I am always self conscious of my little bloated belly.. Dam this IBS and food sensitivity issues
I had one guy telling me he finds it hot haha
I have a bit of a gut too so why would I have a problem with it?
I think a little bit of chub is hot and attractive.
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Okay but the picture above is a little. You have to remember she's sitting down and when everyone sits down, their belly fat suddenly goes from 0 to 10. Look at her arms, there's not a lot of excess fat on them and her legs have a normal amount. People can be so cruel online and then do the exact opposite in real life, they're just hypocrites. I don't think belly fat matters, people are always growing and in different stages of their weight and to judge them on one sole second out of their whole life is unfair.
The girls in the images don't have just a little tummy fat, that is a lot for a woman, even for a man. However, if she ois overall skinny and doesn't have abs and her belly is soft I doubt most guys would make a big deal. This is how a bit of tummy fat look like to me.
As an ex anorexic, all I can do is to assure you that most of the guys are seeking a healthy girl, no matter what size as long as they are compatible.
Also, you don't have to starve or be anorexic in order to have a fit body. All you need is exercise and be careful about what you eat, depending on your system.
So if you're bothered about your tummy, it's not glued there, so you can get rid of it with a little effort.
If you're comfortable and you like it this way, then you go girl. Wear it with pride, because there are plenty of guys who not only they are ok with that, but they also love it ^^
I wouldn't go hardcore on it most probably because I am nowhere near perfect myself. I have acknowledge that "Physical Things" matter in that first instance but it is for a short time. If it is meant to work it will work, lets go extreme say somebody has something serious wrong with them (A burn disfigurement), if you get to know them you notice less and less. On a scale a burn disfigurement is probably 95/100 and a little tummy fat about 5/100. People notice but how much or for how long depends on the person. The question is enough to care, probably not a great deal if there connections on other levels developing.
I mainly store on that area. This is why the idea of having enough body fat for my periods to come back (aka my body fuctioning normally) still feels so far away. Maybe one day.
But you. A female person who is feeling mental discomfort because of their body. Keep on reading. It's not a competition. No woman is beautiful enough. That fact doesn't stop you from wanting it. It has such a strong connection to your femininity in your mind. Eat better and work out. Make your average day a little or a lot different. It makes you feel good physically and can make you more conventionally attractive. But then again, that's it. Don't take it so personally. We're all on the same boat fighting over small crumbs of positive attention for shallow reasons aware of it or not. If you really understood what I said, you just took the first step on the road of actually not giving a fuck.
Not as 'little' as girls has in pic above, that is fat...
Yes, I like some meat on bones, but not as much...
I hate anorexic ones, that just reminds me slaves or cancer patients.
Any of those crazy diet freaks or starving zombies are not for me...
Just eat what you want and workout, gym or some sports activity, dance stuff after...
Especially I hate those who make her boyfriend or husband to be on same diet as her, but she finds all those cheats and excuses not to do it, but he has to do it perfectly...
Guys you know that goes both ways. I don't have a belly at all, and have had guys who look like they're nine months prego with triplets pursue me... eewww! I don't find paunches attractive at all. If you're going to pursue a woman who's fit, then you're going to have to be fit yourself.
If it's a little or some, then no I don't care. If it's a lot, then I do care. You don't need a flat stomach to be attractive. I just care about the girl being healthy
For what you showed in the images it's just unhealthy and not that attractive.
No, I don't mind at all! I honestly wouldn't even care at all. I've seen a lot of cute and attractive girls that have a bit of belly on them, and it's not a turn off to me whatsoever. I'll still be attracted to you even if you have a bit of tummy.
A lot of people struggle with trying to get rid of a bit of stubborn tummy fat. Something as insignificant as a bit of extra tummy isn't going to turn me off.
Mhh... that's a bit more than what I pictured as "a little". I don't find it attractive in men or women, specially if they are under their 40s. BUT, there are many other people out there who are ok with it or even prefer it.
Side note: there are many normal girls who eat out there that aren't anorexic and have smaller bellies. Repeat, normal girls. They are as normal as you.
As a man then belly fat, cellulite any of those things don't bother me, what matters is that I matter to her as much as she does to me.
The only thing that I can't cope with is hairy legs, that's a no no. The rest is how she treats me, what she does to show me I'm important to her, if she respects me and trusts me, her mind when it comes to sex is important
The rest is just something that can be worked out later.
I love girls with tummy fat. It is natural, soft, and super cute. Girls with chubby bellies are far more attractive than the borderline anorexics they try to pass of as "models".
1) I have actual standards, and I'm not blind, so... yes.
2) Lots of guys care. Not all though.
3) A "little" fat? Are you kidding? Those ^ chicks up there are straight-up fat, not "little" fat. Is this a joke?
I’ve never cared about belly fat on the men I’ve dated from age 16 until now. And I’ve realized that the men don’t care either. It’s easy to say what your individual standards are but in reality you can’t help who you end up attracted to it’s science and biology. Those that stick to their ideals, don’t end up very happy or satisfied... something is always Amiss.
Not at all. I care if she keeps passing her insecurities onto me.
I'm with you, I go out with you, I cuddle with you, I have sex with you, why would you possibly think I have a problem with it? lol it's infuriating.
Most girls have a little bit of a belly. Welcome to real life, my darlings.
It doesn't matter if you have a completely flat stomach or rock hard abs - if you sit or hunch over, say hello to PUDGE!
Young men are shown flawless women in images from a young age. Of course they're going to have a distorted idea.
I prefer a bigger girl with big curves. But if having big curves comes with a big belly, I hardly even care and I’ll even take a big girl with a substantially big belly. I’m not really negative to bigger girls like so many other people though. You don’t know what’s going on with them always.
Depends on how much you mean by “a little” because those pictures are definitely more than a little.
I love a big juicy belly :) The kind of girl you can take for a gourmet dinner and who will fill your arms when cuddling afterward.
Nobody likes fat honey. If you are then do something about it. If not, then just rock whatcha got. But in all cases, find a guy that likes YOU just the way YOU are. Then it doesn't matter what strangers on the internet like or think.
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