I wish I could do MyTake updates but I can't so I gotta do it here...
Regarding my last mytake Strong/Weak men Please understand I have 100+ replys 30+ tags. There's no way I can answer them all. I do read them all however. So please don't think I am ignoring you personally. I've had two guys who threatened to hit me over this MyTake. it's just kinda out of hand. With all the upset , ranting , making no cent replys thanks Thanks for understanding
A guy's ego is his persona, tied up in his reputation, reflects what he stands for. Yes, if you disrespect a guy and insult his ego you may as well tell him to FUCK OFF. You're kinda new at all this, aren't you?
@asshole_ - Guys are simply not the same as women. That is THE biggest lie of feminism - that everybody is the same. They're just not. And by 31 you should know better.
i think women must get numb to it but its not such a regular thing to see women attack men in such a way so the incel crew love to pipe up when they do rather than challenge the notion all men are the same
i have a huge ego too but one thing we both share is the fact its not over inflated which gives us the ability to see the bigger picture from an objective view...
Most have grown up in a liberal saturated feminist home most likely to a single mother or had a cuckolded dad and lived in a limited environment. Few had the opportunity to have a job at 9yo, drive trucks at ten, get in street fights as kids, and get stitches for it. Sports were commonplace for boys and now it is limited. Few have had it rough and ever responded to crises in their lives and most likely have been coddled instead. Most were handed a pc or a phone and told, “go away.” Too little personal social interaction will also create high insecurities and anxieties. They have been trained by the feminists not to be “toxic-masculine.” When I see guys analyzing “toxic-masculinity”, I cringe. The West is becoming the lands of she-men and tootie-fruities.
Well I haven't read your mytake yet but a lot of men (and women for that matter) have overblown egos on here because life is shitting on them. They hate their real life so they get on here and pretend their life is better. When someone threatens that they get upset because they want to still pretend they are in paradise.
Yeah I have an ego but it comes from the good things that have happened to me in real life. I'm like this on here and in person. I'm just naturally a narcissist lol. But for most guys on here this is the only place where they can pretend to be important.
Yeah I know. I don't think most people are fragile. Just a lot of the guys on here. I'm always amazed at how many on here are single, 25 or older, virgins. Kind of sad.
Not sure. I guess Sal. I don't watch it a ton but they are funny. I didn't think so until I actually sat down and watched them. They got that niche of making awkward moments.
Lack of any sort of real masculinity. A masculine man doesn't care what anyone says. Your opinion doesn't bother him because it's just your opinion.
A man who's more narcissistic (has a much higher opinion of himself than he actually deserves, and so finds it a necessity to keep others' opinions of him just as high) will get butthurt at the slightest insult and lash out with false machismo to restore his facade.
So if you want to see if he's a real man, insult him. If he reacts like a teenager, stay away from him. If he laughs with you at his own expense and insults you right back, you might have found someone to hold on to.
A generation raised by single mothers and a society bent on misandry, a generation on from them and men have beem effeminized and told to hate their sexuality, gender, masculinity their traditional role in society and are generally held in contempt meaning no one really cares or gives voice to it. Men latch onto any form of attention even a little bit can seem like a lot and they'll say man this girl loves me so much and so well. So the question isn't why but why wouldn't they have fragile egos?
So many boys that want to be men but don't know how to be.
Because guys don't have an indipendant worth. It's a hard concept to explain but men are inherently disposable so any attack is perceived as something that must be quashed quickly. Instead guys are judged by their profession, income and other activities.
@Liam_Hayden I agree. Having self-worth makes it impossible for anyone to devalue you, and so you don't get offended because their uninformed opinion doesn't matter
@Liam_Hayden no a strong man is itself an identity. Men as a group have no societal worth, a strong man has worth, an employee has worth, a father has worth, but a mma? No not from a purely social standpoint. You're tying your worth to sn identity. That's the whole point, from a biological perspective men are worthless, even the prefex for male human was removed from our language because we chose to instead embrace craft names tinkerman, nobleman, smithyman, etc. In old English the prefex were was a gender term for man as in a wereman and woman. To say I have a place because I am a ______ man is just proving my point. Because we won't say that a man has basic worth just because he exists.
cuz we accually like it when you hurt us... it's what brings us back for more... and having a fragile ego makes it all the easier to get off on y'all hurting us... <3
If it was a person and directed at I could understand. not a view of the whole gender that's just wild.
That's like me screaming at you because you said you don't like cats and I have a cat? You weren't talking about my cat specifically so why would I be upset?
You mean you "couldn't care less", right? :) Men have fragile egos for a multitude of reasons, all of which stem from some basic insecurities. They're afraid of failing, they're seek validation and reinforcement, they don't want to be told they're wrong, or they're ignorant on a topic, and they can't handle rejection because they can't imagine WHY anyone (female) wouldn't want them.
It's sad to me actually if you care what others think that much you are going to really struggle in life. I care if I know the person if I have a relationship with them. But just some dude I don't know, no could give two shits less. It doesn't matter he doesn't pay my bills why do I care what someone thinks I dy even know?
Meh. I mean I don't think that weak men are special. So, yeah, there are men that are weak. But what makes a weak man "worse" than a weak woman? In my opinion there's no difference. Like, hey, don't be weak as a person. Period. I wouldn't want to date a weak woman just like you wouldn't date a weak man. 🤷♂️
Our world is obsessed with what other people think and people go out of their way to try and get others to like them so it doesn’t take much to break that kind of person.
Oh no... time to hurt some feelings... did you know that that little dot head bastard took a break from diving in streams of cow piss to snitch me out for trying to help him
Lmao "calling guys going through hard times weak... even thought you don't know the situation-as you've admitted. don't you think you're being a bit hypocritical?"
get over yourself, i've followed you for a long time-in fact, i think you followed me first. as for you, skeetskeetskeet, please, spare me your machismo. even the wimpiest of boys can act alpha behind a computer and in the safety of their home.
Yeah they can... only difference I've walked the walk so i can talk. The talk... if you ever get to walk a 4 yard at the bay you'll know what i mean...
and you would be way off-just showing more ignorance. but i am amused about the irony of you creating this just for the sake of whining about ''glass egos''. a weak person wouldn't be able to remain civil... and which one of us is attacking the other?
''I came out better and stronger. You don't know my life and struggle anymore than I do yours. So let's not be dumb and assume things'' ''You don't know me to be speaking to me as you are. I'm not being negative about mine online though so chill please''-i admit, i'm not sure what the hell that was about.
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