My boyfriend checks out other girls way too much?

[Anonymous]

My relationship is basically too good to be true the only problem I have, the ONLY problem is that my boyfriend is waaay too interested in other girls. He stares at them, he stares at them in front of me and he is seeking their attention for some reason. Sometimes it’s the same girl, not just complete strangers. I can tell when he has someone he is crushing on because he will start talking about her unusually a lot. There are girls who have been intrusive and who gets rude towards me probably because they see me as a rival or something I don’t know! I am so sick and tired of it!!! I don’t know what to do! I have talked to him a bit about this and he said that he doesn’t “hit” on girls but he does? He show them interest! For so long I thought it was something wrong with me but I know it’s not. Seriously what in the world should I do? Help me out?

[reptocarl]

Talking “a bit” isn’t good enough. You’re going to have to get in his face and tell him you don’t like it and how it makes you feel when he does. in my opinion it’s very insensitive, disrespectful and rude. He’s a jerk. If after you tell him and it doesn’t change or changes for awhile then slowly becomes a problem again then it will never change and you will have a decision

[Asker]

The thing is that he isn’t the “typical” jerk he is the sweetest guy but does this thing all the time. I don’t want him to feel like he can’t look at anyone else but in my opinion he is taking it to far which is hard to prove because it’s looks. I see it because I see everything lol. Feel like I have had enough now. I mean imagine that there is nothing wrong about your relationship except one thing, is it a decent reason to leave someone for one just one thing that they do that hurts you?

[reptocarl]

Only you can answer that. If it will never change is that a deal breaker or can you learn to accept that’s just the way he is and you love him anyway. How would he react if it were reversed? For me it would be a deal breaker

[Asker]

I don’t know but I’ve treated him the same way and he was sad and didn’t like it at all so... kinda funny how someone don’t like it when you treat them the way they treat you.

[reptocarl]

All you can do is tell him like I said then go from there. This is common. All of us have had that one that’d be perfect if only. . .

[Exorcist_Rampage]

Tell him you hate that and see if he listens. If not, find a new boyfriend. No sense in keeping him.

[Kelly6]

Very common