I have a HUGE CRUSH for more than 3 years, I can't stop thinking about him.. How to ask him out ( I have 0% confidence)?

[kawaiojo]

Okay, I dared to check him out... he is sooo hot! and my type that I think he is the ONE.. and also I like his humor and hard working logical personality..( I thought he wouldn't notice me checking him out secretly... ahm ) My bad he caught me! & our eyes meet! I was so embarassed & I quickly pretended like I was typing somthing in my laptop.. then after few minutes a really hot chick started to flirt with him & obviously it made me mad cause I was suffering from LOTS of insecurities like I'm not that pretty like other girls & my family is like over religious and wouldn't let me to dressup pretty ( SUCKS!!) by the way ( we both are in college) So due to late night studying and cramming I can't take care of myself properly..& I'm kinda chubby... and My crush is 100% polar opposite of me... I'm jealous of his brain... Like seriously! He is insanely talented and gifted in every way possible that sometimes it feels like He is out of my league... He has all straight A's and takes all higher level courses that breaks my brain and I finally realized that there is no way that we are NEVER gonna be in the same lecture ever!! I love him so much that its crazy... but I lack balls to ask him out and not sure if he is single or not ( I secretly stalk him on social media and looks like he is single.. and my friends also confirmed that he has no girlfriend.. but he said he is not ready for girlfriend yet cause he is hard worker af lol! ) ... I also wanna give him a space and would like to establish myself first! then I would like to make a move then again at the same fucking time I wanna date him soo badly!.. I'm confused please help me out... Now I realized that I liked him for his looks at first but now I like him beyond his looks...( My friends said that he might be a play boy though... But I never saw him with other girls..) ..

[Snakeyes7]

This might be from my idle speculation but the chances of your advances being successful is way higher than you might expect. This definitely depends on the girl but a lot of strategies I hear from pickup artist tutorials is to play 4D chess because of all the “chase”, picking up hints and trying to figure out if the crush is trying to bullshit you to be flirtatious (aka playing hard to get). If you reverse the genders, you would remove all of that crap from the equation and get right to the point.

If you are absolutely sure he doesn’t have a girlfriend even after three years I’d say it’s worth a shot.

[soleil2666]

Well you have to ask yourself why you 'love' him. By the sounds of it, you love how we is able to be hot and fit and smart all at the same time - so you want the recipe. (Relax, I'm not judging, it's fine).
Of course, you can't just ask him because you'd lose face. And therein lies the problem - it has nothing to do with love and all to do with what you admire and how you want to be admired.
Take it easy on narcissism, nothing's that spectacularly great except while you wear rose tinted glasses. All people sweat and poo (and that's not any more gross than babies doing it)

[Lauren-green]

There is when social media can be a good way to start a conversation with someone if you struggle to say things to him in person. It would be a good way to get the ball rolling

[adam_1]

You need to calm the fuck down.

Crush for 3 years; that's insane.

Pretty sure if anything romantic were going to happen, it would've happened by now.

Also, just have a friend ask him, if he is interested. Wtf 🤦🏻‍♂️

[kawaiojo]

I forgot to mention that he blushed when I looked at him in the eyes... it was hot! he likes me he knows that , but He is wayyy too busy rn...

[IamStag]

For me it seems that you don't actually love him, you rather love the attributes and qualities he represents. My advice would be to start love yourself first, than start working on yourself. You will than see its derivatives, the magic happen.

[KrakenAttackin]

You miss 100% of the shots you never take. Man the fuck up and ask him out.

[outside_Toronto]

This is retarded. Never gonna work