Hi,
So
I am extremely attracted to my personal trainer. I have not made any advances as that’s just creepy but, he made advances.
I don’t mind and am not looking to fire him, so I don’t need that kind of advice.
What I am asking you is if you think the degree he took it to was a bit much and that maybe I should be weary.
He picked up 40 pound dunbells. I laughed and said I bet you I could not lift that. He said to me well I will bet you $25. I said how about $.25. He told me why don’t you just give me… Got all red in the face and said never mind.
I asked him what he was going to say, but told me to forget it. He wasn’t being rude when he told me to forget it he was just shocked he even said something like that. After that comment I started to lift, and he started to spot me. I’ve been working out with trainers my whole life I know what spotting looks like. He was on his knees with his private area completely aligned with the top of my forehead and I felt his pants on top of my forehead inching closer and closer to my nose.
I don’t know if I should be flattered because I like him, or if this is a bit much?
He also has made other comments, within the last two weeks since hiring him.
I’ve never had a trainer flat out joke about me giving him oral sex.
Did I misunderstand his comment?
So
I am extremely attracted to my personal trainer. I have not made any advances as that’s just creepy but, he made advances.
I don’t mind and am not looking to fire him, so I don’t need that kind of advice.
What I am asking you is if you think the degree he took it to was a bit much and that maybe I should be weary.
He picked up 40 pound dunbells. I laughed and said I bet you I could not lift that. He said to me well I will bet you $25. I said how about $.25. He told me why don’t you just give me… Got all red in the face and said never mind.
I asked him what he was going to say, but told me to forget it. He wasn’t being rude when he told me to forget it he was just shocked he even said something like that. After that comment I started to lift, and he started to spot me. I’ve been working out with trainers my whole life I know what spotting looks like. He was on his knees with his private area completely aligned with the top of my forehead and I felt his pants on top of my forehead inching closer and closer to my nose.
I don’t know if I should be flattered because I like him, or if this is a bit much?
He also has made other comments, within the last two weeks since hiring him.
I’ve never had a trainer flat out joke about me giving him oral sex.
Did I misunderstand his comment?
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