next to him that night. He thought her life was forgettable and replaceable.

Reeva steenkamp

[invalid1]

You're in fact a beautiful woman.
If you want, I can dm you a couch in social media who says a lot of things from my perspective as a man goldmine for women who don't understand us or are struggling with relationships. She's a sweet woman like yourself only little more experienced and she'll make you go WOW.

[Anonymous]

Okay i'm saying this to be helpful you choose how you wanna take it. If that is you in the profile pic then I think you have high potential to be attractive. A lot of your features are good. But I would bleach the teeth and add volume to your hair. Other than that you are good.

[Opinion Owner]

like made it curly

[Anonymous]

because every human being on this earth is a dime a dozen. there's plenty more. sad but true.

with your situation, you are definitely going after the wrong guys that make you feel like this.

[Rangers]

It's because all life is meaniningless and it was only a matter of time before she leaves me for someone better, regardless

[sheikalana]

They actually do when they realize they cannot find anyone else to meet their expectations.

[DrKrieger]

People just don't realize what they had until it's gone. Do you think maybe he's telling you you're beautiful by the actions he takes?

[baseball_del_tuono]

Oh I wouldn’t forget about you beautiful. How you doing?

[WhitneySnow]

You’re pretty. What do your boyfriends say?

[mommymommymommy]

I do! But, I don't think ex's can be friends

[shades777]

Thought it was the other way around

[kerrieK001]

I'm not sure why. I think you're pretty.