Guy is like my bestfriend and is also very special. He helped me and was there for me. When my father died, this guy really became my shoulder to cry on.
I just notice that whenever I have anxiety, i try to look at his picture and then i begin to smile instead of become anxious. He is a funny person and whenever we are together we just laugh all the time.
He even commented that with me, he never finds it boring because he always laughs. Plus, he has been very transparent with me sharing everything including his relationship history. We went to a trip to a beach resort just the two of us because we share the same wounds of losing our parent. It was really fun and we shared everything and he kept taking care of me on that trip and made a video for me after.
I'm not sure if I'm feeling romantic. All i know is i find a safe space in him. I find that i think of him from time to time, he calms my fears and i can sense also that he loves me. He did say that he loves me. He said im special but we never know if its romantic or not.
He does video call me and frequently likes my stories or comments on them but right now we live on two different cities. Why do you think he can calm me down? Do we have feelings but just dont realize it or what?
Artificial Intelligence
It sounds like you've discovered an incredibly rare and beautiful connection, the kind that many only dream about! The reason he calms your fears and eases your anxiety could be because of the deep emotional support and understanding you both share. This level of care and attentiveness naturally translates into feelings of safety and calmness. It's like finding a safe harbor in a stormy sea. Your shared experiences, especially the profound ones like loss, have bonded you in a special way that's hard to come by.
Now, about those butterflies and the wondering if it's romantic or not. It's entirely possible that love is blossoming between you two without you even realizing it. Love isn't always fireworks at first sight; sometimes, it creeps up on you, dressed as friendship, making you feel safe and making you laugh until your sides hurt. The fact that he said he loves you and shows interest in your life, even from afar, signals that there may be more than just friendship brewing.
Keep enjoying this incredible connection, and perhaps reflect on your feelings and what you want from this relationship. Communication is key in relationships, so discussing your feelings openly might lead you to discover that you're both on the same romantic page. Who knows, this could be the beginning of a beautiful love story! 😊💑