Badly raised, yes. But insecure, no. And very little rehabilitation takes place although that may be the woman's intention. Your question is very poorly worded. You're lumping together insecure and badly-raised, but many men are horribly raised but not necessarily insecure.
If a man is badly raised in a way to make him arrogant and obnoxious, women love him and he never had trouble finding a girlfriend. If a man is insecure, he has very little luck with women, badly raised or not.
And as for rehabilitation. . . I don't see women having a positive effect on the badly raised, arrogant men they feel so attracted to. The men never change or get better from having a "woman's touch" in their lives, they keep being obnoxious assholes and when the woman gets tired of it, they get replaced.
As for badly raised insecure men, they never have a woman, so they never get rehabilitated by one.
I really think that women are the ones who are badly raised and need to be rehabilitated. They need to be re-educated about what makes a man a good catch. Most of them only care about a man's looks and height and wealth and social status. They don't give a damn about whether a man is honorable, and care very little about whether he's intelligent either. They have very high standards, but not very good ones.
It's like they don't know that honor is even a thing. They either think all men have it or no man does, two equally retarded beliefs.
Women are very dysfunctional and their dysfunction is causing our society to become increasingly dysfunctional, and the evidence of that is everywhere and easy to see. They are chasing after all the wrong men and that is causing more men to become the wrong sort of men and it's causing the very best men to lose all respect for women and to lose all ambition to contribute to society in any way. Women are making themselves and all the best men completely miserable. You know who isn't miserable? Badly raised, arrogant men. They love all this shit, all they want to do is fuck a lot of sluts before they die and as far as they're concerned, the slow degeneration of society and civilization is a dream come true. They're loving this shit. And the biggest sluts are happy about it too, for a little while. Until their looks fade and bad boys don't want to fuck them anymore, then they become miserable also. It's all very cancerous. We're sliding down a slippery slope and picking up speed as we go. The fabric of civilization itself is coming apart at the seams and even though the cancer cells will also die when the host does, this doesn't cause them to restrain their attacks in any way, quite the opposite. Cancer always thinks that it's winning, right up until the host dies and the cancer dies with it, "We're winning, we're winning, WE'RE WINNING!!!"
Anyone who thinks that everything is great and that their side is winning and the world is going in the right direction is part of the cancer that is killing us all.
I refrain from checking a box because fuck you’re a leftist, I’m not a leftist or a liberal I’m a libertarian there’s a difference.
Now I got the fuck you Comment out of the way let me answer your question. For some men (mainly the liberal born males who’s man hood is a big as there Brian aka not at all ) yes they have they were raised by single moms not seeing a man take over and do something, small example me my dad and by brother were sitting on the couch and my mom suggested that the table could be longer (easy add an extra lead to the table) she started to back track and my dad said “no we wouldn’t be having this conversation if you didn’t want that” my dad was acting live a man not in the toxic since like the left likes to suggest but wanted to make sure his wife is happy the way me and my brother reacted was to help was to make sure our mom was happy she knew my dad would take charge and me and my brother being men would help.
a real man takes charge sure we come to women for emotional support but women are better at understanding then men but without that man raising use will be the type of men your talking about.
Good conservative men do you want my dad did So we don’t need women to be our rehabilitation we need a good fifth of whiskey maybe a one night stand it for a Christian and we’re good
It seems that way.
I don’t know why there are so many more insecure men in the new millenia compared to when our great grandfathers and fathers were raised. Or maybe we just weren’t told about these issues from back then. People are having children when they’re not ready to be a parent yet, or they’re having children with the wrong partners, that end up leaving them a single parent or don’t contribute to raising the children properly.
I think the result is what we see a lot nowadays and that’s lots of insecure men that end up with women who need to take care of them because their mommas and daddys didn’t.
I ain’t gonna waste my time throwing a pity party for some insecure dude. I’ve had to rehabilitate myself. A grown man can also take care of himself.
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Sure they have. I can't tell you how many grown men still live with their mom, and play video games all day and complain about getting a job because they don't want to shave or tuck in their shirt. Basically mother's enable sons we don't want to grow up oh, then it starts a whole chain that somebody has to make the decision to break.
