I tried to talk to him about it twice and told him I didn’t feel like a priority. He said he didn’t like to make plans because he forgets he made them, he’s not ready for a relationship and he doesn’t spend a lot of time with me because he doesn’t want to get attached. He also said he didn’t think I was very interested and he has said he doesn’t feel like I’m his type or that I’m attracted to him. He said he wanted to be best friends first. So I tried but I still felt like the last person he wanted to see and he was my priority. Even though I made him my priority I did my own thing and didn’t just jump whenever he wanted to see me. I wasn’t clingy and usually waited for him to text me first.
I’ve been ignoring him since Sunday. I need space because I was getting attached and he needs it as well. But I still want him, even if it is just friends for now, but I actually want to feel like a friend. What am I supposed to do now? I want him to miss me and figure out what he wants.
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