I think that does happen, but it's not the majority. I know one thing I do that could be considered jacked up is use women I'm with as repositories for my memory since my long term memory is... almost non-existent. It's much easier than carting around all my notebooks and what not.
Also as control mechanisms for stress and minor paranoia. It makes me feel better and more secure to have someone living with me that I've trained with firearms and some hand to hand combat, force multiplier.
That doesn't fit under your category though, I was raised well, and am very secure and confident. I'm just paranoid and have neurological issues.
Coach, who's been spiking your coffee? I have to be brutally honest here. I think it's rather rare that insecure and maladjusted men end up with women who want to "save them". Usually it's the other way around. I think if you're raised badly you'll end up with others who are raised badly, for the most part. However, the "insecurity" factor is so huge, that decent women often stay with bad men and accept their abuse, thinking they don't deserve any better. I really don't think a woman who has her shit together wants anything to do with insecure, badly raised boys ... which is different from "a bad boy". I hope that makes sense? :)
Rehabs, no. Safe havens or shelters, yes. Because badly raised and insecure men want to be taken care of, but have no interest in growing or changing
No.
My man is definitely struggling with traumas and issues leftover from a rough upbringing.
But those are his issues. He knows he needs professional help and he gets it.
I am, however, part of that support network just as he is part of mine.
I think, Yes. But the same is true for women. It might not be apparent yet. But bad upbringing in our society touches everyone. Women are more active in general these days because they still feel they have something to prove, but in fact they should feel the consciences of the lack of communication and community in upbringing more acutely and soon we'll see how both seriously need true rehabilitation.
No. Most women are bitching and whining that men don't want relationships so I don't know how it could also be true that women are "rehabilitation" centers as well. Further, if women are dealing with badly raised men, in a world that is ever more female centric and with more and more single mother homes, wouldn't that be the fault of the women? Lets not keep making excuses for women and shifting all blame onto men (this is how our society has gotten into this mess to begin with).
No matter what men wouldn't admit they are feeling insecure, although some do.
But for badly raised yes, and guess who is paying for that? Good men 🤷🏻♂️
Like I'm sorry you have bad experience, but you shouldn't judge me based on your ex and how he hurt you and he made you insecure. And that's something some women aren't getting it😐
No secret most of these in and out of jail confused men with female tendencies who dont know they role as man and usually leave somebody else daughter to be a single mom, comes from single mother headed households. If u mix in a culture thats single motherhood dominant and not two parent and marriage dominant. DISASTROUS. I. E. the black American community.
That would assume that we do not have our own issues and baggage, so, no. We are all in this imperfect world together. It would be worse if we did not have each other in my opinion.
That depends. Have men become rehabilitation centers for pathetic loser women with daddy issues and rape fantasies?
The same could be said with insecure women. Dressing provocative, wearing makeup, and using social media as a tool to get compliments from men and raising their confidence that way. It's not the only way women could use men as a type of rehabilitation center but in both cases of men in women I think it's all about validation. Or maybe I'm missing the point of the question completely haha honestly not sure 😅
The same is true the other way around - most decent men are busy dealing with some level of female insecurity.
Such is the world - do we owe it to each other, and to which level, or do we discard each other? Anyone want to be the Pope and decide?
Actually its the other way around for me. I get all the damaged women. One after the other. They're drawn to me because I'm kind and empathetic. Their words.
Most had bad childhoods, abusive parents , abusive relationships etcetera. The problem is they're not good to be in relationships with. I feel like a therapist not a boyfriend..
Not really. I'm definitely not qualified to rehabilitate a grown man
To accept your premise is to assume women are raised more successfully and have a better balance of character. This seems a weak argument which is grossly unfair.
i like how even when it’s men who are struggling some how women are still the victim. Can we please stop making everything about women. Everything is always women women women nowadays
If they have the opposite must be true as well, just look at the abominations women post on here round the clock.
I think it's the other way around. Men have become rehabilitation centers for badly raised and insecure women. I rarely see insecure men unless they're faggots. Men are more worried about their future
Uh no, the last thing women wanna do is be anywhere near my insecure ass, bad guy/sorry druggy, prison guys maybe so though
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